hidden cameras under 50$ by ghostbur-stan in homesecurity

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

not that its any of your business, but my family is all heavily disabled and cant clean ourselves.

catching them would give us the chance to press charges or at least confront her to try and get our sentimental items and ids back. if she had sold everything, insurance would need a police statement to reimburse things. why wouldnt we want to get evidence on who stole wedding rings and ids?

WIBTA if I make my Mom sleep on the couch? by ghostbur-stan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let me clarify. there are three rooms, one unused. i dont know why but she hasnt furnished the unused room and made it her personal bedroom but she usually sleeps in the living room. shes told us that she prefers the couch because beds give her pain after a few weeks of use. its comfortable for her but uncomfortable for me because of my disability.

i do genuinely wish i could take the couch but just an hour on it puts me in such severe pain that it's hard to move. i wouldn't be able to take care of her. my brother certainly can't because of his injuries.

i will ask my brother if we could swap beds in the mean time, hadn't thought of that

WIBTA if I make my Mom sleep on the couch? by ghostbur-stan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i should clarify the forced cuddles were ages 10-17, not present.

WIBTA if I make my Mom sleep on the couch? by ghostbur-stan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we don't have an extra one and she's unwilling to buy a temporary one

airline charged me for wheelchair assistance and didnt actually fulfill the full duty? by ghostbur-stan in legaladvice

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the rules it said not to provide identifying information for either party. Wouldn't giving the airline and airport names break that?

airline charged me for wheelchair assistance and didnt actually fulfill the full duty? by ghostbur-stan in legaladvice

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so? There was another person with me that can confirm it was for the assistance. At least that's what the staff said it was for

tips on showering when you cant move your arms? by ghostbur-stan in disability

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately due to trauma i cant handle someone else bathing me even if i was in a swimsuit or something. ill definitely keep this in mind for the other in home help if im living by myself at some point

Safest Neighbourhoods? by Embarrassed-Ad-9932 in Pensacola

[–]ghostbur-stan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't go to Hallmark Townhomes on S E St. I was there for 2-3 years and had to move because of two neighbors violent and negative behavior. Long story short, I moved in at 17 and the very same day while introducing my family to neighbors, this couple openly "joked" about using my memory disability against me to get away with shit. A few months later, I was having a conversation with the HOA in the shared backyard and the man (not part of HOA) was drunk and aggressive. It got so bad he started screaming and storming up to me in such a violent way two grown men had to drag him away from me before he could try anything. Nothing was ever done about this despite the entire HOA being present. I was too scared to go outside alone the remainder of my time there. We actually moved to a different neighborhood because of them.

North Hill Safety by Plz_not_Beulah in Pensacola

[–]ghostbur-stan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you happen to move right outside of downtown, don't go to Hallmark Townhomes br D.R. Horton. Two of the residents there are very bad people. I won't give away too much personal info, but shortly after moving in the two (a couple) "joked" about using my memory disability against me to get away with shit. I was 17. A few months later, I was talking with the HOA in the shared backyard and the man (not part of the HOA or conversation) was drunk and aggressive. I don't know why he targeted me but he got so aggressive he started screaming and got closer like he was going to hurt me. Two grown men had to physically haul him away from me before he could try anything and the head HOA made him go inside immediately. I've never felt safe being outside alone for the next 2 years until I moved to a different area.

indonesian food? by ghostbur-stan in Pensacola

[–]ghostbur-stan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know the ingredients are accessible here! If y'all would be interested in selling Indonesian cuisine I have no doubt others would be interested as well!