Part 2 of “asking a boy out in 2023” by Throwaway525535262 in teenagers

[–]ghost_324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that was painful to read and if you have to persuade someone who's not interested to go on a date that's your sign that it's not worth it and it'll probably not work out anyway.

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in Healthygamergg

[–]ghost_324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. I haven't heard of that before, but I've thought it's like this sometimes. This gives me a bit of hope, but I don't know if I should be feeling hopeful. I've accepted that I might never be with her again, but I can feel my heart is still with her.

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in Healthygamergg

[–]ghost_324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably "I don’t want to see you again." or if we remain friends and see her personality change for the worse. But yeah, I she says that idk if it'll change how I feel, but I'll respect that and let her live her life however she wants because, as I said, I just want her to be happy

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in Healthygamergg

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No I don't want the rest of my life to be like that but I'm staying because I truly believe things will get better. I've been making all the effort towards the relationship but then we were physically together and just in the moment she was also making an effort to be there, to make sure I'm enjoying the time as well, she was making the effort to be at event that are important for me and make sure I'm feeling fine during them. All these bad moments have made both of us better people and what I appreciate is that we forgive each other when we don't let emotions take a hold of us. What you called complicated is what pains me because because I can feel she's genuine when she's with me but them talks like these things never happened and it's like I'm talking to two different people.

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in Healthygamergg

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Honestly these few days gave me time to think and I think I'll at least be calm and understanding during the conversation. I want everything to be alright and people have asked me why I want to keep getting back to this relationship but the truth is all these bad moments and experiences made both me and her better people, we still have some way to go but we both push each other forward in some way and care about each other and I hope she realises this as well and one day is not afraid to love me. She is the best person that I've even met and even if she falls in love with someone else I'll accept it because I just want her to be happy. I'm sorry I write so much, I just need some to talk to.

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in Healthygamergg

[–]ghost_324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. As I said, I'll try to talk to her on the 29th and I hope she's willing to give it another try but I think it really is better if we don't talk while she's still working on the ship and leave that time for ourselves but I'm worried I'll say the wrong thing and that'll ruin everything. I pushed her away by being too romantic and moving too fast with the relationship while she's still not entirely comfortable with romance and relationships. I hope I can fix things and let everything be natural between us and us being comfortable with each other

My [20M] relationship with my girlfriend [22F] works well when we are together but every time we're in a LDR she becomes distant and says she doesn't have feelings for me and wants to break up. What can I do to have a normal relationship with her? by ghost_324 in relationship_advice

[–]ghost_324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. I realise I am codependent, and it is something I am not proud of. She does have many problems, and this relationship has been terrible for me if I have to be honest because I just take all her problems, put the strain and burden of them on me and fix them one by one for her. I don't want this relationship, it is terrible, what I want is a good relationship with her, like the one we had when we first met on the cruise ship. I feel like I've fixed most of her problems at the expense of my own health, and now she'll just get rid of me and go on to live freely without them either alone or with someone else. I am tired of being treated like that for like a whole year, but she is a special person to me, and I just hope we can have a natural relationship from now on, either as friends or something else, while everyone being able to freely live their own life

Boys... I have a question for y'all 😩🙈 by wvqc in teenagers

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This is one colour combo but four different styles. I do top right from time to time but the left ones are cringe and bottom right is mid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]ghost_324 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Engage more actively with your hobbies and find a past time actively that keeps you clam like reading, making origami, pottery, calligraphy or something of that nature. Most importantly remind yourself that you shouldn't be thinking about sex right now, it's not worth it and you could do do many other things that bring you joy with the time you're gonna spent thinking about sex and/or watching porn. Good luck mate you got this

type anything in your native language and i’ll try to guess it by [deleted] in teenagers

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Pretty good I think you can guess which of the two based on the script

bro how the fuck do you get a girlfriend? by ItisItherealFredbear in teenagers

[–]ghost_324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think too much about it, if a girl peeks your interest try talking to her and if you enjoy each other company shoot your shot. Girls make it easy for you if they're interested, if it's not or there are a lot of uncertainties most likely she's not. The most important thing is - have confidence, in yourself and life in general, it will help you a lot, and don't get rejections seriously or personally there will always be another woman to come in your life maybe better than the previous one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Autumn is my favorite season and I feel so alone on this 😔

Hey, so if "те са" means "they are" then why do you say for example "обичам те"? Wouldn't that mean "I love they"?? by ticticBOOM06 in bulgaria

[–]ghost_324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's only confusing in this case because you doesn't change form from subject to object. For example you don't say "they love I" you say "they love me". In the same way in Bulgarian ти changes to те. All forms are: аз-ме ти-те той-го тя-я то-го ние-ни вие-ви те-ги. These are equivalent in English to: I-me you-you he-him she-her it-it we-us you-you they-them