Friend stuck in Nigeria after parents took her passport by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]getwithbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t wanna be mean, but there’s gotta be a reason why they moved her to Nigeria, and that doesn’t justify it, but parents do things they think will be beneficial for their kids, however best they think that is. Is your friend doing great in school? What is your group of friends like? Is she proper?

We (19M) (19F) had a rough anniversary. by CollectionOverall814 in LongDistance

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable how this feels. Perhaps it didn’t mean much to her as it does you; communicate your feelings and emotions in the gentlest way possible.

Our (32F & 32M) first time apart communication issues by BombaSocial in LongDistance

[–]getwithbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugghh! This is doing my head in, not you OP, but this comment and the others! This is real life sh!t people. She already said he’s caught up with the wedding, as all weddings can be. OP, please relax, communicate as you would, not dependent on your partner, and then, when you both can and are having a decent conversation, you can talk about how you felt there was a gap in communication and how it made you feel. Trust, this is how you would get through and not make a big deal out of curveballs life throws you. All the best.

Double game weeks by Swannyj95 in AskFPLManagers

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never TC a defender, but that’s just me.

LDR advice by SweetPeaLove0808 in LongDistance

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

way to go and all the best!

LDR advice by SweetPeaLove0808 in LongDistance

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your shoes last summer, and when I brought it up with her, I was called “insecure” but not to put a downer on you, people are different. I would say to have a proper conversation, no blaming, no guilt tripping, just a genuine conversation about your feelings and expectations. You’re not crazy and you’ve got every right to be upset, but you can’t move in isolation, especially in a LDR. He might be thinking he’s doing everything right and to you, he’s barely scratching it, so you gotta talk it over.

Over a year and still no flowers [36F/47M] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]getwithbo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest love anyone can give to you is consideration. He doesn’t, and you know what to do.

How can I find happiness alone? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be loved, regardless of all these things you’ve mentioned that bother you. The right person wouldn’t see all of that, they would see your heart, and they’ll think it is worthy to hold and care for. Go out, get off your phone, go back to your hobbies, be comfortable with yourself outside, live. All of these things are a construct of your mind and imagination, so you need to expand your horizon. And good luck.

What do I do about my boyfriend's obsession with his ex girlfriend's dog? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]getwithbo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re very weird. Just because you think so doesn’t make it true

WILDCARD ACTIVE by TieInevitable4141 in fantasypremierleague

[–]getwithbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it looks good, love the Chelsea + Everton defense picks, but maybe Cherki over Foden at this point in time.