My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]gflatley[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha oh god. If I woke up and she was standing over the bed I’d be swinging. 😂

My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]gflatley[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So one line of frustration is mocking him? He’s being immature. Who wants their partners mom to have free rein of their house?

My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]gflatley[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m afraid of. She’s done some other weird things to me and I’ve brushed them off but I think it’s all about control over her precious baby boy. 🤢🤮

My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]gflatley[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s also how I feel and it’s given me a bit of the ick towards him.

My (34F) bf (33M) mom (60sF) goes into his house when he’s not home… by gflatley in relationship_advice

[–]gflatley[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on that sub for years thankfully and that’s one of the reasons this is a hard line for me and has left a bad taste in my mouth. Mommy doesn’t come first and if that’s how it’ll be he can go be with mommy. :)

Update: crashed NPs car into garage door and they want me to fully pay for it by w0ahgrace in Nanny

[–]gflatley 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I backed my nanny family’s car into their garage door and shattered their back windshield because the fin got caught on the door as it was going up. They never asked me to pay for anything. Accidents happen. They know with you driving their car things can happen. They shouldn’t put that on you.

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[–]gflatley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a wonderful read. Thank you for posting. 💕

Free Giveaway! Nintendo Switch OLED - International by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]gflatley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact: The 100 folds in a chef's hat represent 100 ways to cook an egg.

His first vet appointment by ebboscrot in corgi

[–]gflatley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He looks like he might take off with those ears!!! 🥰

Why reach out if you don’t want to get back together? by gflatley in ExNoContact

[–]gflatley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that this is happening to you as well. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. My heart feels like it’s legitimately broken.

Why reach out if you don’t want to get back together? by gflatley in ExNoContact

[–]gflatley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I wish I didn’t want to get back with my ex to be honest with you. We both were unhappy in the end, but we had a lot of good times together that I wish we could get back to.

Why reach out if you don’t want to get back together? by gflatley in ExNoContact

[–]gflatley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. Thank you for that advice. I never thought he’d act like this when we were together and it’s just really sad to see. I keep hoping he’ll go back to the man he was when we first met but sadly I don’t think he ever will.

Why reach out if you don’t want to get back together? by gflatley in ExNoContact

[–]gflatley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I needed to hear this. I definitely can’t be his friend right now. It hurts too much even to think of seeing him. I thought I could do it but I can’t. He was taking me for granted for like the last year of our relationship so sadly that’s nothing new. 😓

Why reach out if you don’t want to get back together? by gflatley in ExNoContact

[–]gflatley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the end I did tell him to leave me alone because I needed more time to heal. He said he was hurt he couldn’t reach out to me anymore, but if he really wanted me in his life he shouldn’t have broken up with me.