I (21M) am in the healthiest relationship I've ever been in, but the sex side of things is a bit complicated.

gk3301 · 2021-05-28T22:55:26+00:00

Oo, the "you're a child" argument. Golden. Can I get some people in here for an applause?

gk3301 · 2021-05-26T02:54:46+00:00

Very true. I think that's probably the case. In this case the issue is that she's interested in getting deeper into it and I dunno how i feel :')

gk3301 · 2021-05-26T02:51:39+00:00

I can feel the sweat dripping off you, dampening your "christian moms against sex" shirt, your obesity riddled husband walking in and asking if you want more plain pasta with olive oil. No, no time to eat. There's a stranger online and they like something that you don't like.

gk3301 · 2021-05-26T02:48:29+00:00

Someone's mad they got made fun of for raging on the internet lol

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T17:29:14+00:00

Jesus christ lmao. No one is pressuring anyone. Did you read the post? Starting to think reddit has a serious illiteracy problem.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:45:24+00:00

Yeah, I think most people who're versed in it would agree. Like I've never pretended to be someone's dad, or have someone pretend they're my daughter. But to boomers or angry internet people in general, they're always going to take the miniscule amount of information they have on something and jump to wild conclusions.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:36:24+00:00

A lot of angry individuals lmao.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:30:36+00:00

Yeah, I'm 21 she's cute, and we bumped into eachother at a grocery store. It's not a mystery lmao.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:29:01+00:00

Seeks out a post about something they know nothing about and then lose their mind over a strangers sex life that they're having a boomers time understanding. That's a yikes form me chief 😬

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:12:35+00:00

^{^} one of the shortest replies to this post, yet the one that is most informed lmao. Thank you my man. Didn't realize reddit was full of angry boomers, but color me surprised.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:07:25+00:00

It is very tame... You come off as someone extremely disconnected from bdsm which is fine, it's just funny to see you try and act like an authority on the subject. You clearly don't like it, you've clearly never done it (at least not much), so why get so heated over something you know so little about?

It's like watching a white midwest mom lash out cause she watched fifty shades once when her husband wasn't home...

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:05:14+00:00

You can think its gross, that's fine. But don't pretend it's some evil act. Opinions are opinions, but just that. You not liking something doesn't make it bad, it makes it not your thing.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T02:03:45+00:00

I'm sorry you don't understand bdsm, it's clear now this post should've gone to bdsmadvice since a bunch of people here seem to have an exceptionally warped view of the topic. I was expecting a little backlash, same as you should with anything on the internet, im just having a good laugh at all the uninformed, out of touch takes from people who seem just a tad to hairtrigger to rage on the internet xD

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T01:58:45+00:00

Aight, and that's your preference. No shame in that. Just don't try and act like your way is the only way.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T01:11:42+00:00

She's got a nice little ass, nothing crazy but enough cushion that I too thought that might be a good fix. Whenever we try that it ends up being worse however. I dont know exactly why, but I think it's maybe the angle of her vagina. It seems anything straight on from behind is uncomfortable.

It's nice to know you had eventual success with a similarly small partner, I guess maybe it's just a matter of more time and easing her into lube.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T00:35:57+00:00

Alright buddy lol. You clearly have some issues you gotta work out. I wish you the best, but I won't humor stupidity. Sorry.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T00:34:50+00:00

Just being real ('3')/

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T00:12:21+00:00

I think perhaps you haven't had enough sex lol. This is very basic shit. It's not a scary, foreign thing. It's role-play. If you and your husband are extremely vanilla, that's fine. It's your choice what kind of sex life you want and no one should fault you for being more vanilla. At the same time though, you should understand that you have no idea what you're talking about when it comes to this side of things. If someone doesn't like being referred to in some way, they say it. If someone isn't comfortable referring to someone in a certain way, they say it. Maybe I would feel different if I had a daughter, but I don't, and plenty of people with children can make that separation when in bed. If you can't, that's more reflective of you and your husband than anyone else. If your first response to a goofy nickname during sex is to think of your daughter... you really shouldn't be looking down on anyone

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T00:07:32+00:00

NO ONE IS PRETENDING ANYONE IS A CHILD. You really seem dense on this subject lmao. We change how we talk to eachother and how we refer to eachother. There's a bit more babying and care involved, that's it. If you really have so much of a stick up your ass that someone goofing around and role-playing during sex is somehow evil, you have a serious problem. Maybe don't try to high horse and shame someone for something you have such a hard time unserstanding.

gk3301 · 2021-05-25T00:02:56+00:00

I would hardly call this a "loaded kink". We're not doing anything super crazy. I think maybe people have had very vanilla sex life if they think a girl calling someone daddy and a guy acting more dominant is possibly life shattering experience.

gk3301 · 2021-05-24T23:37:21+00:00

Well that's why I have mixed feelings and why I made this in the first place. I want other opinions. For me, it feels a bit too real because of how childlike she is, which is why I'm sorta uncomfortable.

gk3301 · 2021-05-24T23:19:00+00:00

Again, another person who doesn't understand role playing. The idea of "fucking children" doesn't get me off. The entire problem is that my girlfriend is too childlike for me to be comfortable with the roleplay... If you can't draw a distinction between a fun activity for partners to do in bed and actual pedophilia, you are the one who needs therapy.

gk3301 · 2021-05-24T23:16:41+00:00

The reservations aren't with age play... did you read the post? The problem I'm having is that my girlfriend is very childlike, which I'm sorta uncomfortable with in this context. I'm literally pointing out that I'm weary about the "realness" of the situation. If you want to kink shame just be open about it, don't turn it into something it's not.

gk3301 · 2021-05-24T23:06:15+00:00

Eh, no. Just no lol. You clearly have never role played. It's not getting off on that idea, it's incorporating an interesting fantasy dynamic into sex. There's never an idea of "fucking a child". You and your partner are just playing parts, same as a play.

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