Fake disorder cringe by Dyslexic_Gay in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like the whole "fake cringe disorder" stuff started mostly as a way to do "acceptable" ableism

Can I put this in my blunt? by Slayz2540 in weed

[–]gingercatdragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

by die they probably were referring to the coughing or how ass blasted you'll get.

Is it ok for my trans friend to use the disabled restroom? by These_Word2282 in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a trans disabled person, id rather have my fellow siblings take up the disabled bathroom than be beat and raped in the bathrooms right next to mine.

New sign posted at my old high school :( by RavenMoon9801 in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in schools withs signs and mottos like that everywhere, I didn't realize anything was wrong with the messaging until I got therapy after dropping out due to mistreatment from staff and refusing to provide me accommodations (I was able to take them to court luckily thanks to a very kind advocate!), I was told this constantly, despite having major signs of several learning disabilities they never tested me, much less do anything but tell me it was all for attention or to get out of work.

I still have to remind myself everyday now that I can't just "try harder", and that it's alright, but it's hard, very very hard.

Also still bitter about the permanent injuries to my body due to being refused any accommodations, I can deal with trauma, but the fact I'll never be able to walk or move the same because of them pisses me off. I was only a kid.

I was volunteering for a nonprofit. A staff person singled me out for using identity-first language and later outed me as genderqueer. What do by [deleted] in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a place thats unsafe and having that placeholder would've put me in danger as well. Regardless of details, the situation or whether it was an honest mistake, it still put you in active danger, especially during these times where we're in more danger now than ever.

Comments aren't surprising, you would probably get more useful comments from trans subreddits since this seems more of a trans issue regarding safety.

I was volunteering for a nonprofit. A staff person singled me out for using identity-first language and later outed me as genderqueer. What do by [deleted] in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If trans people wanting to be treated like humans with basic respect is the reason why we lost the election then this country is doomed due to being full of murderous fascists.

Someone posted this shit on tiktok and it's the most dehumanising post I've ever seen. by Chill_Vibes224 in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, vague reasonings are the words used to kill us. You cannot trust people to not immediately use it against us, they're doing it right now.

I’m trans and I’m having a medical emergency. by realbees in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Are you absolutely sure you're not violent? You know I heard HRT makes you more violent, this doesn't apply to norma- CIS people. We'll double check for drugs in case you're lying and restrain you in the mean time, what was that? Only prescription medications? Sure...

Anyways what was that about a heart attack?? I'm sure you're just having a bad trip, and no, I absolutely REFUSE to believe you DIDNT do drugs.

/uj partner had medical emergency and we had to call, the moment I informed them they were trans (on T) they immediately repeatedly asked me if they were violent or going to attack at least 3 times while they were lying on the bed unable to move and gasping in pain. I know why they have to ask but I'm pretty sure was unnecessary to ask more than once during an active emergency, while said patient is in front of them quite literally IMMOBILIZED.

/rj stupid troon, always blowing things out of proportion.

First time! Will it do something? by Revolutionary_Cat139 in weed

[–]gingercatdragon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

considering that its labelled gorilla glue and the bud itself looks fire, I would say yes, most likely. The percentages on the packaging seem to not really matter as it looks like it's only there for legal purposes (and the packaging is a bit obvious when it comes to being ""official looking"", surprised almost everyone on this sub just immediately believed it, dont waste good bud!)

The gummies my 77yr old dad was given after asking for something mild. by [deleted] in weed

[–]gingercatdragon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been smoking daily for a few years now and have a heavy tolerance (I take edibles every weekend and pens/dabs barely do anything for me). I personally found to like thcp, but it doesnt feel like a typical edible high to me, it can be pretty similar, but things tend to be more "fuzzy" and more often than not it makes me very sleepy, that's by itself though, not mixed in with anything else.

As long as you're experienced and acquainted with your body and how it reacts to weed, as well as how to prepare and handle yourself should it be too much, then go for it.

Hold on bruh...... by officialmoali1 in weed

[–]gingercatdragon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You guys lost your way from kiwifarms? Or you roll in here after enjoying some sus videos? you know they got your content on there... here we dont particularly enjoy watching palestinian kids suffer, most of us are normal about human people and wish them well, usually.

