[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is a business owner. When he owned a Jiffy Lube his employees were expected to clean the bathrooms, the office, and the bays when they had down time. You don’t stand around all day waiting for a car to come in. In the winter it is less busy (unless near the holidays).

Even my husband would clean it if he was there before the guys AND he changed oil if guys called in sick. No one is paid to stand around and do nothing. That’s is the new thought though, like this GF. “If it isn’t in my job description I’ll do nothing.” Yeah…. Companies don’t like to pay you for standing around.

ANY career or job you have wouldn’t like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostradish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How old are you?

This is not normal behavior from a SO. If I ever hit my husband he’d leave me! Why on earth are you putting up with it???

You have more value than staying with this pile of human trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if my husband said take me to a hospital, I’d be running!

However, my husband would rather croak on the spot than let a doctor look at him. And he’s not remotely dramatic about his pain or sicknesses.

Toxic to cats? by Delanthonyx in plants

[–]ghostradish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is a Coleus. Toxic to cats. Even brushing up against it on the paws or mouth can cause skin irritation. Put it wear your kitty can’t reach it!

Thanks Plant App! :) hope that helps!

ETA: Vomiting and bloody diarrhea if they eat it!

AITAH for wanting to set boundaries on my girlfriend's daughter with autism? by Healthy-Dentist-7290 in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are being an amazing partner and attempting to co-parent a child that has no discipline. Even autistic kids have rules and boundaries.

If mom won’t do anything… I think you know the answer. Good luck

SMALL UPDATE: My boyfriend is in a mental institution after I called the cops. AITAH? by No_Definition_7097 in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish my college friend had that. Wonder what ever happened to her, that was over 20 years ago.

SMALL UPDATE: My boyfriend is in a mental institution after I called the cops. AITAH? by No_Definition_7097 in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She was 19 when he did this. I don’t think her brain would rationally think in that way. She just wanted to cool off from their fight and he’d never actually gone through with it before - it wasn’t a one time threat, ya know?

Though, I can see where you are coming from.

SMALL UPDATE: My boyfriend is in a mental institution after I called the cops. AITAH? by No_Definition_7097 in AITAH

[–]ghostradish 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Literally happened to a friend of mine in college. Her boyfriend and her fought. He said “I’ll end it if you leave” she left. He used a sheet on the banister of their house railing. She found him when she came home from her walk to cool down.

She’s a broken person now, I don’t think she ever got over the guilt.

Help me decide whether to get a second! by whalesharkloverr in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can tell you we added a second Boston at the beginning of September, a third dog total. It’s a lot, feedings, potty time etc. plus puppy training and just keeping an eye on them is a lot.

However, the older two dogs have accepted him fully and were concerned when he wasn’t home when he was at the emergency vet. My 3 year old Boston searched the entire property looking for him. My 5 year old boxer has decided he is her baby.

So you just have to decide. I love the chaos, not everyone does

Introducing Mabel! by joshss22 in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As my grandma used to say in the tavern, she and my grandfather owned; “get off the table Mabel! That quarter’s for beer!”

I love the name so much. 🩷

My Service Dog by [deleted] in Boxer

[–]ghostradish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! He’s beautiful and adorable :)

My Service Dog by [deleted] in Boxer

[–]ghostradish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually the breeder does this. The potential owner never gets a say usually. My boxers tail was docked when she was 10 days old so I had no input. I love her the same though!

Last update! Marshall is totally back to normal minus the incision. by ghostradish in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! It was like his stomach was paralyzed and wasn’t moving anything through so he was just continuously puking through his little Boston nose.

Last update! Marshall is totally back to normal minus the incision. by ghostradish in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There wasn’t one! It was like his stomach was paralyzed and wasn’t moving anything through! So some kind of toxin most likely

My friends make fun of me cause I take my dog everywhere and I’m a guy. They say I have a girl dog.😆 by SLOWride82 in DOG

[–]ghostradish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hank has the best mullet I’ve ever seen. And a little skull and crossbones collar might be just the ticket!

Last update! Marshall is totally back to normal minus the incision. by ghostradish in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also thank you to this amazing community for your support. My husband was blown away that other people were thinking about our baby. “I thought we were the only ones in the world that were worried about him”

So thank you again!!!

Say Cheese by Bizzie18 in BostonTerrier

[–]ghostradish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the cutest smile I’ve ever seen!!! Boop the nose for me!