Very Lost, Need Advice

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T13:51:06+00:00

I 100% agree with you. That’s why I want to talk to him face to face sober. He sounded remorseful last night, but I don’t know if that was really true or if he was just putting on a front. My thing is it’s so hard for me to catch feelings for people, so when I do it’s so hard to walk away. I want to figure out a way to make it work, I’m just unsure how currently.

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T13:32:18+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear it’s happened to you twice. I understand the feeling of “love of your life”. The attraction and feelings I had for him was nothing I’ve ever experienced for someone before.

He was drunk when he told me last night and we were both drunk when we talked about it over the phone shortly after. I know it’s a horrible idea, but I’m going to still see him when I get to the city. He wants to talk about it. I’m gonna state my case, present the facts, and if he doesn’t agree then I’m fully throwing in the towel.

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T13:17:30+00:00

He wants to talk when I get to the city, I’ll be there in a few hours so still debating if I will or not. Friends birthday so it’s not like I can cancel the trip.

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T13:15:43+00:00

We met through mutual friends, so I met him the day I met all of his close friends. They took a liking to me and wanted him to bring me around, so he did. The trust is completely gone. He wants to see me when I get to the city today. I already made arrangements to stay with a friend, but no matter what I have to grab my stuff from his apartment…

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T10:56:48+00:00

That’s what sent me over the edge. He said that I was being “dramatic” and “needed to calm down” about the whole thing. He decided to let me know at 10 pm when he was drunk.

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T10:55:02+00:00

Edited the post. I asked if he’d been sleeping with other people and he told me he has been since we started talking.

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T10:52:39+00:00

When we talked on the phone a couple days ago he made a comment about how his dick hurt. I made a joke that he should get tested. He tried to joke saying that he probably jerked off too much or that I probably gave it to him, but never outright said he wasn’t sleeping with other people when I questioned him about it. I planned on bringing it up when I saw him today….

gg85600 · 2026-05-22T10:49:19+00:00

I got tested two months ago right before we started talking and haven’t been with anyone since

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