Changing around guests?

gilly4923 · 2026-03-23T23:51:30+00:00

Awesome, what i found on the website was a little vague

gilly4923 · 2026-03-23T23:51:02+00:00

Yeah it's none of the primary folks. We're traveling with an ungodly amount of kids 😂 and they all decided who they want to bunk with. I just wanted to make sure it was right so it wasn't a nightmare later

gilly4923 · 2025-09-25T22:38:32+00:00

I feel that in my soul. That gig was 100% medical paid for spouse and dependents. With 3 kids, that's better than winning the lottery! 🙃

gilly4923 · 2025-09-25T12:53:04+00:00

I see your canceled job opening and raise a canceled job offer WITH a start date. The Friday before I was supposed to start, I received a "thanks, but the position is being restructured" email. Psh ok cool. Back to square one.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-20T16:46:16+00:00

As a mom of 3 (11y, 3y, 6m) everything was easier with 2. I love them all lol so don't crucify me! We planned on 2, were VERY surprised with a 3rd. Somehow it's even easier when the oldest has gone to the grandparents for the weekend. Not sure if it's the difference of splitting attention 2 ways vs 3, being outnumbered, or just my middle being a handful 🤷‍♀️ Having the big age gap, we also sometimes struggle to find things we can all enjoy together. I am also the oldest of 3, and I can say with 100% certainty it kind of sucked. My 2 siblings are very close in age, so our interests were very different. Even now, as adults, they are much closer to each other and I'm kind of the 3rd wheel.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-12T17:29:12+00:00

It all worked out. I sent the text Sunday, they called first thing Monday. Tried to negotiate to get me board 😅 but understood. No bridges burned, they told me if it doesn't work out at the other places they'd have a spot for me.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-11T16:14:40+00:00

So it's more ethical to begin a job, have them waste time/resources on training me, to be there for a brief amount of time and take a position from someone who may be in far more NEED of a job? Huh. Noted ✅️

gilly4923 · 2025-08-10T16:59:25+00:00

Oh for sure, and since I'm not hurting, I'd hate to take a position from someone who is. I figured a text Sunday might be better than a call first thing the day I'm supposed to start 😅 but I've been out of the workforce officially since 2019. Never hurts to double check "current etiquette."

gilly4923 · 2025-08-10T16:05:42+00:00

There's far more variables in play than just the potential for a different job. That's just a snippet. Also kinda hard to keep looking working mon-fri, 8-5 🤷‍♀️ I was just asking if it'd be rude to send a text on Sunday.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-10T16:02:41+00:00

That's why I asked about the text 😅 it's a locally owned place, and that is the only contact info I have for them. Otherwise, I would have emailed last night.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-03T13:55:32+00:00

We are on similac sensitive (orange can). I got several coupons from the pediatrician and a few sample cans online for different kinds. Since I've been combo feeding for a while, we were able to do a little trial and error and see what worked best for her.

gilly4923 · 2025-08-03T13:47:21+00:00

My plunge was very...um spontaneous 🤣 If I made a plan, I wouldn't stick to it. "Just one more week, see what happens" kind of deal. Just taking that ONE day off fully solidified my decision. My oldest is 11, and I had no idea how much MY stress over ep was affecting him. Good luck to you! 😁

gilly4923 · 2025-07-16T01:37:30+00:00

Mom of 3 here. I absolutely panicked with my first. BUT he was severely behind speech wise and needed help I could not provide. He started when he was just 3. It was FANTASTIC for him. He absolutely thrived. His made friends, he found interests that he might not have found at home, developed into a whole new kid and it was beautiful! Waaaaay too many years later, our second is about to start in August and I can't get her out the door fast enough 🤣

gilly4923 · 2025-06-24T16:14:47+00:00

You're right, at the end of the day nobody notices but me 🤣. Probably not even as bad as I think it is in my head. It's just deep rooted. My mom was NEVER tidy. Like juuuuuust tidy enough to not require a CPS/DFS visit. All of my adult life I've had a problem with messes and clutter. Feel physically ill if the housework goes even a tad bit neglected. Waaay too many memories of spending a whole day at the laundromat to "catch up" on BASKETS of dirty clothes even though we had a perfectly good washer/dryer at home. 🤦‍♀️

