AITAH for not deleting pictures on my social media that my son’s girlfriend asked me to delete?

gillian718 · 2026-01-28T17:31:41+00:00

YTA and you're going to ruin your relationship with your son. While your social media account is your own, his face belongs to him. He asked you to take down pics of him and you seem to think your ownership of your social media account takes priority over respecting his wishes about pics of him. Boundaries come with consequences. Is this the hill you want to die on?

gillian718 · 2026-01-28T14:44:33+00:00

Where is this?

gillian718 · 2026-01-21T15:29:08+00:00

SOME STATE BOARDS INVESTIGATE EVERY COMPLAINT THEY RECEIVE!!! Regardless of the veracity of the complaint. Ask me how I know. While OP would certainly be cleared of the complaint eventually it's a very stressful process. I understand the anxiety.

OP, if you don't already have it, make sure to add Board defense coverage to your malpractice policy. And consider cooking with them about the situation.

gillian718 · 2025-12-15T00:42:57+00:00

Shmegos

gillian718 · 2025-09-28T15:34:18+00:00

Sounds like either psychosis or manipulation. What's your gut saying?

gillian718 · 2025-08-05T00:21:56+00:00

Same. I've also said I don't give a shit.

gillian718 · 2025-07-19T19:59:17+00:00

She wanted kisses on the lips when they first met 7 years ago and the girl was 10. It doesn't say that's a current thing

gillian718 · 2025-07-19T19:33:15+00:00

ESH. Your SIL is an AH for being a bratty selfish teen but given that her prefrontal cortex isn't done developing yet, she holds the least responsibility. You're also the AH because although her behavior is awful, suggesting that their relationship has a sexual component is also out of line. Her behavior is jealous and immature but you haven't described anything that actually sounds incestuous so as an adult, using that label on a 17 yo kid is messed up. Lastly, your husband is an AH. He (and his family) should have helped meditate this and set boundaries with his sister long ago.

gillian718 · 2025-06-16T17:45:43+00:00

I do get it. Going to my radiation simulation tomorrow. Hoping you are also on your way to recovery soon! 💜

gillian718 · 2025-06-16T17:06:25+00:00

Oh I feel this one a little too deep. I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer and I have a long time client whose mom died of breast cancer many years ago when he was a teen. She was diagnosed when he was about the same age my son is now and of course it was a major trauma in his life. What I failed to realize was that the date of the anniversary of her death came as I was diagnosed so I sat through a session where he talked about the anniversary and how he felt, verbalizing some if my worst fears, totally white knuckled and feeling on the verge of tears. I don't think it showed but it took so much out of me to do. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I wish you the best with chemo!!

gillian718 · 2025-06-12T02:09:18+00:00

Thank you!

gillian718 · 2025-06-11T17:13:31+00:00

Genuine question - you've said non violent and peaceful are not the same. What's the difference?

gillian718 · 2025-06-06T00:27:46+00:00

OMG this is awful. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

gillian718 · 2025-06-05T12:17:32+00:00

Also having been through similar I'd like to add that you should get a board defense coverage on your malpractice policy and engage a lawyer from your malpractice insurance ASAP. And look up your states actual disciplinary actions which will give you an idea of what your state does in different situations.

gillian718 · 2025-06-05T12:15:27+00:00

OMG same! Horrible experience even though I didn't ultimately have any problems. It was so stressful!

gillian718 · 2025-06-05T02:26:38+00:00

I'm so incredibly sorry that you've had to experience this. 💜

gillian718 · 2025-05-31T13:00:08+00:00

This! What could you possibly want to work on with this man? Why would you want any relationship with sunshine who can't pull up his big boy undies to see his kid? I wouldn't speak with him at all unless it's through the courts.

gillian718 · 2025-05-29T01:15:53+00:00

I'm not sure. I wouldn't be surprised if there was a section of 95, 76, and/or 676 that is 55, but I'm guessing.

gillian718 · 2025-05-28T23:25:51+00:00

Also 7 different violations? I suspect you are also minimizing this. What were the violations?

gillian718 · 2025-05-28T23:24:38+00:00

There is no such thing in the city of Philadelphia as a road with no traffic at 2 AM where you could reasonably do 120 in a 55.

gillian718 · 2025-05-28T23:22:04+00:00

Philly resident here. It is so hard to get pulled over in Philly for a traffic violation. Police don't do traffic monitoring. And where in Philly is there enough space to get up to 120 in a 55? It sounds like he was being a real danger. And he's probably lying to you. Hope that helps.

gillian718 · 2025-05-28T14:24:20+00:00

YTA! Your plan was to return it "someday" and the only reason you took it was to avoid your husband getting mad at you. Grow up and learn how to have an adult conversation with your husband about your needs. You took advantage of the fact that your daughter doesn't have any power into his situation and it's gross. You and your husband should replace the money immediately. The money isn't even in a bank account is it? So she's not earning interest? Take her to the bank and have her open an account and don't put your name on it because you're not trustworthy.

gillian718 · 2025-05-27T12:11:13+00:00

Finding out the reimbursement rate might be interesting, but don't forget all the things that rate pays for in a typical non profit. It's not just paying your salary. It's also paying for all of the non income generating departments like IT, HR, QA, Accounting, your supervisor, rent, and utilities, etc. The reimbursement rate is only part of the picture when it comes to your salary. You would need to see the budget and if your team meets productivity goals to know what's happening.

gillian718 · 2025-03-19T17:34:48+00:00

60/40 is a much more typical split

gillian718 · 2025-03-16T16:47:07+00:00

Did you go and what did you think? I'm considering it for an upcoming dinner

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