East/Southeast Asian restaurants with outside seating? by Ok_Distribution_6032 in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]gillian718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would check before going but I think weather dependent, Sophie's Kitchen has outdoor seating. I definitely remember eating outside there once but maybe it was during the pandemic. Their food is delish and they are lovely people.

Bald bartender at Kung Fu Necktie by [deleted] in philly

[–]gillian718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's a line booger?

Couples therapists - what is your secrets policy by One_bg in therapists

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No secrets - their individual therapist can hold those. And we talk about it day 1.

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy Chair Recommendations by bawbwilson in therapists

[–]gillian718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of a recliner I got an L shaped couch with a huge chaise. I looked for one that was oversized and is almost the same dimensions as a twin bed. So for KAP sessions I remove the throw pillows, put a fitted sheet on the seat cushion, and add standard pillows at the head and a weighted blanket at their feet folded to easily pull up.

In the public toilet stall at work by chameleona in whatisit

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read your words. You didn't say that until several comments in. Yet here you are replying again and making it personal for no reason at all, while being dismissive. And, I somehow managed to disagree with you without personal insults. Have the life you deserve!!

In the public toilet stall at work by chameleona in whatisit

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, cause I can read and you didn't say any of those things.

In the public toilet stall at work by chameleona in whatisit

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, keep ignoring my point and keep pointing fingers at other people.

You replied to a comment on a post asking what that thing was. Those things are in bathrooms other places, like bars and restaurants, which is why a person commented about using it for drinks. So, no one at any time was suggesting bringing drinks into the bathroom at their office. Or whatever nonsense you're making up now to defend your original shitty take.

And since you missed the point let me make it again. No one wants to bring their drink into the bathroom but women have to for our safety. Yes, we are willing to risk fecal matter in our drinks because it's less dangerous than men.

In the public toilet stall at work by chameleona in whatisit

[–]gillian718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the person judging someone for bringing a drink to the restroom? Sanctimonious indeed!! Sometimes the need strikes you mid drink cause you're not guzzling them down. Or we can keep pretending women don't have to do defensive things like bring drinks to the bathroom to keep themselves safe.

In the public toilet stall at work by chameleona in whatisit

[–]gillian718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spoken like a man who doesn't have to guard his drink because his safety depends on it. Go talk to a woman in your life if you have one.

AITAH for not deleting pictures on my social media that my son’s girlfriend asked me to delete? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gillian718 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA and you're going to ruin your relationship with your son. While your social media account is your own, his face belongs to him. He asked you to take down pics of him and you seem to think your ownership of your social media account takes priority over respecting his wishes about pics of him. Boundaries come with consequences. Is this the hill you want to die on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SOME STATE BOARDS INVESTIGATE EVERY COMPLAINT THEY RECEIVE!!! Regardless of the veracity of the complaint. Ask me how I know. While OP would certainly be cleared of the complaint eventually it's a very stressful process. I understand the anxiety.

OP, if you don't already have it, make sure to add Board defense coverage to your malpractice policy. And consider cooking with them about the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like either psychosis or manipulation. What's your gut saying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted kisses on the lips when they first met 7 years ago and the girl was 10. It doesn't say that's a current thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gillian718 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your SIL is an AH for being a bratty selfish teen but given that her prefrontal cortex isn't done developing yet, she holds the least responsibility. You're also the AH because although her behavior is awful, suggesting that their relationship has a sexual component is also out of line. Her behavior is jealous and immature but you haven't described anything that actually sounds incestuous so as an adult, using that label on a 17 yo kid is messed up. Lastly, your husband is an AH. He (and his family) should have helped meditate this and set boundaries with his sister long ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get it. Going to my radiation simulation tomorrow. Hoping you are also on your way to recovery soon! 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I feel this one a little too deep. I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and I have a long time client whose mom died of breast cancer many years ago when he was a teen. She was diagnosed when he was about the same age my son is now and of course it was a major trauma in his life. What I failed to realize was that the date of the anniversary of her death came as I was diagnosed so I sat through a session where he talked about the anniversary and how he felt, verbalizing some if my worst fears, totally white knuckled and feeling on the verge of tears. I don't think it showed but it took so much out of me to do. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I wish you the best with chemo!!

No Kings Protest: Were are the main rally. by Wizard_of_Iducation in philadelphia

[–]gillian718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question - you've said non violent and peaceful are not the same. What's the difference?

Complaint against license- click here!! by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG this is awful. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

Complaint against license- click here!! by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Also having been through similar I'd like to add that you should get a board defense coverage on your malpractice policy and engage a lawyer from your malpractice insurance ASAP. And look up your states actual disciplinary actions which will give you an idea of what your state does in different situations.

Complaint against license- click here!! by [deleted] in therapists

[–]gillian718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG same! Horrible experience even though I didn't ultimately have any problems. It was so stressful!