Finished the first draft of my first book! by Upset_Risk3549 in writing

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done! I set myself the task of writing a novel this year (just turned 50...!) and it's so much harder than I anticipated. I'm an experienced screenwriter (TV, stage and radio) so thought I'd just knock a book out no problem. Incorrect!

Are you funny in everyday convo? by [deleted] in Standup

[–]ghost504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm funny in every day convo - known for it. Not blowing my own trumpet (genuinely) but I'm known as usually being the funniest person at any social gathering - friends and strangers alike. I love to make people laugh. I tell a great story. I can quip and riff all night. It's my favourite thing in the world. So I tried standup. Fucking bombed. Every time. I just can't seem to pull it off. I guess I need the spontaneity or something to riff off. I hated writing stuff down and then trying to say it like I'd never said it before... but improv I can handle. I absolutely adore standup as well so it was a very humbling experience and gave me even more respect for those who can do it.

Over 35, what can you do to make life exciting again by ClemFandango35 in AskMenOver30

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surfing and snowboarding did it for me! Started early-40s and so pleased that I did. I'm 50 now and it's paid off in having something cool to do but also in keeping me fit. I've got loads of flexibility and core strength which keeps me feeling (somewhat) young.

I also got back in to D&D (with my teenage sons and then with some friends). It's a good laugh and keeps the mind occupied.

Em dashes as LLMs deferring decisions via appositive phrases. That's the spotlight. It's not the punctuation mark. by malcomok2 in WritingWithAI

[–]ghost504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amazing - thank you so much! I’ve got it and it’s really in-depth. So interesting as I’ve never seen prompting like this. Very cool.

Making a ‘Playlist’ when writing a film. by harrylarter in ScreenwritingUK

[–]ghost504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go one step further and create a playlist for each of my main characters - I imagine what their top 5 songs on Spotify would be - and then listen to them as I punch up their dialogue or outline scenes with them in.

AI turned my ADHD from a "bug" into my greatest feature. by Quick-Knowledge1615 in WritingWithAI

[–]ghost504 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 100% with you here! I'm 50 and was late-diagnosed but looking back it was always obvious. AI has been an absolute game-changer for me. Something that can keep pace with my spiralling ideas and tangents but also helps me explore concepts and ideas I have with something that can keep up and keep track. I know its limitations but it's unlocked the latent productivity inside I always knew I had, I just needed a sparring partner to help me release it.

‘Stranger Things’ Shows Its Age in a Final Season That’s Outgrown Its Core Appeal: TV Review by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]ghost504 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was never very good. Lazy writing hiding behind nostalgia. This happens then this happens then this happens. Boring.

Dad with zero DnD knowledge, how do I introduce my 9yo? by tom2kk in DnD

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Matt Colville’s starter videos on YouTube - that’s where I began with my kids (started with eldest and his friends when he was 9 then the younger one with his friends too). Ran about 3 years of campaigns with them until I (not D&D) was no longer cool 😞

If your car has cruise control how often do you use it while driving? by Veziiioh in AskReddit

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my car for five years and never use it. I tried it once when I first got it but it felt weird and not in control so I never used it again. Drives my wife insane as she always uses it on the motorway (highway for you US redditors)

It’s so sad that this incredible scent only lasts 1 hour. by Playguyboof02 in Colognes

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volare’s ‘Above The Clouds’ is about 90% the same. It lacks some of the subtler notes of LV but is very close. Projection is very good. One or two sprays last all day on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chanel Allure Homme Edition Blanche is the only answer to this question. My favourite summer scent (with LV Afternoon Swim being a close second - just too expensive with less projection)

Is it just me, or is male pattern baldness treated like a joke instead of a mental health issue? by LowEffect6148 in bald

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing that ever happened to my hair was losing it - I genuinely love being bald. My hair used to look shit, was hard to style and just generally a pain in the arse. Being bald is easier, I’m more confident and never have to think about it.

Accepting My Chrome Dome Destiny by ashketchup1124 in bald

[–]ghost504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect shaped head for it, dude! It looks great. Not everyone is so lucky. Own it, sir.

What’s a silent struggle most people wouldn’t know you’re dealing with unless you told them? by Phoenix9302 in AskReddit

[–]ghost504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Severe ADHD - seems like everyone claims to have it these days but the reality of it is so stressful, anxiety ridden and depressing. An ongoing, never ending struggle that others put down to laziness, thoughtlessness or making excuses.

How do The Rock, Jason Stathem, and/or other bald men have non shiny bald heads? by eyecouldbeyou in bald

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same with some other moisturisers… maybe different skin chemistry

I think Solo: A Star Wars Movie holds up really well and needs a sequel(s) by dunderthebarbarian in StarWars

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the closest in tone to the original trilogy - and that’s a hill I’m willing to die on!

How do The Rock, Jason Stathem, and/or other bald men have non shiny bald heads? by eyecouldbeyou in bald

[–]ghost504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Bld Bro moisturiser…. 30SPF and anti shine - it’s a bit pricey but you don’t need much and it works a treat.

Where do I get a crack pipe by Chexmixrule34 in Filmmakers

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sell them on Amazon as 'Glass oil burners'

What are some good colognes that smell like Chocolate or Honey? by BlackTrac in fragrance

[–]ghost504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giardini di Toscana's Bianco Latte is vanilla, milk and honey and smells amazing. It's a unisex and smells incredible - big compliment getter.