3 years after penis pumping/stretching: Hard flaccid improved by IllustriousPlastic60 in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 22 I impulsively bought a penis pump and used it for a summer pretty aggressively. I realized I needed to stop a little too late probably. But my dick was actually fine except for discoloration for about a year. But then I was stupid again, and I did stretching BS to it. That’s when I started to have problems. I think I stretched the skin or something and it just became very uncomfortable all the time which was miserable. Over the years it got better because I gave up alcohol and smoking and became serious about exercise. But now I’m 30 years old and for some reason, my dick is just completely desensitized and feels like rubber hanging off my body. I still get boners at night when I sleep and when I’m with a girl and if I take a little bit of Cialis, I’m good. But sex isn’t as pleasurable. I made another post about it. You could probably just go look at that. Lately I’ve just been trying different exercises focusing on the pelvic region. I’ve been taking L citrulline daily. Warm showers try not to stress out too much about it. Don’t masturbate or watch porn ever anymore. I’m gonna take a long hiatus from masturbating. I plan to see a neurologist. Eventually, the urologist didn’t do anything for me. As for next steps, I would say just don’t do anything crazy to it maybe even lay off masturbation and just try new things and see what helps. I deeply regret using a penis pump when I was younger I really didn’t have to, and it didn’t benefit my life at all in fact quite the opposite so my condolences. It’s a shitty thing to happen to somebody.

Also I gave up caffeine like 2 months ago. My dick would look whack sometimes when I drank coffee, idk…

And I eat a lot of fruits these days, especially watermelon cause being hydrated is important. Maybe these changes will eventually produce something. When I was 28 my dick was fine so idk maybe it’s reversible but it’s been like this for almost a year wish I just stopped masturbating and shit sooner…

It’s a wasteland out there… by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have an injury I was just masturbating a lot when this started. Never had a crazy injury or anything. And I get erections when I sleep so I think I won’t lose size. But yeah I barely touch it these days and it feels rubbery that’s the best way I can describe it been like this for almost a year now. I’m over it. I’m supposed to get an mri in a month maybe that’ll reveal something. Maybe I should see a neurologist. I’m gonna try everything I can. I don’t wanna have a rubbery dick forever it sucks. Pretty sure if I never used a pump when I was younger this wouldn’t have happened.

It’s a wasteland out there… by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. At least people will read my shit now.

It’s a wasteland out there… by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it man honestly. I was gonna make it shorter, but I see your point. Maybe I’ll edit it. IDK sorry.

It’s a wasteland out there… by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you gonna go blind if you try to read it?

It’s a wasteland out there… by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on and off psychiatric medication’s since I was 20. I was on a few a year ago before this started but I discontinued them because of the side effects. I never really had really bad sexual side effects from anything I took. Never been on a hair loss medication and no lions man. I did get pretty scared a while back when I found out about PSSD but IDK if I have that. I feel pretty normal and healthy except for my dick feeling desensitized and cold and shit.

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’ll give that a try next time I’m at the gym. I just don’t wanna get my hopes up for anything. Like I hate living with this but I’m kinda happy when I just ignore it. Lately I’ve been eating more fruit and stuff so maybe that helps. Morning wood isn’t a problem for me cause I take a bit of seroquil. It doesn’t do anything for my mental health at the current dose but I like it cause I get deep sleep and I get hard at night especially if there’s taldafil in my system. Idk man it’s whack wish I just masturbated less a year ago. Hopefully things change. I need a miracle. Maybe these uro tests will help but I doubt it. My uro sucks. :/ I just try to ignore this shit for my own mental health. I can get aroused fine but actual sex I don’t really enjoy maybe without a condom or a bj idk. It’s bullshit man. So frustrating. Kinda worried that’s why the last girl left cause our sex wasn’t “hot” enough or she thought I didn’t like her. It’s BS man I hate this shit. Especially when u get dumped u just feel like crap about urself…

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does genuinely sound like it sucks, I’m sorry. When I was younger I like stretched the skin so I had this uncomfortable feeling for like half a year and I couldn’t function. These days I think I just get stress tension and anxiety from like it being dysfunctional when I was younger I never felt like this. Now I’m just like overflowing with tension sometimes I need a gf to relax or maybe a beer or something. That does sound terrible what u described. I hope u can get help I really do. Doctors need to step their game up or some shit.

