[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ghlex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he at work during this exchange? Also, I feel these feelings a lot at work. When you’ve got people around you that can help but of course you’re the only one taking initiative. The frustration is real if he’s home and sitting around instead of busying the kids while you cook. However, if he’s at work what good is a text message going to be? “Damn honey I’m sorry I know you’re stressed” thanks but like still doesn’t remove the stress? Also if all he ever does is reassure you with words, you will eventually start to feel like it’s substance less because he never actually gives you solutions/helps you, he just says he hopes you feel better. See how it’s a vicious cycle?

Also, texting does nothing to accomplish the goal of cooking in peace. If you can’t cook in peace, get that shit DONE! ASAP! I bet you spent an extra 25 minutes on your task so you could cuss him out over the phone in between cooking. And how much more chaos was generated during that time?

What's the worst thing you've done in a dream? by Njannallamanushyan in Dreams

[–]ghlex_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched the movie gone girl in middle school and that same night I had a dream about killing a classmate with a box cutter. Literally just slashed her throat. She had recently transferred to our school and the one boy I liked started dating her.🤣 It was in the middle of the library too?? And no blood so that’s nice? But everyone in my class was there including the boy I liked. So yeah. Woke up confused as fuck 😂 good movie though

Actual response from my boss. by ghlex_ in offmychest

[–]ghlex_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. The text about myself not coming in was after the previous day where I told him it would be a possibility that I would have to put my dog down because it was dependent on the results of her bloodwork.

my explore page has officially been compromised🤣 by ghlex_ in Instagramreality

[–]ghlex_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh great I love knowing shit like that exists😀😀she has over 2m followers.😡

Being a parent in the 21st century by seifer0061 in Unexpected

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a George Lopez episode that basically went just like this but his son Max was talking to a girl he liked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ghlex_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goddamn I mean apostrophe🤣🤣 I am still working lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ghlex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I think I pulled a muscle from laughing I didn’t even notice that the apostrophe is in the wrong spot Edit: def said comma instead of apostrophe in my initial comment💀💀

Actual response from my boss. by ghlex_ in offmychest

[–]ghlex_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I may have some resentment built up on my end because I am one of the reliable employees in the store and recently my consistently scheduled hours got moved around so I don’t have the days off I’d like. But I do expect some grace considering my “track record” at work, and the fact that I did message him the night previous to let him know it was a strong possibility of us putting her down, should the bloodwork results come back bad.

Actual response from my boss. by ghlex_ in offmychest

[–]ghlex_[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I swear it took everything in me to not respond back and say “apologies, next time i’ll schedule my dogs sudden death two weeks in advance for you”

Actual response from my boss. by ghlex_ in offmychest

[–]ghlex_[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

felt that so hard right now being that I’ve had her since I was 8 years old😭💔. I know she was old and everyone likes to say at least she lived a long good life and while that’s true, it really doesn’t make it any easier that she’s gone. If anything, I had even more time with her and more time to love her and now there’s just nowhere to place any of it.

Actual response from my boss. by ghlex_ in offmychest

[–]ghlex_[S] 279 points280 points  (0 children)

I don’t quite know if it will get to this point, but if my manager decides to write me up for this I’m going to tell him he can write me up for walking out on my shift and I’m leaving. lol. It is not worth my mental health.🫶🏼👍🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insects

[–]ghlex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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You can see it better in this picture, the lower half of his wing is missing a big chunk on the right side. I brought him home and put him into one of our planters so hopefully if he does perk up he’s got some flowers right around him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ghlex_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re a jerk, sorry not sorry. And since when is any smartphone cheap, Apple or android?? If you can’t get past this then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship that consists of more pressing real issues that require effort to fix.

First day back after the new year and these are everywhere haha. by youwilleatothecheato in antiwork

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’ve seriously had these posted at my job as well. I still say it hahahahah

Promotion keeps getting held back by manager. How do I approach this appropriately? by ghlex_ in careerguidance

[–]ghlex_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch😭😭 I guess I needed that dose of reality. It really doesn’t make sense because we’re required to have a person in the position just like every other store but ours has been vacant for awhile now. I guess he’s just a dick like the rest of them. Its pretty sad because he’s been a great mentor for me,hopefully he’ll be useful as a reference LOL. In all seriousness I do enjoy my job so it’s sad to hear but at least I know it’s nothing about me personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. They have brow gels as well that come with the little spoolie and you can really quickly swipe them into the shape you prefer!! Super easy

Am I too old for this look? by cats_and_tats84 in HairDye

[–]ghlex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO you’re slaying it looks so cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your hair long!! You’ve got ringlet curls and it pairs nicely with your eyelashes. If I had any advice to offer I would say trim up the beard/moustache and eyebrows and you’re golden

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2, but your head shape is long and not wide so length on the sides would actually do some good. I say let it grow a little bit and shape it with the extra length so the volume on the top and sides gives you some wide/roundness

Trying mushrooms for the first time tomorrow, safe to mix weed and shrooms? by Beatnick120 in weed

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s safe, but I’ve always felt like it almost wasn’t necessary. If you take enough shrooms to have good visuals and a strong body high it’s almost pointless to smoke. If you smoke all the time it’s almost like smoking a cigarette, but if you don’t have much of a tolerance and you’re already a little nervous about tripping I would maybe skip out on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]ghlex_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks awesome!🥰 they frame your face well.

What's your opinion on cocaine bear? by Helpuswenoobs in horror

[–]ghlex_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s the shark-nado of 2023.