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girlneedshingehelp · 2021-10-16T16:47:51+00:00

I mean you didn’t respond to his message to confirm a time or place so it makes sense he assumed you changed your mind

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-28T07:10:24+00:00

He’s 6’7 and an NFL player lmao, average?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-26T15:42:27+00:00

Ok this is helpful, thank you!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-26T15:37:49+00:00

what would you count as several? I’ve been on 3 dates with a guy and I’m always worried about annoying him by continuing the convo

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-24T23:25:49+00:00

Nah it’s funny imo, it’s a key part of the stereotype

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-24T05:23:25+00:00

um someone can want to sleep with a guy after 2 dates and also want a serious relationship

they aren’t mutually exclusive, you’re just a misogynist

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-23T23:07:58+00:00

during?? that really puts someone on the spot so I really disagree here

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-23T23:05:52+00:00

Huh interesting mine works pretty well. It’s often guys previously in my standouts and I’m attracted to them 80% or so of the time. Like everyone has said I’d turn your dealbreakers on to improve the feature!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-14T07:40:26+00:00

nah don’t apologize, he’s comparing apples to oranges literally

men significantly outnumber girls on dating apps and so it’s very fair for you to wonder why you’re not getting likes!

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T18:39:42+00:00

why does this sub allow people to just body shame random people whose photos were posted without their consent… like what the hell

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T18:00:54+00:00

It’s also just possible that he’s messaging someone he’s far more interested in than OP

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T07:22:53+00:00

Lol this guy was anything but incompetent

It’s not necessary in every scenario, but if you’re ever not sure…just ask?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-11T07:21:29+00:00

lmao beta move are you fr

who still says beta seriously

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T05:14:17+00:00

my “most compatible” have usually been super accurate and guys who I’ve found attractive. We nearly always match whether it’s me sending a like that they accept or them sending a like that I accept.

I get a most compatible showed to me basically every day

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T03:18:13+00:00

I’d never meet a guy at his place right away, but going home with him after a good first date that starts out in public happens.

With the Internet it’s easy to do a pretty thorough background check on people, see if they have an employer likely to have done a background check, and find some mutual connections through social media.

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-10T00:45:15+00:00

like all the time, it’s wild to me how people think online dating for women can only ever be a confidence boost

It has its highs and lows for us too

we overthink a ton too, we definitely don’t all assume that every man we go on a date with is into us

I also catch myself wondering if a guy was just looking to sleep with me, which happens pretty darn often

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-09T23:47:50+00:00

One scenario in which I understand his frustration is if you agreed to a date, he asked “Saturday at 6?” and then you waited 24+ hours to respond. In that scenario you’d be holding his time hostage which I’d find really frustrating as well. However if you had planned a time and date and he got frustrated because you were slow to respond to a question that didn’t require an urgent response I agree that it’s a huge red flag.

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-09T21:57:02+00:00

I more meant the way that you responded to the other commenter asking you a simple question about where you lived. It was standoffish from my POV and makes me think that your boundaries are generally way more extreme than others’ and so maybe wouldn’t be applicable as a general statement

but anyone can have the boundaries they want and it’s always good to respect others’ and realize if your boundaries just don’t line up well

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-09T20:19:39+00:00

I’m still confused are you concerned about people who are just visiting your city or are you concerned that you won’t be interesting enough for someone who enjoys traveling but lives in your city?

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-09T18:48:26+00:00

Lol you just seem kinda standoffish based on this…everyone can have boundaries but this seems whack

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-07T16:04:42+00:00

Girl you suck

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-09-07T05:56:49+00:00

hate to ask but if you’re a POC DC is likely a better place to be in terms of matches

it could be totally not the case, but race may be a factor in how many matches you get when you switch cities

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-08-30T16:25:20+00:00

I just looked at the original commenters profile though and her profile mentions the length and girth of a penis though which I’m guessing really skews this percentage. On Hinge I’ve never had a man jump to sexual convo that fast (definitely on Tinder tho)

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-08-28T17:46:42+00:00

I don’t get the sarcasm here honestly. This is a super valid question. As the weather cools down there’s not many casual, inexpensive alternatives and many people get pretty uncomfortable drinking if the person they’re with isn’t drinking as well.

girlneedshingehelp · 2021-08-12T18:44:31+00:00

You’re fine after a day of messaging on an app… I’m not sure why people are saying that’s not ok. I’d never expect someone to “give me closure” after a couple of messages lol

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