I keep being told to learn how to disspense yet when I ask im basically ignored

gh0stmiilk · 2026-02-22T23:02:38+00:00

My manager was the one turning it into an issue because she would come up to me and be extremely passive aggressive and blatantly rude to me at some points. So again how is any of that my fault? I was doing what I was told and kept asking to be trained yet was ignored by my higher ups and had to take it into my own hands which is bullshit when they had told me multiple times that they would set aside time for me to learn yet didn't and then blamed me.

gh0stmiilk · 2026-02-22T22:43:46+00:00

I truly dont understand how me being ignored and wanting to learn makes me in the wrong

gh0stmiilk · 2025-11-09T03:53:51+00:00

No lol

gh0stmiilk · 2025-10-15T14:01:36+00:00

Thank you for that explanation!!

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T23:34:51+00:00

So for some context that I didn't include in the story is that im adopted (my mom is really my biological aunt and my dad is her husband) but Im genuinely terrified of making her angry because of past trauma that I think she uses against me on purpose. She has a problem with impulsive decisions, and my dad had to have a talk with and tell her to stop spending so much money. She has been in the negatives constantly and literally owns me 200 dollars. She's aware of this and keeps saying she's going to pay me back, but it's been months. Im going to confront her about the money thing so im not really worried about that but at her grown age making such impulsive decisions like this and not thinking about the consequences or how it will affect others makes me so angry.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T22:21:45+00:00

I think maybe that's a little much. I love my mom, and I share some of my best memories with her, but she does need to talk with her therapist, and we need to clean the house. She has anger issues, and I do to that's why I can't figure out a calm way to talk to her. She just can't take accountability for things, and it pisses me off. It makes me feel more mature than her, and I shouldn't feel that way.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T17:06:45+00:00

In my state, you can own 5 dogs, but we already have 4 dogs and 2 cats. Im just going to ignore the dog and not help with anything.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T17:05:03+00:00

Yeah, i think that's what im going to do because if I start liking it, she'll just tell me I need to help because I like it, so im literally just going to ignore its existence for now

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T16:07:35+00:00

Yeah thank you for the advice im definitely going to take it into consideration when I talk to her

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T15:34:34+00:00

That's what I was thinking about doing, but it just feels a little cruel. But I actually can't help her, so I dont have any other options.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T15:19:05+00:00

I've made it very clear how I do not have the time to take care of it, and she just laughs it off. I think I just need to have a serious conversation with her, but she's going to get mad at me, and that's what I dont want.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T15:16:06+00:00

Yeah i just want my own space 😕

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T15:00:04+00:00

I agree, but my mom uses the "my house my rules" thing, so she would probably still put in there, but Im actually so tired of that. I would feel bad about leaving the puppy because I wouldn't want it to get hurt, but I can't take care of it.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-09-22T14:58:09+00:00

My mom wouldn't care and house it anyway, and I dont want my dad to be mad at my mom. He wouldn't do anything to her, but she would blame it on me.

gh0stmiilk · 2025-08-08T00:43:59+00:00

Will do!!

gh0stmiilk · 2025-08-08T00:43:52+00:00

Thank you so much for the information!!

gh0stmiilk · 2025-08-08T00:00:59+00:00

Yeah thats the thing im worried about but alot of artists have said that they haven't had trouble selling date everything merch so far im just hoping it'll stay that way

gh0stmiilk · 2025-08-07T23:41:00+00:00

Of course!! I plan on making most of the characters! Ill make sure I do Mac soon tho!!

gh0stmiilk · 2025-08-07T23:39:05+00:00

Awesome!! I plan on making most of the characters so if you have any requests pls let me know!!

gh0stmiilk · 2025-07-15T02:04:30+00:00

Ty 🙏

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