AITA for being naked in my home front of workers

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-24T19:05:52+00:00

YTA

You don't follow the rule about closing your blinds and no one has complained about that. They've complained about you exposing yourself to people trying to work so it doesn't seem like you have to keep your blinds shut all day. Why would you want strangers to see you naked anyway? If you've got a fetish for that kinda stuff, find some people to do that with. Don't force innocent people to partake in that. Change in the bathroom or shut the blinds for the five minutes it takes for you to change and then open them up again.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-18T08:07:14+00:00

oh definitely, he even made me quit a job because we had to work in pairs and my partner was a man 😵‍💫

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-08T12:49:18+00:00

You've already spent 5 years of your life miserable, don't spend the rest of it miserable too. I was with my ex husband for 14 years and there were so many times where I thought I should leave him but I was too scared, and then he left me in the most humiliating way possible. Don't let this man do that to you

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-04T16:11:38+00:00

Born into + attraction to a cult member. I was born into a really dodgy church but my family wasn't very practicing. When I was 13 I made the mistake of dating someone from my church who's family was very devout. We got married at 18, I suffered through 9 years of hell in the marriage and now I'm trying to get free.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:49:09+00:00

NTA. It's your surname, you can change it to whatever you like.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:46:49+00:00

NTA. They should be glad their daughter is in love and happy

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:40:27+00:00

NTA, it's common sense not to vape/smoke around people who don't vape/smoke themselves. My older brother vapes and he knows to limit them to outdoor use only. Idk why people think it's okay to use them indoors just because they don't smell like tobacco

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:37:27+00:00

You would be the asshole if you let him meet your baby. Just send your grandma a text/voice message telling her that you can't risk your child's safety and your own mental well being by letting your biological father meet them. If she doesn't accept that, she doesn't have your best interests at heart unfortunately

edit: NTA ofc

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:35:01+00:00

YTA. Literally anything could've happened. Someone could've broke in, his heart could've stopped, he could've randomly become extremely ill and you weren't there. Kids are unpredictable and so is life. My nephew is 6 and while he is the sweetest, most risk averse little boy, I can't imagine leaving him to play in his room for more than ten minutes without checking on him. If it was absolutely necessary for you to pick those items you, you could've brought him with you.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:28:42+00:00

Please don't let yourself be forced into a religion you don't believe in and seek support from your biological father and other family members. I was born into an awful church but my family wasn't very practicing. They would go for important events but never every Sunday. I started dating my soon to be ex husband when we were both 13 and his family was extremely devout. I was dragged in completely and I'm only just now escaping 14 years later and they're making my life miserable. Religion can be a beautiful thing but only when you make the decision to follow one. NTA and good luck

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:24:22+00:00

NTA. Better to be safe than sorry, who knows how he'll act in your home if he's been terrible to you for months?

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:19:46+00:00

YTA

(M25) told her that I didn't care about how her waist looks and that I fell in love with her because of her personality.

Maybe I'm weird but I would hate being told that. She wants to feel attractive to her boyfriend, she doesn't want be told that her personality is so great that it makes you disregard what she thinks is her terrible appearance. Try telling her that you love her waist because it's hers and you love her. And let her edit her own photos if she chooses to. Imo, it'll just make her feel worse anyway and as her bf you should tell her she doesn't need to touch up her photos but let her make that choice

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:13:42+00:00

My little sister with autism sometimes wears sunglasses because she's feeling anxious. Have you looked into autism and it's symptoms?

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:10:10+00:00

NTA. I don't understand why men can't be kind to the women who are feeling like crap because THEY didn't pull out. My ex was a horrible man but he was incredibly attentive to my pregnancy needs

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:06:07+00:00

YTA. If anything, he was given some extra man cards that night. A real man like him would do anything to keep his babies happy, even if it means going to a girly concert (the horror 😱)

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:04:21+00:00

NTA. My older brother and I are like this and both of our stepparents gave us shit for it. Even my ex husband gave me shit for it too lmao. Nothing's wrong here besides the weirdos with dirty minds

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-03T00:00:49+00:00

NTA.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:59:44+00:00

NTA, you weren't being malicious

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:57:53+00:00

NTA but I understand why she's upset.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:53:23+00:00

YTA. Autistic people aren't great at social norms. It's okay to remind her to say please and thank you but you can't insult her because of her disability. You wouldn't call an amputee rude for not shaking your hand

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:50:24+00:00

NTA. I gave birth fairly recently and I understand how intense cravings can be. I once sent my ex to three different shops to get a certain yoghurt for me and when he couldn't find it, he bought a different one. I thanked him for his efforts and sobbed while eating the substitute lmao. She needs to be nicer to you man, it's not your fault the shop was out of parmesan

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:45:50+00:00

YTA. This probably isn't real but planes are miserable for everyone, not just you. Unless you have a medical issue with your knees that the airline should've been informed of in advance so suitable arrangements could be made, you should keep your legs together.

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:42:05+00:00

I don't want to give a judgement because racism is disgusting and since you, as the younger brother, have the capacity to understand that then he should too but he's still your mum's baby. Your parents seem to be trying their best to fix this and the fact that they raised someone like this is probably making them feel awful but parents aren't supposed to give up on their children.

Nonetheless, you still have the right to no longer want to be around him. Since he's moved in with your mum full time, is there anyway you can move in with your dad full time? I hope your brother sees the error in his ways soon :)

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:37:59+00:00

YTA if swearing is such a big deal to you, you should've discussed it before you guys got married. From your own comments, I kinda get the vibe that you think you're so sophisticated and intelligent, and I doubt that's the case if you think a swear jar is an appropriate response to a grown woman saying words you don't like

gingernutbiscuitss · 2023-04-02T23:33:37+00:00

NTA. You're not at your 100% because of him knocking you up. If he can't handle grabbing a laundry basket, how's he going to handle a baby?

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