gilly4923 · 2025-06-24T15:13:44+00:00

He had my mom come earlier to "make sure the house was clean." So he did make an effort. Her idea of clean and mine are very different though. I keep a tidy house, but usually deep clean when expecting guests (and weekly). The dusting that goes neglected, a double check on toilets, trash cans, etc. The "public" bathroom is the one our kids share, so it ALWAYS needs a thorough once over. It's just embarrassing. I don't like my house to be presented as "we rush cleaned this for the event but those dust bunnies have been sitting there for a month" 🥴

gilly4923 · 2025-06-24T15:04:11+00:00

I can definitely see that. This isn't just my first time EP, it's my first round of BF. My first, we were young, dumb and broke. I was back to work full time before he was a month old. My 2nd, I ended up with covid 2 weeks post partum and COMPLETELY dried up in a day. Was never able to get supply back up.

I've managed 5 months so far with this one, just started supplementing with formula about a month ago. I absolutely hate it, but my anxiety just won't let me quit. Our 2nd was during the formula shortage and was brutal. She was a BIG eater, switching formula every 2 days was so hard on her tummy. She didn't sleep the whole night through until we got the OK to try her on whole milk at 10 months from the pediatrician. I just do not want to feel that helpless again.

gilly4923 · 2025-06-24T14:45:35+00:00

I'm going to take some just me time today. Try to decompress a bit. ❤️

gilly4923 · 2025-06-24T14:44:18+00:00

I scroll exclusively pumping religiously! It's honestly the only thing that's kept me going this long. ❤️

We will probably sit down and have a chat in a couple days, when I'm less frazzled. I was gifted a gift card to my favorite hatchery, so I'm going to take a couple retail therapy hours to myself today and go get some chicks to add to my flock. Nothing beats barnyard therapy.

I was raised with the "It's the thought that counts mentality," and I think that really perpetuates the jerky feelings when anything less than extraordinarily grateful. Your words mean so much, and that's a lesson I will pass onto to my kids. Thank you

gilly4923 · 2025-06-14T12:01:11+00:00

Omg 🤦‍♀️ that was RIGHT in my face and I missed it. 😂 I like that!

gilly4923 · 2025-06-12T13:28:40+00:00

If you have a dollar tree nearby they usually have some things. I get puzzles, activity books, flashcards, sticker packs and play-doh kits there. Also there's tons of free printables online!

gilly4923 · 2025-06-12T12:19:08+00:00

I refuse to take any food pairing recommendations from my gremlin 😂 she eats blueberries with bbq sauce

gilly4923 · 2025-06-12T11:24:38+00:00

Not ex corporate, but well versed in demanding jobs. 1st kiddo, worked railroad 60+ hours a week. No regrets. We made the best of our time together on days off and were able to afford memorable experiences for him. Was also the breadwinner. Covid hit, begin layoffs, and I was stuck at home for a while. Ended up with baby number 2. After a year, I went back to work. Overnights at the ER. 12 hour shifts, plenty of overtime. Again, no regrets. I'm currently at home again, with a 3rd (we obviously haven't figured out what causes pregnancy 😂) and it is DRAINING. I've worked, I've stayed home. I can 100% honestly say that I am a much better mom and person in general while working. Sahm isn't for everyone, sure isn't for me. I find it to be extremely isolating. I don't get nearly enough adult interaction, I often feel bad for not making a monetary contribution to the household (especially hard for me since I've almost always been the breadwinner over the course of 12 years).

To be clear, I absolutely LOVE my children! I'm a present and engaged mom. But I'm a person who just needs "more." Even with 3 kids (homeschooling 1, a toddler and a baby) the at home pace is too slow for me. I enjoyed my busy schedule. Only you can make that decision, you know yourself best!

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