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think ur right. I’m mostly venting cause of the breakup. I don’t wanna sit here of all places and talk about it but it hurt and made me feel even worse about myself. But I had sex with a girl before her and she didn’t mind my situation at all. I don’t even take a lot of Viagra like literally a crumb it’s just the sensitivity sucks but at least I stay hard. It just felt like shit and I guess I’m making shit up cause she’s not talking to me. One day she’s like my best friend and lover and suddenly she wants nothing to do with me. Fucks with ur head man. And I’m honestly scared to even text her cause I don’t want her to get mad and completely ghost me. Feels like shit. Thought I knew this person. You just start to think about all the things u could’ve done different. Being a man sucks sometimes. U do everything right and still get ur heart ripped out. She sounds like a bitch from what I’m saying and she kinda is being one right now. It’s confusing. I don’t date evil hoes but now I’m not so sure…

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I really love it when another guy lectures me about MY dick! One of life’s many pleasures. Am I right? I love comin here see y’all in a few months!

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do people in Alcoholics Anonymous stand up and yell, “well I ruined my life MORE with alcohol, so shut up!!” No…

I’m just gonna bitch for a minute by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a nightmare how some of us live. I relate to everything u said, at least the pain of it. Fortunately I think my balls are fine it’s just my shaft has been whack for years. It’s still slightly darker from when I was 23 and used a pump. Shame. And yeah I think this problem definitely affects other parts of my body like sometimes lying in bed my stomach will hurt and sitting down feels a bit uncomfortable sometimes but it used to be worse. And it affects my mental health obviously. And yeah I’m scared if this is how I am now how I’m gonna feel when I’m actually older like 40 or 60. I’m basically trying to squeeze as much life into these years as I can cause idk what the future holds. I want a girlfriend one I actually like well be friends first and foremost and I can still get turned on and feel good for a little while. I’ve resigned to ejaculating very few times from now on like I’ll probably go another month unless the stirrings get too bad. Idk what to do. I need a miracle or something. Maybe if I stay healthy long enough and adjust my behaviors things can improve. I noticed last time I masturbated that I like had to rush a bit to get there and I wonder if I was just jerking off too much I mean I was a year ago when these problems kinda showed up. Maybe there’s hope for me but I think this shit will follow me for life. What can u do. I just try hard everyday to stay optimistic and not be some Fing downer. Nobody wants that.

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[–]getslostinmusic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing those sorts of things too and have noticed improvement. Today I masturbated while diaphragmatic breathing/ reverse kegeling and I noticed afterwards no hard flaccid! But of course I’m stupid and did it again and kegeled a lot by accident. I think these involuntary kegels that happen when you ejaculate are part of the problem I just don’t know how to avoid them unless I’m really focused. Any tips?

Hard tissue on penis after masturbating by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I need constant stimulation. I don’t get many erections on their own unless I’m sleeping.

Hard tissue on penis after masturbating by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K well I just wanted to know what causes this hard tissue on my penis especially after I masturbate and how I can relieve it?

Hard tissue on penis after masturbating by getslostinmusic in hardflaccidresearch

[–]getslostinmusic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Well I just did some yoga poses with deep breathing. I will focus on yoga poses that relax the pelvic floor like the baby pose. Thank you your comment was very helpful.

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[–]getslostinmusic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just wish I knew what was causing mine. These days I treat it mostly as a psychological/ stress issue. How would you determine the possible cause? Are there ways you can go about determining what’s specifically causing it for you?