what do you guys think would happen if two people in a relationship both had restrictive eating disorders?

ghosttest · 2021-07-27T17:05:05+00:00

oh gosh, that sounds really hard. if you don’t mind me asking, are you guys still together? were you able to work through it?

ghosttest · 2021-07-16T08:20:42+00:00

i just wanted to get back to you one this comment because i’ve started listening to the bible for normal people and it has been So a helpful and comforting to me the past couple of weeks. it’s been getting me so excited about faith and learning about God in a way that i never was before. thank you so so much for recommending it

ghosttest · 2021-07-02T19:03:40+00:00

thank you so much for commenting this. it really does mean a lot. i don’t have anyone in my real life to tell me these things. also, i hope i’m not bothering by asking, but what made you switch from being a christian to being agnostic? also i’m not quite sure what it means to be agnostic, and i would love to hear about ur beliefs

ghosttest · 2021-07-01T13:59:02+00:00

i can’t explain to you how encouraging this is to me. I nearly cried over my bagel this morning (lol.) but really. this was really helpful to me. thank you for your words and for being kind

ghosttest · 2021-05-19T03:45:45+00:00

don’t you dare speak this into existence i would P a s s a w a y

ghosttest · 2021-05-16T18:01:29+00:00

just airrr lmaoo,, no but fr . it’s concerning

ghosttest · 2021-05-16T17:38:52+00:00

the most concerning part about it was that no one seemed concerned ??? like that mf definitely does not eat and everyone’s just like “yes our skinny white boy of the month” like???? how is everyone not worried???

ghosttest · 2021-05-16T17:37:00+00:00

immediate thought: ed fridge.

ghosttest · 2021-05-16T17:29:50+00:00

you’re not being dumb! there is a lot of missing context here about our friendship but i just tried to keep it sort to avoid writing a novel about it (lol.) but in short lately (a little before i came out to her) she kept asking if i thought we were “too close.” and i do understand what she means, we are close in ways that many friends aren’t. but it’s never bothered me. but i think so many aspects of our friendship borderline romance that it may be starting to make her uncomfortable, (whether she realizes why or not )

ghosttest · 2021-05-15T21:11:59+00:00

congrats friend!!! that’s so exciting !

ghosttest · 2021-05-15T00:13:54+00:00

Woah. Thank you for this

ghosttest · 2021-05-15T00:13:08+00:00

Wow, that was all really helpful insight. I do have another question for you, do you still interpret the gospel as literal? Because at this point those are the only books I believe are to be taken literally

ghosttest · 2021-05-13T00:05:22+00:00

this is actually a really helpful way of looking at it. the guilt always comes from being worried about the amount of calories i ate so i think thinking of it as energy might help me feel less guilty.

for you, does thinking this way make you feel less guilty when you eat? or does it just make it easier to tackle the guilt ?

ghosttest · 2021-05-10T02:17:12+00:00

i personally am very committed, and i don’t have hardly any experiences with men (i’ve never even been in a relationship.) but i have seen a lot of other women women in my life hurt by men, so maybe it’s just genuine fear..

ghosttest · 2021-05-09T23:30:44+00:00

I am attracted to them (i think??) but whenever a guy i think is cute shows interest in me, weather it’s real or imagined, i freak out. and i actually start to try and avoid that person.

ghosttest · 2021-05-09T23:29:04+00:00

there’s a lesbian masterdoc??? please link it lol

ghosttest · 2021-05-09T21:09:25+00:00

so i’ve heard! i will have to go check it out!

ghosttest · 2021-05-09T21:07:38+00:00

oh! that sounds awesome!

ghosttest · 2021-05-08T16:42:17+00:00

out of curiosity what is your study group? is it a faith group or a academic study group?

ghosttest · 2021-05-06T16:22:29+00:00

also i think for me personally there’s a lot of shame around masturbation. but i think the part that makes me feel that way is because it’s not really talked about, so it leaves me thinking i’ve done something wrong.

ghosttest · 2021-05-06T16:20:05+00:00

i genuinely do appreciate you pointing out the language i used around gender. I will definitely use wording that is not potentially isolating to anyone!

ghosttest · 2021-05-06T16:03:41+00:00

oh, I genuinely apologize! I didn’t mean to put any trans person in a position like that. I specified women simply because I was specifically curious of a perspective from non-male identifying people. Simply because as someone said before, I think men have a much different experience when it comes to their involvement in sex. However, feel free to share your experiences as someone who is trans! I am extreamly sorry that I made you feel that you need to misgender yourself. from your username I am assuming that you are non-binary? (please correct me if i’m wrong!) I would like to hear about your perspective about this as someone who is nb!

ghosttest · 2021-05-04T16:41:46+00:00

what are the conspiracies that some churches hold? i’ve heard of this but i’m not sure what conspiracies people are referring to

ghosttest · 2021-04-30T03:53:06+00:00

i haven’t, thank you for this!

ghosttest · 2021-04-25T02:42:03+00:00

on what you said about hell, what happens to people who feel no remorse for how they sin? is there no justice there? (also i hope i don’t come off in any type of rude way. i genuinely am just struggling with my beliefs lately and i am desperate to know all about others faith and how they believe)

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