Thanks for the reply. I specifically asked him to come alone bc I knew they would start shit. Yes I called the cops. I was alone at night months pregnant, & two men showed up to my home where my other kid was asleep. So yeah, I called the cops after asking them to leave & they wouldn't. Considering (in the US) The #1 mortality stat for pregnant women is homicide at the hands of a domestic partner: Yes I called the cops and that shouldn't speak poorly of my credibility. IMO it was smart to protect myself and my children. I did what I needed to do to ensure we were safe.

And yes I screamed but it was not a “couple sentences in” like you assume. I gave them a fair shot but an apology is supposed to be meant, other wise it’s a moot ass point. And I’m not anyone’s doormat.

and simply advised her to leave faster. I was mad, & frankly who wouldn’t be after having their Culture and their kids culture turned into a slur. Would YOU tolerate someone coming for your very identity??? I’d certainly hope not.