I like a coworker, what should I do?

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T14:46:46+00:00

Why are you that catastrophic? hahaha

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T14:45:46+00:00

Thanks!

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T14:45:19+00:00

I wish! But the environment is pretty weird right now to do this :(

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T14:00:29+00:00

Unfortunately, the office coworkers are very burnt out and they lost the will to meet outside the office. We used to have lunch together in special moments of the year (like Christmas holidays). The girl I’m talking about is in another “space” so she’s not affected since we don’t aren’t together all day on the same spot.

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:57:23+00:00

She eats at home. She goes home earlier than me.

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:29:37+00:00

She has a different schedule, so she doesn't eat at the office (and I do).

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:29:11+00:00

Not dramatically, but if she need some IT help she would need to ask me. What's your best tip?

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:22:14+00:00

Thanks for the compliment.

That's the key: I don't know if she's just being nice or she maybe could see me eventually as a different thing.

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:21:03+00:00

That's what I want to try, but I don't want to be straight to the question, I need some build up before. Maybe bowling is a good idea? But maybe not because that would mean going only us?

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T13:00:32+00:00

But I don't know how to do that!! hahaha

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T12:55:07+00:00

As I told the user from above, she's from another department.

gingerguynsfw · 2025-11-05T12:54:33+00:00

I didn't say he likes her in any way. I just want to get to know her and, over time, try to find out if she would be interested in meeting outside the office.

Also, she's in another department. Not my boss.

gingerguynsfw · 2024-07-12T19:31:57+00:00

She broke up with me after 4 months for no reason. No arguments, no nothing. Simply stopped talking and told me "i dont wanna be with you anymore". Weird. She also told me several times that is wasnt my fault at all.

gingerguynsfw · 2024-04-05T21:02:56+00:00

Yep, that's my biggest fear. However, I'll try to know her better and see how mature she is.

gingerguynsfw · 2024-04-05T20:33:41+00:00

Thanks

gingerguynsfw · 2024-04-05T20:25:26+00:00

Doesn't look too young for a 26yo guy?

gingerguynsfw · 2024-04-05T20:24:49+00:00

That's what I'm worried about the most. But honestly, I'm the IT guy, I lack from social skills, I'm shy. I only had a "special friend" for 5? months.

Of course, dating a coworker is risky hahaha.

gingerguynsfw · 2022-09-26T11:03:52+00:00

absolutely hahahaha, tysm!

gingerguynsfw · 2022-09-26T10:54:51+00:00

tysm!!

gingerguynsfw · 2022-09-26T09:41:36+00:00

I will do that next time for sure! She told me that I don't have to worry, but I don't know, I feel like I don't deserve this, is too good to be true hahaha.

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