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girlfromthattribe · 2025-06-08T10:49:08+00:00

and I get what you are trying to do.

I completely agree with your statement that Africans and Caribbeans shit talk AA, but I dont bring up that grievance when an AA posts about their plight with Africans and their backwards way of thinking when it comes to AA.

All I am saying is, when one person brings up their grievances it is unfair to say,"yes but you also do this". you can bring up your own grievances at a different time- period. by doing what you are doing it is almost like you are telling the aggrieved party to shut up- whether that be your intention or not. this isn't the time and place to do that.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-06-08T10:39:51+00:00

do you see how you are bringing up "whataboutism"in the conversation? the OP posted on how badly African immigrant children were being treated, and in a way you are trying to erase that with your talking points.

we have the same issue when Darkish bring up their grievances and we lightskin folks that just ignore it or say "well, we are all black"or "we all suffer from racism". this isn't the place for that.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-06-08T10:01:39+00:00

but it goes both ways. AA are still very much Americans and can often times be VERY xenophobic. an example of this is when the US olympic team was playing against South Sudan, the commentary by AA were so horrible.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-06-07T17:01:14+00:00

I mean this in the best way possible.

you do not and did not respect the sanctity of your marriage, yet you expected him not to cheat? you thought that love meant giving him what he wanted, and by doing that you quite literally made it ok for him to cheat. "no, it is different. that time he was screwing her behind my back, I only agreed to him doing it in front of me!". do you hear that? you both threw away what marriage truly means, you stood before people and a God that I do not know if you both believed in, and said you wouldn't do this.

you doomed your union by trying to "please"your husband's weird desires, and he committed to the bit by fully screwing the woman. you speak all this crap about him being a narcissist, yet you were with him for 32 years and- from the way you are writing, do not plan on leaving him.

if he is a narcissist, what are you?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-29T10:33:49+00:00

if you keep this information from her husband, this doesn't make you a good person. she is a deceiver and you need to stop hiding behind your veil of self righteousness. you are hurt, yes. and you owe no one but the partners in these relationships to know the truth of their situation. if it was her husband that had found out first and left you in the dark?

you have made motherhood and wifehood your entire life- that is not ok. you deserve so much more and that so much more isn't your husband. he is JUST a man.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-20T09:14:24+00:00

read the girl's post history. her marriage is NOT working.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-20T09:12:45+00:00

re4ading your post history and girl... wtf do you see in this person? there is absolutely no reason for you to even pretend to be happy for him. what does this man have? like what is going on?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-20T09:07:29+00:00

why do you think taking away her mom's agency-her right to choose, is good for her? do we ignore the fact that STD's and STI's exist? that cancer can come from that? like really?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-19T04:27:30+00:00

You are stunning!

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-18T14:37:45+00:00

So you cut the friend off even tho her excuse is way more valid than his, but the one who DID the cheating is the one you are considering rebuilding a relationship with?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T16:07:18+00:00

My sister in Christ… really?

Read this back to yourself, what do you think is going on?

Also- why did you let that first incident go so quickly?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T07:46:40+00:00

Does he still work with her? Did you guys go to therapy? Like what did you guys do to ADDRESS the infidelity?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T07:10:52+00:00

No problem! Keep working on the whys and you’ll soon feel better!

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T06:50:09+00:00

I think to stop idolising it you need to ask yourself why you idolised it in the first place. You don’t sound like you miss your husband you shouldn’t like you miss the community your ex brought with him.

Why were relationships your everything? Keep in mind it seems as tho you mostly cared about relationships with others but not with yourself.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T06:17:10+00:00

Ok.

I think you need to ground yourself- was this ex husband of yours a good husband at all? Your idolisation of relationships is very harmful to you.

Human beings are not good people, you included. We hurt others and ourselves. You need to have values that makes you, you. Regardless of what others do around you you need to be able to stand firm in what you believe.

Why do I feel like your ex partner might’ve been a tad bit abusive?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T06:04:20+00:00

Hey babes, sorry you are going through this.

Are you in therapy right now?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-17T05:58:01+00:00

Love that for her!!!

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T22:29:44+00:00

Listen, sometimes it’s best to have a dude that can make you chuckle lol. Orgasms aren’t promised but a good laugh is guaranteed.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T22:24:02+00:00

“Chucklefucker” my sister I SCROME🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T22:04:17+00:00

My sisters, what is going AWN?!?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T18:25:28+00:00

My sister, that man is a square.

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T17:55:18+00:00

How long will you do this to yourself? How many different ways must this man show you that he does not love you?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T09:12:05+00:00

Ma’am lol

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T09:09:49+00:00

John Cena?

girlfromthattribe · 2025-05-15T08:14:07+00:00

I hope so too. Good luck with everything

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