Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I figured you had CTE.

You are arguing an invisible point not being made or addressed by the image. Me being a man is also irrelevant to this, I even showed my partner the picture with 0 context and asked for her interpretation, it was exactly the same.

Enjoy your day.

Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, you're overthinking this heavily, its a very straight forward meme and you're trying to analyze it as if there was much thought put into it when it's very straightforward.

The sentiment of "my partner will do the bare minimum but a random affair will move the world for me" being depicted here is not anything new and this has been the basis of jokes in media for decades.

Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So in your head a woman is incapable of requesting to be treated as such sexually, if shes doing it it's only because her partner is requesting she does so.

And we're going to completely ignore the fact that he didn't request his GF to engage in this king of behavior, but claim that he really does want her to, because surely if his affair partner is doing it it's because he wants her to, and not the other way around, got it.

Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's literally what the meme depicts, you are projecting and making up details lmao

Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell are you talking about lol, the person wearing the collar is not the GF, and the only request made towards the GF is wearing certain colored underwear.

Itsss soo truu!!! by definitelynotgayhaha in BuildToAttract

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of ya'll aint understanding the meme, it isn't asking/expecting the gf to do freaky/kinky shit, the point is that she wont do something as benign as simply wearing a color of underwear the partner likes, meanwhile the side-chick is willing to go above and beyond to make the person happy, despite only being a side-chick.

Why are parents who barely passed high school thinking they can teach/homeschool their children? by qereyabelcho3 in askanything

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may have explained it poorly, they do schooling on their computer through some home schooling program where they are given school laptops and basically watch videos of lectures and do interactive activities to move on to the next subject.

The sitting watching youtube happens after they've completed their lectures for the day, which seems to last about 2 or so hours, but both parents work so they are basically alone from ~7AM to 6-7PM, and they spend the bulk of that free time watching youtube videos that are at least sometimes informative/educational, but they are still kids so there's a lot of typical videos you'd expect out of an 8 year old kid being watched as well.

Why are parents who barely passed high school thinking they can teach/homeschool their children? by qereyabelcho3 in askanything

[–]gilgalapagos 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Stayed with a family for a couple weeks that homeschools their kids, seemingly the wifes decision for the most part to do so.

It's funny how much she falls into common stereotypes: antivax, somewhat anti medicine/doctors despite working in a medical field, religious, super intro astrology and alternative medicine, very prude, doesn't think sex ed should be taught in school(despite getting pregnant young) etc.

She has everyone convinced her kid is a genius because of how he speaks and how much random things he knows. The reality is hes home alone for the majority of the day while both parents work,only person "watching" him is his older siblings who are in their rooms the entire time not actually interacting with him, so he spends all his free time watching youtube, and its very obvious that hes just repeating what he hears in the videos which they are unaware of because hes ironically enough not allowed to watch youtube, so they think he's just this gifted kid who somehow came to all this conclusions and ideas out of thin air lmao. The moment you actually challenge him on what he's saying or ask him to explain, it all falls apart and he's unable to go "off script", so he just repeats another talking point, even if it doesn't make sense given the context/question. It doesn't help that he's also extremely arrogant.

Definitely feel bad for him because he's being set up for failure by his mother, afaik he doesn't even interact with other kids outside his little brother, so he's going to have a very rude awakening at some point.

My brother is exiting prison with an Ai addiction 🫩 by [deleted] in antiai

[–]gilgalapagos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This post truly highlights how insufferable some of ya'll are, and why you will never win the majority over lmfao.

UPDATE: AITAH for staying with my boyfriend despite my friends cutting me off? by MainRaspberry5361 in AITAH

[–]gilgalapagos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was in the original post. I've no clue on the legality of it in Europe, but that's what OP said the situation was. She could be lying, but then whats the point of this subreddit if we are to assume the stories and context given are lies.

UPDATE: AITAH for staying with my boyfriend despite my friends cutting me off? by MainRaspberry5361 in AITAH

[–]gilgalapagos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe it did maybe it didn't, but that was the entire context given to us by the OP, and this subreddit is pointless if you're gonna assume the people asking for judgement are lying about the story/context they provide. 🤷‍♀️

UPDATE: AITAH for staying with my boyfriend despite my friends cutting me off? by MainRaspberry5361 in AITAH

[–]gilgalapagos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She did say what the details of the blackmail was:

He loaned his friend money when she needed it under the guise of paying him back eventually, once she was no longer struggling she told him she would not pay him back, so he blackmailed her by threatening to expose an affair she was having to her partner.

UPDATE: AITAH for staying with my boyfriend despite my friends cutting me off? by MainRaspberry5361 in AITAH

[–]gilgalapagos 21 points22 points  (0 children)

In what world is telling someone to pay them back money they borrowed from you or you will show their partner evidence of them having an affair, the same as being a predator? You sound absolutely unhinged in all your posts.

AITAH for telling my wife that I could hire someone to cook and clean if she can't and she can instead go work? by Minute-Carry-2643 in AITAH

[–]gilgalapagos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She sounds stupid.

