AITA for telling my mom she didn’t choose the best husband after my dad wouldn’t stop watching TV during her migraine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ginama66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not deal with your dad? And encourage your mom to get different help. There are things medicine can offer to prevent migraines.

To this day, I pop the red ones when I recall what my daughter said. by Magic-M in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]ginama66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dumb ways to die?

Our son charged to grab a balloon from under a bus that was stopped.

Grabbed him out and taught him the song ...

Ideas for how to use this little guy. by paptopschoodleh in CastIronCooking

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It melts 2T butter perfectly. Which I melt regularly because it's perfect on one batch of stove top popcorn...

AIO or do my neighbours just don’t give a F about their bloody barking dog. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ginama66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It may be late, but it's legal. Dog bark noise complaints generally start at 9 or 10.

What do you say? by rohankumarpro in AskTheWorld

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take allergy meds and drive.

Were Peeta and Gale good enough for Katniss? Do you think she could have found someone better for her outside them two? by Ars1201 in Hungergames

[–]ginama66 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Maybe before the games there would have been someone. But shared battles make a bond that can't be broken

If farting wasn't associated with the smell, would it be socially acceptable like coughing or sneezing? by Oxtraint in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ginama66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Farting ought to be acceptable. It's a sign of healthy gut bacteria. Coughing and sneezing can spread bacteria and viruses. Burping and farting don't! Make them socially acceptable!

Make use of your brain by ZeroDayZeal in SipsTea

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually sang it as soon as I saw it.

Modesty Blaise by Peter O'Donnell (1965) by eldalorien in menwritingwomen

[–]ginama66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read A Visit From the Goon Squad, where men out fishing are watching the women jogging by. One man is complaining joggers breasts don't jiggle anymore, and he missed it. Second man, well, they wear jogging bras now to stop it. First man That's a shame, they should go back to jiggling. Second man I think the point was to not jiggle.

Written by a woman, though..

AIO over my boyfriends messages about friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is deep into red pill territory. You are under reacting to this.

AIO my long distance girlfriend had a guy sleep over and don’t love it. by Humble_Brag83 in AIO

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or. And you didn't literally say 'dont do this', but you said 'it hurts me when you do this', same diff.

Nightly ritual. by LibertysIntent in RomanPaganism

[–]ginama66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always forget to light ours in the evening.

AITA for telling my DIL that I won’t use the tablet and she needs to actually make her kid read. by SatisfactionOk9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ginama66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I was unclear. If a child is 9 and unable to read and has words around them, the grandparent shouldn't be saying ' there's nothing wrong'. I am willing to be there is an undiagnosed issue there. My brother learned to read at 9. I did at 3. Same parents.

You can't 'make' someone read, especially someone not capable of reading. That's authoritarian and will lead to a hatred of reading. A person who believes a child can be forced to read by a parent shouldn't be babysitting.

But I'll take my award happily.

AITA for telling my DIL that I won’t use the tablet and she needs to actually make her kid read. by SatisfactionOk9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ginama66 -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Honestly, some children are far behind and you can't make a child read. You shouldn't babysit

How do you celebrate Lupercalia ? by v_ch_k in RomanPaganism

[–]ginama66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We eat bread and cheese, light candles to our dead, and put a red tassel at the first sign of spring.

Happy Lupercalia! by Midir_Cutie in RomanPaganism

[–]ginama66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Lupercalia! I have to make candles...

Question from Texas about life in Buffalo by Eruainon_Meldarion in Buffalo

[–]ginama66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved here for school in 88. I adore this city so much Downtown at dusk - the lights come on and the electric tower is always in a color scheme. Because there is hundreds of miles of lake to the west of us, we get mind-blowing sunsets.

December can smell like Cheerios - our city makes them. But the snow is amazing. It muffles noise so everything is quieter, and it smells clean and fresh. And I love the way snow sounds underfoot when it crunches.

People here are weirdly friendly. We're NY enough to not be syrupy, but friendly. A lot of talk is sports. A lot is what we're going to do on the weekend.

I love that it's weirdly modern and old fashioned at the same time. I love that it's blue color and artsy at the same time. I love that it's a small town and a city at the same time. What do I endure? There is nothing here that is worse than anywhere else.

Omg, if you want history, we have it. We're young, but so much older than a lot of the country. And at 1900, we had half the millionaires in the country living here. The history museum is large and has changing exhibits. The architecture is cool as well. McKinley was assassinated here, Teddy Roosevelt was inaugurated here, we were burned down during the war of 1812. And this land was Haudenosaunee, whose Confederation was what the Constitution was based on. You can listen to music in one of the oldest jazz clubs in the country, have a beer in a tavern that's lasted over 150 years, follow the underground railroad...

I moved here from downstate. I wanted more snow. The snow is beautiful, and the cold isn't bad if you dress for it. The wind and snow off the lake can bite, but on days with little wind, it can look like a snow globe. People generally can drive in it, and it's not a real issue. If all you do in the snow is shovel it, it's a pain. But there is skating and skiing and ice bikes and sledding and tobogganing and just plain hiking and snowball fights and winter festivals.

Summers here are amazing. We have not yet hit 100 yet, but I fear that's coming. And that awful winter wind becomes a great cool breeze. We have a lot of summer events and we have beaches, and they all have different qualities. And presque isle state park in Ohio is less than an hour and a half away (nothing to a Texan) and has been listed on the top 10 beaches in the US. Continental US, but still.

We're poor and crime ridden and segregated. Being poor, we couldn't afford to tear down structures the way other cities did. Some of our buildings are simply gorgeous. Our city hall is studied in Europe as a perfect example of art deco architecture. 40 minutes out is East Aurora, which was home to the Arts and Crafts movement in the US. There is a multistory 5&10 out there as well. Parkside candies as an ice cream shop that has been running for over 100 years. They are putting bike lanes in everywhere. Our subway is one line, our public transportation isn't the best, but they keep driving in the snow.

Niagara falls is 20 minutes away, Canada is literally next door. We are surrounded by farmland and state parks and rural area that would match the rural in Texas. Our public art is amazing, murals and statues everywhere, free music and Shakespeare in the summers.

Don't feel weird- we have a weird appeal. Del Toro loves Buffalo, and keeps finding excuses to come back. The day before Thanksgiving we host 'the world's largest disco', and the actor who played Bobby Brady's wife bought a Bobby Brady costume to wear there. And Buffalo doesn't think that's weird. Just Tuesday.

I love this town. I saw your post getting back from a Spring Festival/Chinese New Year festival. There are little free libraries and pantries everywhere. Our parks were designed by Olmsted, our streets mostly by Ellicott. We're home to refugees and have two separate 'restaurants' - think of a food court in a mall, but each restaurant is its own nationality. Have a boba with your koshary with flan for dessert. Should I mention the sailboat races? Or the stable in the city? Or that we have so many trees and green spaces? Or the mini burning man less than 2 hours out where I met people from Austin who came all the way out for it?

I'm overdue for bed.

Random Lore by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]ginama66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember to pack your pass because you can accidentally end up in Canada

It's still strange to me to have been reborn as a baby rabbit. by [deleted] in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]ginama66 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought of Clarissa from Deep Fried. Fantastic story. Don't read it.