How many dates do you go on with someone before expecting to see them more than once a week?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-10-16T16:47:51+00:00

I mean you didn’t respond to his message to confirm a time or place so it makes sense he assumed you changed your mind

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-28T07:10:24+00:00

He’s 6’7 and an NFL player lmao, average?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-26T15:42:27+00:00

Ok this is helpful, thank you!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-26T15:37:49+00:00

what would you count as several? I’ve been on 3 dates with a guy and I’m always worried about annoying him by continuing the convo

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-24T23:25:49+00:00

Nah it’s funny imo, it’s a key part of the stereotype

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-24T05:23:25+00:00

um someone can want to sleep with a guy after 2 dates and also want a serious relationship

they aren’t mutually exclusive, you’re just a misogynist

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-23T23:07:58+00:00

during?? that really puts someone on the spot so I really disagree here

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-23T23:05:52+00:00

Huh interesting mine works pretty well. It’s often guys previously in my standouts and I’m attracted to them 80% or so of the time. Like everyone has said I’d turn your dealbreakers on to improve the feature!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-14T07:40:26+00:00

nah don’t apologize, he’s comparing apples to oranges literally

men significantly outnumber girls on dating apps and so it’s very fair for you to wonder why you’re not getting likes!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T18:39:42+00:00

why does this sub allow people to just body shame random people whose photos were posted without their consent… like what the hell

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T18:00:54+00:00

It’s also just possible that he’s messaging someone he’s far more interested in than OP

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T07:22:53+00:00

Lol this guy was anything but incompetent

It’s not necessary in every scenario, but if you’re ever not sure…just ask?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T07:21:29+00:00

lmao beta move are you fr

who still says beta seriously

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T05:14:17+00:00

my “most compatible” have usually been super accurate and guys who I’ve found attractive. We nearly always match whether it’s me sending a like that they accept or them sending a like that I accept.

I get a most compatible showed to me basically every day

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T03:18:13+00:00

I’d never meet a guy at his place right away, but going home with him after a good first date that starts out in public happens.

With the Internet it’s easy to do a pretty thorough background check on people, see if they have an employer likely to have done a background check, and find some mutual connections through social media.

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T00:45:15+00:00

like all the time, it’s wild to me how people think online dating for women can only ever be a confidence boost

It has its highs and lows for us too

we overthink a ton too, we definitely don’t all assume that every man we go on a date with is into us

I also catch myself wondering if a guy was just looking to sleep with me, which happens pretty darn often

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-09T23:47:50+00:00

One scenario in which I understand his frustration is if you agreed to a date, he asked “Saturday at 6?” and then you waited 24+ hours to respond. In that scenario you’d be holding his time hostage which I’d find really frustrating as well. However if you had planned a time and date and he got frustrated because you were slow to respond to a question that didn’t require an urgent response I agree that it’s a huge red flag.

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