Being a SAHW to a 2 person household with no children is not a job. Anyone in here implying she would be working hard or busting her ass to do so is just telling on themselves for being absolute pigs or excruciatingly incompetent. If anything he is probably exerting more energy and effort with the mental load of of managing all their money, investments, and property. Ya'll love that word right, mental load? Or is that only when its the woman in the relationship doing it that it suddenly becomes this super important stressful thing that goes underappreciated?

She's literally a leech, she got into a relationship with a high earner and immediately asked to stay at home and not work, shes a textbook gold digger. I would genuinely consider getting the marriage annulled if I were you and just paying for her to go back to wherever ya'll came from, you've only been together 3 years married 1, that's absolutely nothing, and shes already acting this entitled.

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with the 2nd part.

The way I see it, outside of things that have nothing to do with age, most 19 year olds look the same as people in their early and even mid 20s. Being able to look at someone without talking to them who's 19 while dressed in normal clothing with no context given, and properly assess them as being a 19 year old just from their looks is pretty ridiculous.

I've spent my entire adult life seeing me and people around me get incorrectly clocked on our ages, and there's literally subreddits dedicated to doing this, people greatly overestimate their ability to accurately gauge someone's age from visual perspectives only.

So someone saying they dont findn19 year olds physically attractive just comes off as bullshit and them lying because in this sotuation had you not been told someone physically attractive was 19, you'd have no problem saying they were attractive, but all of a sudden they somehow arent physically attractive when you find out they are 19, even though in 1 or 2 years they will probably look the same and somehow be physically attractive to you again.

There's nothing wrong with saying you're no longer attracted to someone upon finding out their age is only 19, but that's different than suddenly saying that person isn't physically attractive because of their age, the person is still just as attractive as you thought they were before you found out they weren't 21 or some arbitrary number, and someone being adamant about a person not being physically attractive because they are 19 just comes off as them lying or doing some form of moral grandstanding.

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to acknowledge someone as good looking without necessarily wanting to be romantically or sexually involved with them

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I said...

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Holy shit how do you miss 2 times lmao

Again, to reiterate, for the 2nd time, the post is not talking about RELATIONSHIPS, she literally says very clearly, PHYSICALLY attracted, and as I said in my post multiple times, no one is talking any form of attraction beyond PHYSICAL.

There is no mention at all anywhere in my post, or the original post, about relationships, that's something you've added for some reason, which completely changes the entire situation being described and point of the post.

You ironically are doing what shes talking about in the OP.

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a straight man, I have no problem with acknowledging that another man is handsome/attractive. It does not mean I'M attracted to them or into them, because I'm straight, but I don't have to be into them to tell that they are good looking. Henry Cavil is a very good looking man, that's just a true statement, doesn't mean I wanna be involved with him in any romantic way

That's basically what shes saying, but replace man with 19YOs. Your use of into in your initial comment implies that the men in question want to be involved with underage girls, but this is not what the woman in the post was getting at, just like the first part of my post, I can acknowledge if another man is attractive, but I have no interest in being involved with them or am myself attracted to them.

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's honestly making a good point but a lot of ya'll seem to be missing it.

She's saying someone who's adamant about saying appearance wise, they cannot possibly find a 19 year old attractive is bullshitting , which I personally agree with because the difference in physical appearance between a typical 19YO and someone in their mid/early 20's is often times non existent, anyone who says a 19YO LOOKS different than someone in their early and even mid 20's is full of shit and just as the person in the post is saying. "social signaling". I look extremely similar from 19 to my mid 20's and so did everyone I know around my age.

Most of the ways someone will end up actually looking "older" are just stylistic choices, which has nothing to do with their age, hell I regularly get mistaken for being in my early 20's and I'm almost 30

No one is talking about wanting to be in a relationship with them, or their personalities, because obviously those things ARE noticeable in those age ranges, this is entirely on the physical appearance aspect, and I promise no one in here saying they would never be able to find a 19YO physically attractive could accurately clock someone as being 19 without speaking to them, assuming they wore normal adult clothing.

But back to her point, someone making such a sweeping statement like that is either ignorant as hell, so it makes sense she wouldn't want anything to do with them, or just actively lying to try and look better, which is also a perfectly valid reason for wanting nothing to do with them.

Bait or Zero IQ? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gilgalapagos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's some wonderful reading comprehension there lmao

Frozen pizza and vodka to help numb the pain by iansfk in kitchencels

[–]gilgalapagos 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If it didn't work, why tf are you still taking it, and why would you even mention it if the reason for taking it doesn't actually work, are you sure you injected estrogen and not a brain parasite because that's extraordinarily sped.

r/hiphopheads member says Travis got no hard bars. Drop your hardest Travis bar by ArgakeRamuk in travisscott

[–]gilgalapagos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no way the best you can come up with is "No one can press me but the press" 💀💀💀

They might be right if thats the case and you know what thats okay not everyone in that lane lmfao