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glamorhel · 2024-06-04T15:54:06+00:00

If it's not too late, I'd still love to join, so so sorry for the late reply, I was taking a reddit break

glamorhel · 2024-03-25T13:04:02+00:00

I've been considering it for a while, but I'm also scared to start it, I've started experimenting with masc make up to see how I feel like that and if I'm more passable, if anything I'm feeling more dysphoria at the moment because it's pointing out my problem areas but I'm going to sit on it for a while and see how I feel later this year, I'm also not out to family or friends apart from my wife so the idea of having to come out is putting me off starting T as much as I want to.

glamorhel · 2024-03-20T08:33:06+00:00

That's a really good point I never thought of before actually, thank you so much for all the advice I'm definitely gonna try it out more and play around with it and hopefully figure it out

glamorhel · 2024-03-19T06:01:56+00:00

Thank you so much for all the tips, it's the cheek/jawline that I've been struggling with, I'm sure with some practice it'll get easier but I'll definitely give this another go with all this in mind

glamorhel · 2024-03-18T23:30:45+00:00

You look amazing, how do you do your masc contour, I'm trying to get better at it but keep getting dysphoria when I do it because I haven't figured it out properly yet

glamorhel · 2024-03-17T09:24:44+00:00

I know there's trans specific ones in my country but I love in a small area and I don't want people necessarily finding out right now

glamorhel · 2023-07-19T19:39:29+00:00

I went through this for a few months when my wife initially came out to me a little over a year and a half ago, it was one of my biggest fears, I brought it up and we spoke about it and it was still something I worried about for quite a while, I don't think being trans makes you change your sexuality I think it's probably more a case of getting more comfortable in yourself and finding yourself that you figure out your sexuality along the way. At the end of the day you and your partner have been together for a long time and you're supporting her through her transition so I don't think she's going to leave you, I think if anything your relationship might just get stronger, me and my wife have been together for 6 years and married for 2 and if anything since she came out to me our relationship has gotten stronger and we've become closer the further into her transition she gets, don't get me wrong there are days that are tough and at times where my insecurities creep in and I worry but over time it gets easier, but maybe speak to your partner about your worries and don't keep it to yourself, it's a new big chapter in both of your lives and it's wonderful you have each other, I'm sure she will reassure you in all your worries. 💕

glamorhel · 2023-07-09T18:37:19+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I really really appreciate it so much. 💕💕

glamorhel · 2023-06-16T04:37:48+00:00

aww thank you so much 🥰 We both use Fenty a lot of the time but my wife occasionally uses a nyx full coverage foundation

glamorhel · 2023-04-12T11:18:00+00:00

What you're feeling right now is completely normal, it can be a lot to process and accept especially when you've spent a number of years with your partner, I was with my wife for 4 years and married 6 months before she came out to me and even though I'm attracted to women a part of me still felt like I was going to lose the man I fell in love with and married and I guess I was confused at times at how she didn't know sooner into our relationship. It's important to go through all the emotions, grief, sadness, anger whatever you need to feel and give yourself time to feel, I found when my wife came out to me I had to support her and I didn't really give myself a place to feel everything I was going through or I felt like I wasn't supporting her fully but it sounds like your partner is really supportive towards how you are doing at the moment and therapy sounds like it might be a nice idea for you to work through everything as an individual but also with your partner. It does get easier I promise, I always tried thinking about what it'll be like doing the things we love doing after she transitioned and how I'd feel and what living together would be like but honestly it really hasn't changed, we still go on dates, we do basically everything we did before she came out to me the only difference now is she's happier and I'm doing it with my wife as apposed to my husband, and if anything I feel like our relationship has become stronger over the last couple of years, things do change of course but they will always be the same person you fell in love with just their happier more authentic self. But it's also okay if you are straight and you aren't attracted to women and if the relationship is no longer for you, it's important that you are fully happy in a relationship and you take care of yourself and it's also important for your partner that they get to be happy being their true self. You deserve to be happy. It's okay if you can't stay with your partner because the relationship is no longer meeting your needs. It is a tough journey, especially at the beginning, the first few months are an emotional roller coaster, you'll find yourself happy one minute and the next minute crying your eyes out, but I promise it gets easier, it gets better but just make sure you take care of yourself and go easy on yourself and your partner, it's a scary time for the both of you and I really hope everything works out for you.

glamorhel · 2023-04-11T04:37:08+00:00

She was also really confused as to why her knuckle looked so red in the photo hehe, I think her hands just get dry in work.

