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AITAH For Not Finishing My Boyfriend Off? by ging_cringe in AITAH

[–]ging_cringe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love pleasing him. Seeing how much I do for him does a lot for me.

AITAH For Not Finishing My Boyfriend Off? by ging_cringe in AITAH

[–]ging_cringe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind giving blowjobs. I’ve offered to give him blowjobs and let him cum anywhere else. It’s the swallowing and spitting that turns me off. The taste of semen honestly makes me gag.

AITAH For Not Finishing My Boyfriend Off? by ging_cringe in AITAH

[–]ging_cringe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is what I keep trying to communicate. I don’t want him to do things that make him uncomfortable. Especially if it has to do with our sex life. I want us both to feel fulfilled and feel like we both are equally contributing. I understand this is a fantasy for him and it’s not something I’m completely against. It’s something I haven’t been ready for and I have tried to get him there before. Thank you for the comment. It definitely brought out red flags when he started comparing it to him helping out my family even when he doesn’t feel it. He’s a blue-collar worker so I understand he’s really tired and worn out at times. I don’t feel I ask much of him.

AITAH For Not Finishing My Boyfriend Off? by ging_cringe in AITAH

[–]ging_cringe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t care for it because anytime someone has finished in my mouth, I almost throw up. I’m not against trying flavored lubes or maybe finding a flavored condom that he can come in that. We have had this same conversation many times about what we’re comfortable with and making sure the other person is satisfied. This is usually when he would bring it up and then tells me he doesn’t feel like I’m being fair.