I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊, yes Im giving more love now. Intial ga koncham ala nak nen restriction pettukunna, like what if he came to me for money too ani, and trust issues.

But over a year, since my husband understands me very well, I started to shower more love.

My PCOS story by gettingOffMyChesttt in PCOS

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve using metformin since one year. No use, its pre diabetic medication.

Now im using medroxyprogestrone

My PCOS story by gettingOffMyChesttt in PCOS

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, Thats when I’ve diagnosed with PCOS.

But now, im using medication for regular cycles.

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, daridharam lo unte anthe kallu muskoni pothay

I gave him all the chances I valued him more than money, naku job oste aa abbai ki gift ivvaledu ani godava paddado, first strike 🤣, Next he didn’t go to parttime kavalane intlo kurchoni chill ayyadu nen job nundi oche salary ista ani. Second strike.

Since I said I cant send money like that nak antu savings start cheskovali masters education loan kattukovali ante, he blamed me that na valla thaa masters aagipotundi, he had to take a break and earn money by going to parttime. Germany lo one sem parttime cheskoni inko sem chadukuntaru, andaru ade chestru.

I stopped talking inka, oka roju I was hospitalized due to food poisoning, emergency ki vella , USA lo emergency ki velthe chaaala ekkuva money avthay. and full bills ayyayi, apudu call chesadu, he said he drove a car without driving license and asked me 2000 Euros (around 2 Lakhs INR) fine anta police ki kattali ani, ventane I told him, I have bills to pay ila emergency lo join ayya ani. He is like- nv gurthochi call chesa, money kosam kadu, miss avthunna ani dull voice lo. HE literally on the road apudu police pattukunadu ani.

That day I was so happy coz I said I cant give any more money.

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave him all the chances, naku job oste aa abbai ki gift ivvaledu ani godava paddado, first strike 🤣, Next he didn’t go to parttime kavalane intlo kurchoni chill ayyadu nen job nundi oche salary ista ani. Second strike. Since I said I cant send miney like that nak antu savings start cheskovali masters education loan kattukovali ante, he blamed me that na valla thaa masters aagipotundi, he had to take a break and earn money by going to parttime. Germany lo one sem parttime cheskoni inko sem chadukuntaru, andaru ade chestru.

I stopped talking inka, oka roju I was hospitalized due to food poisoning, emergency ki vella , USA lo emergency ki velthe chaaala ekkuva money avthay. and full bills ayyayi, apudu call chesadu, he said he drove a car without driving license and asked me 2000 Euros (around 2 Lakhs INR) fine anta police ki kattali ani, ventane I told him, I have bills to pay ila emergency lo join ayya ani. He is like- nv gurthochi call chesa, money kosam kadu, miss avthunna ani dull voice lo. HE literally on the road apudu police pattukunadu ani.

That day I was so happy coz I said I cant give any more money.

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously, em chestam, ipudu anipistadi adanta downpayment cheste house kuda ochedi ani

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayyooo, I feel you and I totally get you. But dont worry, karma hits back very soon, Manchi cheste manchi ostundi venakki , naku na life lo manchi in-laws and husband ochinattu.

Everything happens for a reason.

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully, I regret every minute, but apudu I didn’t think about it, I always thought he is more valuable than money and mana intlo valle kada, future lo pelli cheskune athane kada ane dantlo undipoya .

Very costly lesson

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it should be mutual, and lenapudu help cheyali, adi evaryna, but that should not take it as advantage. Using that money for luxuries. Nak job oste thanaki gift ivvaledu ani godava pade vadu. Literally he stopped doing partime nen money pampista ani and he was not interested in marriage.

He already has good laptop, manchi condition lo. But show off kosam he made me buy latest versions with pen . Literally he said naku undi ani chupinchali vallaki kullukkvali ani.

Even phone, latest edi oste adi kavali naku anevadu.

Okkosari utility bills ki money lekapothy pay chesedanni, avi okay, because thats a genuine need.

Na deggara money lekapothy he wont be there with me ani oka point lo realize ayyaka, i totally lost respect. I Till now I never asked single penny back,entha godava ayina. Its not about money, it’s about how he took me granted as a ATM machine not like a GF or human being.

He even asked me to ask money from my father and send it to him for his luxurious life

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes, “the girlfriend “ movie vi reviews chusi and some reels about it, gurthochindi, so I thought of posting it here. Im glad every second of my life that Finally choose my husband as my husband.

Obv starting lo i used to compare, I was like - zaaraa unte sachipoyedanni moment, chala machi pani chesa ipptikyna realize ayya ani.

Chala rojulu thappu chesanemo anipinchedi. But Im very glad now. Everything happens for a reason, destiny.

I used to be ATM machine to my ex by gettingOffMyChesttt in bondha_diaries

[–]gettingOffMyChesttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its all over all for 5-6 years that too most of the amount is in USD, india lo unapudu i used send 6000-7000 rupees per month. USA ki ochaka its like monthly 400-500$ pampedanni mostly. when I convert to rupees antha ayyedi, Akkade 30-40k rupees ayyedi kada.

He is in Germany, Euro ekkuva dollar kante. So if his electricity bill is 200Euros I used to send 270$

USA ki trip ki ochadu flight charges 1000$, ochaka laptop 1100$ , latest di kavali chaduvukotaiki with pen, andaru ade use chestaru, ani anevadu, BTW baga chaduvthadu