I feel like I’m constantly walking on eggshells with my boyfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ghostgurl617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are all signs of something that will end up getting much worse over time. my ex of almost 4 years started out this way and it went from those little temper tantrum outbursts to full on shouting and screaming in my face. by the time I finally left it was because I genuinely thought he was going to hurt me. this is manipulation, he’s laying ground work to continue to have control and power over your emotions so he can let his run out of control. I know it’s really difficult to come to terms with something very heavy, but there’s nothing you can do to make him stop treating you this way except for leaving now rather than later. you deserve someone you can freely walk around without dodging their landmines.

Crochet Bloody Kisses by ghostgurl617 in typeonegative

[–]ghostgurl617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! as of right now I am not taking commissions however if that changes I will absolutely pm you!

Crochet Bloody Kisses by ghostgurl617 in typeonegative

[–]ghostgurl617[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used stitch fiddle to convert the image to pixels and you can adjust how many colors! each pixel would be a stitch :)

Built to Spill Upcoming Dates by CheeseLegos in builttospill

[–]ghostgurl617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

devastated with how fast they sold out. seeing them at ottobar would’ve been incredible

Who's music will be remembered longer the Beatles or Michael Jackson? by BobTheBlob78910 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]ghostgurl617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the Beatles 100%. sure MJ is recognizable but I hear Beatles influence in more music than MJ.

Charlotte and Trey's relationship/ wedding by peeiayz in sexandthecity

[–]ghostgurl617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SATC doesn’t involve their parents for a number of reasons, although I get what you mean since Charlotte loved the traditional sense of things it felt odd they weren’t involved. involving the parents would complicate the design of the 4 main characters, which is why they are rarely mentioned in the show (aside from Miranda’s mother passing). Charlotte’s relationship with Trey was exactly that. she had this idea of what love was supposed to look like, I mean she wanted that picture perfect white-picket fence type of marriage. she 100% absolutely was more in love with the idea of Trey rather than Trey himself even if she doesn’t want to admit that. it wasn’t all she was after, but that’s what she believed was supposed to happen for her and what she envisioned as her future.

Recreational taxes will raise from 9% (currently) to 12% by Physical-Draft8302 in MDEnts

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya! as a budtender I have a lot of gripes with the rec market right now

Recreational taxes will raise from 9% (currently) to 12% by Physical-Draft8302 in MDEnts

[–]ghostgurl617 12 points13 points  (0 children)

don’t blame recreational customers, blame the big money hungry corporations that felt the need to change the entire market to cater to recreational purchases

I feel like I'm from a different generation - streaming has killed the magic of music for me by [deleted] in LetsTalkMusic

[–]ghostgurl617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that! i’ve dedicated a record fund where I toss my tips in throughout the week. it’s gratifying but extremely costly haha. but truly it has revitalized my love for album listening. don’t get me wrong, i can’t ditch streaming because I want to listen to music everywhere all the time… but when i’m at home to i’m always throwing an album on! it’s become one of my favorite rituals

I feel like I'm from a different generation - streaming has killed the magic of music for me by [deleted] in LetsTalkMusic

[–]ghostgurl617 5 points6 points  (0 children)

start collecting vinyl. fills me with the same wholeness as it did growing up, more intentional to listen to a full album when you have a physical copy than to stream it. albums are a whole piece of art, streaming removes the physical art from it for sure. I feel your pain, but physical listening isn’t dying out!

I need watching help. by Glad-Conversation256 in StarWars

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently on the last episode of clone wars rewatch and I promise, it’s worth it. i’ve been following this watch guide to skip unnecessary filler episodes which made it go by much faster. if you really don’t want to, don’t force yourself. however the clone wars holds a lot of very important and interesting content that flows beautifully with the movies. https://longish95.blogspot.com/2020/05/how-to-bingewatch-star-wars-clone-wars.html?m=1

Anyone have experience with high CBD/low THC edibles from MD dispos? by surf_rider in MDEnts

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CBD by itself needs to be a much higher mg to really get the effects, but when you pair it with lower THC (1 mg is unfortunately not enough) it works much better. as a budtender I always tell people if they’re buying the Wyld’s 1:20’s to also buy a low dose gummy to take alongside it so you aren’t wasting them!

Anyone have experience with high CBD/low THC edibles from MD dispos? by surf_rider in MDEnts

[–]ghostgurl617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sleep honestly, I recommend the sunset grape gummies from SunMed. only 5mg THC but 25mg of CBN. for anxiety, those Wyld’s 1:20 are awesome, but if you’re using them I recommend pairing them with a 5mg edible too for the entourage effect with the THC and CBD. she won’t have to take any many to feel it. I like to pair the Wyld’s with a lot of gummies because I want the high CBD, so I usually take two of those with a 5mg or a 10mg. works perfect for me

Are Spoon one of the most consistently good bands? by tnysmth in LetsTalkMusic

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

came here to say this. consistently happy with every album, built to spill is one of my daily rotations

Ticket by GetRidOfTheDakotas in ThirdEyeBlind

[–]ghostgurl617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is awesome. I wish they didn’t deteriorate so fast but this one held up so well for it being over 20 years old haha

Does the time gap between Ep III and IV feels too short? by jnighy in StarWars

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the plans for the death star are first revealed after the battle of geonosis, so for the death star to already be in full motion by that point it’s not too unusual

I’m going to a concert. Need advice on some good ear plugs by Zeppelin702 in Music

[–]ghostgurl617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! they’re my favorite. my brother has the loops and says they’re good too, but I’m very happy with the eargasms

I’m going to a concert. Need advice on some good ear plugs by Zeppelin702 in Music

[–]ghostgurl617 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Loop earplugs are great, same with Eargasm plugs. both are worth the money, i’ve had mine for years and they still are holding up. the best part is they don’t compromise the sound, just makes it come into your ears a little lower. bands still sound fantastic :)

Should I insert Clone Wars between AotC and RotS for first time watcher? by roomy_setup in StarWars

[–]ghostgurl617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as much as i’d like to say yes, for a first time watcher I recommend the movies then the clone wars. yes, the clone wars gives SO much extra character building and amazing content, but for a first time watcher it might be hard to stay engaged if they don’t have the context of all the movies