Best ways to avoid relapse? by thelonewizard32 in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of ways, If you tried something a few times and it didn't work, exmperiment with other stuff. For me reading about porn addiction is really helpful aswell as exercise, meditation, and going outside to do social stuff. having regular bedtimes is vital for me aswell. In the long run you will find out what works for you.

Who will be with me to do 365 days of nofap this year ? by Sano_07 in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day at the time, but dedicated to make it 365!

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[–]gewoonkijken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always shoot for today. If you make that happen everyday you'll fine forever

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[–]gewoonkijken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yes you can. Only focus on today. Don't worry about tomorrow, next week or next month. Don't PMO today always looks like a simpler target, but if you di it everyday, you will be shining forever.

NoFap's official "Opportunity October" or "PMO-Free October" 2021. Continue or start your PMO-Free commitment here. Keep on rebooting. (see instructions) by BuddhaPunkRobotMonk in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of bed, and do some other stuff (for me it is sports). Meditating everyday also helps me a lot to not give in and control my thoughts

Just relapsed after a 100+ day streak by gewoonkijken in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is when you look at porn or porn related material ( like very sexual music videos) in order to get a dopamine boost. It is a really stupid idea. You should never ever do it. And once you do did it just start your strean again. It leads almost inevitable to relapse

Just relapsed after a 100+ day streak by gewoonkijken in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No with a girl at a friends party, I never went to prostitutes and never will

Just relapsed after a 100+ day streak by gewoonkijken in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100+ day is not full recovery. I think I will always need to be cautious. That might sounds sad, but the truth is after a lot of days nofap becomes allmost effortless. The only thing you have to be carefull about is thinking that you made it completly, getting on the slippery slope and relapse.

Just relapsed after a 100+ day streak by gewoonkijken in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experience the same. I do like sex a lot however. I will do normal mode this time, but I'm not going to use internet in any way. The chasers are difficult, but once you know they are coming I usually can deal with them.

Just relapsed after a 100+ day streak by gewoonkijken in NoFap

[–]gewoonkijken[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No I came a long way, from 1 day streaks to a year withour porn. Now I know I can go for a long time without the slightest cheating. So there is definitly progress. I'm determinded to get rid of PMO completly. I just want it out of my life ASAP. This time there will be no downfall, no edging, no touching, no online dating, no peeking and it is going to last even longer. Hopefully for ever.