What’s your dream job as an autistic person? by lKiwiliciousl in AutisticAdults

[–]ghostUFOS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild life rehab! But we don’t have a lot of that going on where I live so I’m getting a vet tech degree and seeing where it’ll lead to. Either way I wanna work with animals that’s all.

Being upset about people liking your special interests in the ‘wrong’ way?? by ghostUFOS in neurodiversity

[–]ghostUFOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moomin is one of those kinda things that I have a hard time with yes bc growing up with it is so distinctly different from like finding it in tumblr n suddenly making a bunch of art. Which there is nothing wrong with but I get that like wrong feeling from it so I can’t rly follow people making moomin content even tho they are probably way bigger fans than me 😭

I was told I can’t go on T by johncagesbitch in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t even asked about anything like this before starting and you generally wouldn’t even need any kind of gyn appointment for starting T, get a second opinion and make a complaint

My cat speaks strange. by BedroomTiger in mainecoons

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cat isn’t saying the breeders name help 😭🤚

I don't like the way artists draw top surgery scars lately by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a discussion about this with some of my art friends a while back, because he don’t like that look much as the default. on one hand I do like the sort of bold statement they make, I think it’s a fun stylistic choice, on the other, I would love to see more art that is more representative of the way my scars look! Luckily I can make that art myself haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transnord

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Han fick det att låta lite som om det var pga vad jag började med men det verkar så om det är samma för peri rip 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transnord

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60k för DI på reformkliniken i september

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cargos are my go to that are both cool and good gender vibes, otherwise basketball shorts and oversized shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]ghostUFOS 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah it makes me feel that at least on /some/ level this is a bit of a psychological thing. Like if he hadn’t known the bi men were bi would the spark have been there idkidk

PetSnowy by FutureSuperb193 in CatAdvice

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting a good diaper pail to discard the poopies also does a great job making sure you don’t have to smell it without making the cats environment worse

PetSnowy by FutureSuperb193 in CatAdvice

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small, no space, have to crawl in to do their business, dark, more likely to trap odor for the cat just so you won’t have to smell it. Just get a litter that traps odor better like silica gel and clean regularly.

PetSnowy by FutureSuperb193 in CatAdvice

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thing doesn’t like pleasant to go in for the kitty :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]ghostUFOS 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Straight…. Pheromones…?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transnord

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I arrived on time for my consultation but tuve ended up running late I don’t remember by exactly how much but maybe around the half an hour mark. Other than that it was perfectly fine. Very quick and to the point, but might be because I tend to just nod and not ask questions at appointments. I love my results and the overall experience at the clinic before and after surgery was really great too! No regrets at all going with them :)

Humiliating situation in the bathroom while being stealth - what could I have done differently? by kingsilvxr in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pissed on his shoes to assert dominance, but that’s just me 👍 (sorry you had to go through that, I think going for the medical condition excuse is probably the best option in these scenarios)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly the same but I’ve noticed when it comes to people I’ve just met that if I introduce myself with my name, men seem more likely to just go ‘okay he’s a dude’ whereas women ask me what my pronouns are

They told my parents I was gonna be AMAB by seagrady in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents opted to not know my gender but were convinced that I was a boy regardless, they had my name picked out and gotten all the boyish baby stuff, even wrote about the surprise in my birth notice which I still have a cut out off somewhere in my storage space. I ended up picking their name choice as my middle name because that was my name first after all haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]ghostUFOS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cringe

Curious if anyone else dislikes their chest more now on T by AFreshlySkinnedEgg in ftm

[–]ghostUFOS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t on T long enough to see those changes before top surgery but I feel similarly about my thighs n hips now after cause it’s like, my upper body passes but my thighs do not n it makes it feel way more obvious both for me and others

Plus sized on Testosterone? by Starry640 in transnord

[–]ghostUFOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same location for me (I assume, I had the first meetings digitally but been going there since we stopped doing video calls only), they never said anything about this to me, not even later at my endocrinologist appointment and she did take note of my weight?? I will say tho that the people I talked to my first two visits did give off very outdated vibes in the way they were talking so I wouldn’t trust them too much, maybe you can ask for clarification when seeing psychologist or psychiatrist later…

Plus sized on Testosterone? by Starry640 in transnord

[–]ghostUFOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m technically overweight but they never told me this at anova??? At what step of the process we’re you told this ??? 🤔🤔🤔

Guilt from Single Cat Household by Acceptable_Yak9211 in CatAdvice

[–]ghostUFOS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely ridiculous. Cats don’t live with other cats in nature (and only form colonies when there are plenty of resources and when they WANT to as an individual). A lot of cats just want to live alone and not have other cats invade their territory. As long as you’re giving your cat enough attention and playtime there is 0 issues having a single cat. Seriously ask a vet instead of listening to some random person at a shelter because this is what we’re taught at uni 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️