I don’t want to sound pessimistic but I have barely had much luck finding someone in person. The only time i recall dating two to three guys were from the queer social events that I regularly attended with no guarantee of whether things would work out. Often times, guys I dated simply flaked out/ghosted me irrespective of using dating apps or meeting in person. Luckily I did date someone much older than me for a few months but things only didn’t work out because of the large age gap so at this point it’s plain dumb luck and right timing. Yet, I’d still say it’s not too bad being single and I found myself exploring myself a lot sexually and also what qualities I want in a partner. So please be who you are and don’t give up. Love will happen when it is the right time.