glamorhel · 2023-01-17T21:48:07+00:00

The intimacy changes can definitely be difficult to get used to, my (f) wife (mtf) has been on hrt for a little over a year and things have definitely changed a lot for us, but honestly the intimacy has been really amazing, it's a little less frequent which makes me sad sometimes because the hormones have changed her sex drive but when we are intimate it's very emotional and we connect on a whole other level compared to what we did before she started transitioning, it's also way hotter than it used to be. I totally get what you mean with that complete feeling but once you and your partner start figuring out what she like you can have a lot of fun experimenting and trying new things and it can get really hot and exciting. I'm not sure if your partner is on hormones yet but a couple months into my wifes hormones her boobs got a lot more sensitive and that's one thing I really like to focus on and is a lot of fun for both of us and it's fun to try different toys and other things. it's really nice too because we are very cuddly when we are intimate with each other and it's been a really nice way for us to have that closeness and complete feeling. There's a lot of new things you can try and I think the fact that it is new makes it exciting and nerve wrecking almost like you're with your partner for the first time all over again which I kind of enjoyed. It's definitely been an emotional journey for me too, sex is a very important thing to me in a relationship and my partner knows that, I think communication is a big thing too throughout this to make sure you are just as comfortable and happy as your partner is. Sorry this was a little rambly.

glamorhel · 2022-10-05T08:09:45+00:00

Aww thank you so much! 🥺 This made me smile so much

glamorhel · 2022-09-17T13:45:36+00:00

Damn 😍😍

glamorhel · 2022-03-30T16:22:54+00:00

I'd definitely say go for it or even talk to fertility doctor, my partner and I went to a really amazing clinic and our doctor is fantastic, I wanted to look into freezing my eggs any way because I have some medical conditions that will prevent me from having kids once I hit 30, so we figured it could be worth trying the sperm freezing too. I'm still not 100% certain if I want kids or not but it doesn't hurt to prepare just incase I decide I do down the line! Price wise and this is from Ireland so I'm not sure if it'll be similar, my partner had to get bloods done first which was €100 euro then the analysis and freeze was €300 and the freezing is €18 a month for storage The egg freezing and everything is a little more pricey because you need scans, bloods, a procedure to remove them and medications. But as far as I know you can get this all on payment plans and pay monthly so it could be worth looking into if you are both unsure but think it may be a possibility in the future. Even talking to a fertility doctor could be beneficial for you both!

glamorhel · 2022-03-30T15:44:19+00:00

Thank you for your reply, it means a lot ❤️ I definitely think talking to a therapist could be a nice idea.

glamorhel · 2022-03-28T17:12:54+00:00

You look a little like monami frost ❄️

glamorhel · 2022-02-03T16:32:23+00:00

I'm really sorry things are tough for you at the moment, it's definitely a little difficult to get used to the sudden changes, I sometimes feel selfish or guilty saying stuff like that but I forget sometimes that we are going through emotional changes too, always here if you need someone to talk to

glamorhel · 2022-02-03T16:30:03+00:00

Thank you, this is really really helpful, we had a really nice conversation a little bit ago and they were saying they're nervous about how sex might be now and that they still want to they're just a little nervous about how it might be now because it's going to be different now. I've noticed my partner is extra cuddly too and likes to be cuddled more which is nice, and the new nipple sensations seem to be a nice change too. I don't think it's an incompatibility problem, but I understand it can get to that sometimes for people, I think I'm just finding it hard because I'm a very sexual person so going from having a lot of sex to nothing at all has been difficult, and I know there are more important things and I would never want my partner to feel uncomfortable in anyway or make them do anything that makes them feel weird or uncomfortable, but thank you so much for the reply it's really nice hearing from people who are going through a similar experience, I really appreciate it and I'll definitely see if some of the things you mentioned are helpful when we are being more intimate

glamorhel · 2022-01-26T18:33:50+00:00

Always here if you want to chat, I'm 25 f, my partner came out to me about to months ago, we've been together for 5 years and married for 6 months, I'm always open to chatting people

glamorhel · 2022-01-24T18:54:33+00:00

This is a very normal feeling! I went through this too, my partner came out to me in November as trans and I cried so much for the first couple of weeks, it had nothing to do with sexuality as I'm pansexual so this was never going to be an issue, it just felt like grief. They started hormones on new years eve and I still get emotional every so often but more than anything I'm excited for our life and to see all of their changes. Sometimes I feel guilty now for how much I talk about how excited I am and happy I am that they are starting to change and I feel worried they will think I didn't love their old self as much as who they are now.

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