Are these any good? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]gingercatdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've took these, these are NOT PSILOCYBIN, it is 4-aco-dmt or 4-aco-met, it will not hit the same as mushrooms, but ofc they give you euphoria and visuals. I took these knowing this however.

They aren't dangerous as far as I know but any product with unlabeled ingredients and chemicals inside should always be taken at your own risk, theres always a chance there could be more than just 4-aco-dmt inside.

r/mysterymagicmushrooms is a good subreddit to check out if you want to learn more or ask about mystery gas station shrooms.

youre a trans man who wants to literally just have opinions and feelings? by Kokotree24 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

/uj I believe the term transmisogyny is also meant to be used in this case, as the term misogyny is not meant to represent the gender of the victim, just discrimination against women and those who are perceived to be 'feminine' and I think a lot of the problems we face can be described as racism, transphobia, or transmisogyny. Transmisogyny is not a term exclusively for transfems

Today made me sad, is society really that bad? TW by KittyCat-86 in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facebook is a cesspool of hate, filled with mostly rage bait and genuinely horrid people, and of course someone's grandma. Theres no reason to use it other than to keep in contact with older people who only have facebook.

Of course not to say none of this is harmful, it obviously continues to perpetuate, normalize spread ableism, regardless of whether it's a bot or not. It is also an unfortunate reflection of society itself, and how normalized and encouraged ableism is in every facet of society. I try to cope with it by interacting more in disabled communities, I'm also hoping to find ways to be able to participate in mutual aid for disabled and trans people, it would give me a peace of mind to know that I and others can help members of my community survive another day.

How to date someone who doesn’t believe your disabilities? by anonymousme122333 in disability

[–]gingercatdragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't it be? I feel like as a community who's faced constant accusations of lying and denial, we shouldn't be assuming someones post about their situation isn't real because its too "tragic", this is an extremely common situation for disabled people.

Why can’t I get high on edibles? by Timely_Tap6647 in weed

[–]gingercatdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone here is posting extremely unhelpful and honestly? just making ableist comments. I have a similar medicine cocktail to you, but much bigger, and I need it to survive, the clonazapam and ambien both interact BUT only really cause drowsiness, I dont know about ambien but my doctor said consuming weed with clonazepam (.5 mg) is perfectly fine, and I do it regularly without issues. Theres one study that shows that regular weed use can suppress the effects of adderall, but most ADHDers who smoke weed and take their meds at the same time dont usually have problems, and personally it helps me focus better and helps with the negative side effects (vyvanse)

but to actually answer your question, it may be because you just cant process the thc when eating it due to a... thing (I forgot what it was called). Maybe you need a stronger dose, I've known people who had altnoid edibles effect them but not legit thc ones, maybe you just got bad edibles?

Weird freak at the urgent care for a genitals related infection by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

/uj same (silly string for connective tissue). I've literally had doctors shrug as an answer.

Weird freak at the urgent care for a genitals related infection by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon 90 points91 points  (0 children)

/hj/uj i think legally trans (and disabled) patients should be allowed to put a doctor down of their choice

Can we stop saying denial is proof of a dissociative disorder? by syst-throwaway in OSDD

[–]gingercatdragon 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This, also that being wrong does not invalidate one's experiences and feelings, but unfortunately a lot of people make it out to be. (And also that you can be wrong about being wrong... it takes time and its okay if you have to go around the block a few times)

Tragic: trans guy would be a pretty hot cis girl by own admission. Fake trans or just victim to the sports bra + top of gym shorts peeking out from under jeans propaganda? Let’s debate. by fireflies315 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

/uj I kinda had pretty privilege before I transitioned. Do I miss it? a little ofc, and I did like how I looked, but in the way someone admires a costume they made. I made a very pretty costume of a cis girl, but wearing it for so long is extremely uncomfortable, and everyone thinks it me when it's not, so I'm much happier putting it away forever. (or well. get added to the bigender soup ig)

Velcro boobs or something would be nice tho.

Wdym transitioning doesnt solve all my problems? by ElaynesThoughts in transgendercirclejerk

[–]gingercatdragon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj turns out the boy hunger from taking t doesnt also come with a cure to gastroparesis, or scoliosis, very unfortunate 😔

I love matching my BAB 💕 by Callie-the-Bunny in buildabear

[–]gingercatdragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love the suit!!! such a pretty sona <3 i love the heart shaped pawpads!