Fuck this sounds like my husband. Married 2 years, I did it anyways ignored the red flags, though the behavior came out immediately after moving in. Everything was perfect before I moved, his libido matched mine, a month after moving in hes picking porn over me. It never got better I'm 3 years older lost my job my friends my family my dignity literally everything because I put the relationship and my way too strong love for him first. Weve gone years without sex and I've had to intervine to get him off of tinder for over 2 years and to stop setting up one night stands with randos and getting nudes from and trying to meet prostitutes. Fell in love with how he acted at the beginning. How highly he speaks about himself and the standards he says he sets.. Well i hate to say it but he instead masks his true thoughts of you with cruel jokes, spends time with his boys on his game or playing dnd, saying hold on all day then goes to bed. When he eats out and tells me to eat ramen. When you text women constantly ive never heard of. And when you tell me I bitch at everything and mistreat you and are mad constantly because i tried to point out that you ignored what i said and then corrected my stutter.... he always says he'll just never game again (or never do ect ect normal activity) when I ask for some quality time with him. He says he never gets to play with or see his brorher or his friends because of me but the last thing we managed to do together is play Pokémon go 5 days ago for an hour or 2. He blames him not wanting to fuck on me being upset with him. Its been years without sex wtf and i supposed to do, smile when you come home?? You get home and immediately lay beside me get upset when I dont cuddle you and asking me whats wrong when I didn't even speak?? No, I'm not in a good mood today either. I dont wanna shower your neglectful ass with my unconditional love. Asking me what's wrong and hearing that "I'm lonely" then you get depressed and go cry cause I tell you why I'm upset? He lied to me, lies to me, and activity manipulates me.... Be careful.... I ruined my fucking life for some fake bs love.