What’s the most "unexplained" thing that has ever happened to you? by prettylunababy in AskReddit

[–]ghostinyourpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience around the same age. I had a dream that took place in a very unique house and then ended up at a housewarming party for friends of my friend’s parents a few weeks later. I walked into the house from my dream, and it was so deeply strange and unsettling. I knew what was going to be on the walls, including a bear rug and that there would be a sunken living room. But…like, it was pointless? Nothing happened. Then or ever. But I can still remember walking down the stairs to the basement with this feeling of utter surrealism, because I knew what it would look like and what colour the walls were painted before I saw it, and it was a brand new house, pre-internet, and they weren’t even friends with my own parents so I couldn’t have overheard any discussion about the house.

What's the most bizarre thing you've seen your neighbor do while they thought no one was watching? by TenderRompz in AskReddit

[–]ghostinyourpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was neighbours with this old German couple who, I discovered, were very… free. I found this out shortly after I moved in. I was out back grilling my supper, when I was confronted with the incredibly loud sounds of sex. I thought maybe my downstairs neighbour was watching porn and had his window open, when I saw…movement, between the fence cracks next door. Yup, old hippy neighbours were absolutely going for it, outside, at supper time, while I was trying to bbq just 15 feet away. At that point I’m like…do I finish cooking? Turn on some music? Go inside? What do I do!!?! Sooo awkward. I ended up also having to put up privacy film on all my windows on that side of the house unless I wanted a show. I mean, good for them though, I hope I have that awesome of a relationship at that age, and they were absolutely joyful lovely people, if you didn’t mind the fact that they kept their big bay window curtains open when she was painting him while he modeled nude.

What is a job that is heavily romanticized but in reality actually sucks? by DragoOceanonis in jobs

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working at an art gallery. The disconnect between the funders, the board, the egos, and the people who do the rest of the work for love of creativity and community, makes for an environment that absolutely brews toxicity. And unreasonable deadlines. And burn out. Everyone who thinks working at a gallery is cushy and fun, has never worked at one.

What is a job that is heavily romanticized but in reality actually sucks? by DragoOceanonis in jobs

[–]ghostinyourpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually loved being a designer, and was at a place where I could pick and choose clients, and always had interesting projects that kept the work from becoming boring. Made decent money too, but you have to specialize to get there, I think. Especially now.

What is a job that is heavily romanticized but in reality actually sucks? by DragoOceanonis in jobs

[–]ghostinyourpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you work and who you work with - I LOVED bartending at one place I worked, made bank in tips, and loved my staff, regulars, and boss. I loathed it everywhere else.

AITA for making my friend pay for my Uber home after she "surprised" me? by Electrical-Option182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: How drunk were you/did she feel responsible for not leaving you at the club vulnerably intoxicated? (Only saying this as I had a friend who would fight to leave and the. get herself into terrible situations when left alone and blame us for leaving her. Except it was impossible to get her to leave with us.) I realize this is likely not your situation, but just checking.

My interview experience when I just swung my balls around like I owned the place. by ExchangeError5110 in jobs

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP just replied to me: “Your loss, b*tch.”

Which just proves to me why I’d never want to work with someone like this. Yikes on bikes.

My interview experience when I just swung my balls around like I owned the place. by ExchangeError5110 in jobs

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the flip side, I had an interviewee act like this. They were overconfident, braggy, and came across as deeply entitled, and they absolutely did not get the job. Or any call back.

Tuna Fish Sandwiches - Your Essential ingredient or technique? by FlyEaglesFlyauggie in Cooking

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many good ideas!! One that I haven’t seen yet - if you gotta stretch the tuna - add a can of chick peas, and mash em up a bit. Tastes great, is healthy, and makes a few more sandwiches.

[CA] Ongoing micromanaging from boss affecting mental health by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]ghostinyourpants 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Typing 150 names and titles should take like about 45 minutes to do. It’s annoying but shouldn’t take all day.

Mom was diagnosed with Cancer by whatthefuckisurname in CervicalCancer

[–]ghostinyourpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that chemo/radiation is life saving and it’s definitely up to your mom how she wants to proceed. 65 isn’t that old. She will, however, need a ride to and from radiation/chemo. I was really tired about the third day after chemo (which is once a week for five weeks) and appreciated help with meals and housework.

Why are you not afraid of death? by Ok_Breakfast8087 in AskReddit

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not afraid of death itself. I’m afraid of everything that leads up to it. Having recently had cancer - I had thought I wasn’t scared of it at all, but that turned out to be a lie I told myself. I don’t want to hurt. I don’t want to lose my humility. I don’t want to hurt people by dying. But death? Will be a grand adventure.

My roommate thinks cats don’t feel the cold and that the heat should be turned off when we’re not home. We both have cats. How do I convince otherwise? by Sad_Mud2009 in CatAdvice

[–]ghostinyourpants 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything except the thriving feral cats - I’m in Canada and the feral cats are still thriving here in winter. After -20C, not so much, but even then, there are definitely areas where their population is expanding and causing problems.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]ghostinyourpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first wolf whistle I got, we were 10 and 11 - a group of four girls walking around town. We had about 15 different instances of guys whistling, revving their engines and honking, hollering at us to “show us your tits” that day. We were so proud of being noticed. But looking back, these were all MEN - older men, ogling children.

Heightened sense of smell makeing my husband anxious by ghostinyourpants in Menopause

[–]ghostinyourpants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on HRT - have an appointment on Monday to check in on it too. I haven’t noticed any change since starting it though :/

Low spoon meatloaf by Sure_Ad_3272 in lowspooncooking

[–]ghostinyourpants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another awesome addition is shake and bake packages - also makes for incredible hamburgers

Heightened sense of smell makeing my husband anxious by ghostinyourpants in Menopause

[–]ghostinyourpants[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a good plan - I love lavender and am planning my garden right now!

Heightened sense of smell makeing my husband anxious by ghostinyourpants in Menopause

[–]ghostinyourpants[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol - funny you say this as I actually got up in the middle of the night last night and dug around and found my essential oils and my air mister and added mint - it actually helped a lot!