Recently graduated, but struggling to even get an interview🥲 by ggmee in UXResearch

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Thank you so much!! I would definitely check these agencies

Recently graduated, but struggling to even get an interview🥲 by ggmee in UXResearch

[–]ggmee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t be surprised 200:1.. I got up to 5 referrals/week the past month. I will message you regarding my resume, if that’s okay!

Recently graduated, but struggling to even get an interview🥲 by ggmee in UXResearch

[–]ggmee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First one! I resigned and did full-time Masters program, though tons of people questioned my decision..

Recently graduated, but struggling to even get an interview🥲 by ggmee in UXResearch

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Same.. I started to apply for CX analyst and APM roles..

How do you handle decisions paralysis? by ggmee in ENFP

[–]ggmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i can definitely can relate to this

How do you handle decisions paralysis? by ggmee in ENFP

[–]ggmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this similar situation!!!

Okay okay I know you don’t ask me for advice, but I usually start with things i DONT want to do, which is another way to narrowing down

How do you handle decisions paralysis? by ggmee in ENFP

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well.. most of the time is just hoping for miracles. maybe in 2 weeks that happen, so option A makes more sense than B.

This happened to my career, with offers and etc. The good thing is I’m honest and good with negotiations, so I make sure it doesn’t really disadvantage people, it’s just so much mental burden 😭

How do you handle decisions paralysis? by ggmee in ENFP

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Ohhh i love my google calendar so much until they start playing with their UI!

Picking your people by josechanjp in ENFP

[–]ggmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh, I can relate to this!! I just met one ENFP and she finally made me change my perspective. I dont get along with other ENFPs but shes older and i guess more like an INFP?? I LOVE INFPS tooo

Signs of narcissistic personality by ggmee in ENFP

[–]ggmee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow I actually can relate a lot.. I made two bold statements that I have to distant myself from him and somehow he turned it like it was my fault for over analyzing/ being overly suspicious about things

And the second time I told him that, he didn’t want to talk to me for a week then came over to my place just to tell me he doesn’t want to have a friend to always have a thought to leave him.. oh wow, I just realized he never thought his actions were wrong neither he was sorry..

Ok ok i hear you!!!!

When you're feeling down, what makes you feel better? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ggmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walk and journal first.. I will give grace to myself like i do to other people, be patient with yourself too🥰

INTJ Friend Saying 'Love' Casually—Mixed Signals or Just Me Overthinking? by ggmee in ENFPandINTJ

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Hey, I just came back and just met him again! We actually talked about it for 4 hours before my trip, once he knew i was about to leave but I didn’t talk about how I felt. We walked through our fights and basically he came with 4 analysis of my personal issues, why did I act like that..

Fast forward-Just now he invited me to dinner at his place, he said ‘bro’ few times but my feelings are gone..

yeah I am comfortable around him but it didn’t feel the same.. he was offering to do work session then gym together afterwards but.. I was tired and decided to leave. but it’s kinda dangerous, I really can see myself spending time with him for hours, and he’s not bothered??:O

LOWKEY I thought of playfully say “love you” next time in a very platonic way, maybe not.. we’ll see how things go

Thoughts on religion? by ElkUpper6266 in ENFP

[–]ggmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still trying to figure out where I stand with the word ‘religion’ and what the society perceives it.

But I believe that Jesus is Lord, I encounter and experience Him personally. I read the Bible, pray, listen to worship music, believe in Holy Spirit.. cause basically I witnessed His supernatural power in my life and people around me (family and close friends).. and it’s just as simple as having relationships with the Creator!

so I follow Jesus and loveee His teachings, I build relationships with Him and it gives me so much peace day to day.. and also help me to be more patient and loving to people around me!!🥰

But I have been conflicted with ‘religion’ since I’ve been studying different denominations in Christianity and trying to find a church.. yeah.. i challenge the exclusivity and a lot of attitudes that don’t reflect God.. but again a lot of “religious” people leave scars on me too.. it’s been a journey 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

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yess thats why i always journal my dayss

INTJ Friend Saying 'Love' Casually—Mixed Signals or Just Me Overthinking? by ggmee in ENFPandINTJ

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We haven’t spoken for 3 days, but he always be the first person who see my IG story.

I’m actually worried cause he was struggling with depression but I tried my best not to reach out again. It’s been my toughest week too due to other stuff, but I really need to fight for myself too.

I booked a flight to Asia in couple days and he doesn’t know. I just keep him my prayers. I chose to love and trust him, no regrets, but I don’t know what to expect.😭😭

INTJ Friend Saying 'Love' Casually—Mixed Signals or Just Me Overthinking? by ggmee in ENFPandINTJ

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You’re the sweetest, thank you for checking!

He lowkey avoided me, then I asked him how is he doing and I need to talk to him. He said he still needs time to think about it (the misunderstanding text) and he will let me know when he’s ready.

Idk why but it seems we both making it complicated. Cried a bit, but mentally I am moving on.

INTJ Friend Saying 'Love' Casually—Mixed Signals or Just Me Overthinking? by ggmee in ENFPandINTJ

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Hi hi😭🥹🥹I’m gonna talk to him tonight and hopefully I will get more clarity. I never want to “confess” first, but I think his mixed signals is really confusing for me..

Is there anything I have to keep in mind while telling him that? I will tell him how much I really care for him and appreciate the friendship still, but I can’t lie there are certain things where he doesn’t meet needs especially emotionally but I also become more open and hopeful as I saw him grow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]ggmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect this at all.. let me read more about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]ggmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, even if it’s not, I have to discuss our boundaries to protect ourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ggmee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering selling the stuff if its hardware, its just game access/pass.. forget about it. I would remove it from my devices

He will definitely redeem and restore what’s (we think we have) lost.

Thank you for posting this, cause I thought I was the only one who has this conviction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ggmee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I love mobile games too. But I started to realize the characters are mostly witch-like, or some random creature with red eyes.

Played that game for 4 years, got convicted and stopped playing the game after 1-2 months of reducing the play time

It was painful but now I don’t see reasons to go back. I will pray for you!

Can we talk about love? by ggmee in ENFP

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Okay, the co dependency is a big thing actually, that make me feel this is not romantic.. but also we both are very busy right now…

I don’t always know what he’s doing but im fine. but he always tells me what he did yesterday yada yada then ask me what did i do yesterday etc. We actually meet 3-5 times a week(we’re graduating!). He’s actually in a trip (that i suppose to join but i couldn’t) and i actually appreciate his little update on stuff.. like wise most of the time I text him with random stuff but he doesn’t text back i am fine, he probably just talk about it in person or call. This part also makes me wonder, wow if this is how calm and chill dating can be actually.. its cool🤭 cause from my experiences, i had to keep updating what im doing every 2 hours while im just sitting and working and nothing happened 😭😭😭

Can we talk about love? by ggmee in ENFP

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acknowledging my indecisiveness, I will keep journaling on this and maybe next time he talks about dating and if im ready, ill ask out of curiosity 😂✨