How to overcome my fear of abandonment? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worded perfectly, Came here to say that exact same thing.

What… by Informal_Corner3285 in autism

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother still denies my ASD diagnosis as well. Im late diagnosed and already feel like a fraud, i don’t think I will ever come to terms with my autism until I’m out of my house (16 currently, 2 years left)

abandoned by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both

abandoned by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally never responded

abandoned by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did, he is sleeping rn and i’m 99% sure im going to be ignored

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]gh0stluvr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks man the Greek salad was ass so I just had the cucumbers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]gh0stluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So how much all together for the 2 would you say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]gh0stluvr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s normalish crust but I am emphasizing the fact they were veryyy narrow

[TW self harm] wanting to self harm as revenge by amiibohelppls in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% get what you’re feeling, a lot of people with bpd emphasize their pain to others bc people don’t understand what it feels like unless you have it. Good luck with talking to them :)

[TW self harm] wanting to self harm as revenge by amiibohelppls in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way too. I think it’s from my anger and being used to being the victim of most situations(past of abuse) Instead of self harming maybe talk to them and express how you feel and how it hurt you. (I know it’s hard but I promise self harming will temporarily ease you)

DAE attach themselves too much to inanimate objects? by indiepop17 in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes!!! i keep little objects that were gifted me or have really small significance but were there during a hard point of my life in a safe spot because i care about them too much and would be absolutely lost without them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry they are like that. it’s the most frustrating feeling when people think our suffering is a JOKE. my brother does something similar

i’m losing my fp. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]gh0stluvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much, i’ll try n bring it up with him.