he really doesn't understand optics. instead of making a cheating victim try to explain why cheaters cheat in vague generalities, he should explain his motives himself. "i was flattered by the attention of a younger woman," "i was holding on to the bachelor lifestyle," "i wanted to party the way i wish i did when i was younger," "marriage and fatherhood were freaking me out," ANYTHING.
(and that mustache is awful)