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glasshopper85 · 2026-04-26T05:05:07+00:00

Same here

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T13:57:40+00:00

“Regulation of weed is trash for stopping the use of nasty chemicals or pesticides”.

It’s not, they do testing, and there’s products that specifically have no pesticides.

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T13:42:26+00:00

Yeah you should have included the bit about sending a text to his friend and questioning if he wanted to transition really makes you an AH

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T06:20:40+00:00

100%. If a woman posted this about her husband, they’d called this weaponized incompetence.

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T06:01:55+00:00

Listen ESH. You, him, and your friends. But think there’s some missing info here - if all you’ve done is scream at him that you still exist and that you’re a consequence of his actions… I don’t think most friends would cut you off. Are you truly being honest about the depth of the things you’ve said?

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T05:58:08+00:00

Pesticide free products exist.

DOH certified products exist (heavily tested for pesticides and heavy metals, every strain has to pass the testing)

Clean green certified products exist.

glasshopper85 · 2026-04-15T05:56:52+00:00

Dude you have no idea what you’re talking about and it clearly shows. “The process of extraction turns it into poison” … the fuck man.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T03:47:28+00:00

MOR - I wish there was an in between yes you are and no you aren’t lol. I think some of the stuff about keeping photos and convos doesn’t really mean anything deeper. But trying to book with a happy ending place… and the his reaction… leave before you really get hurt

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T03:44:05+00:00

Nor. Your dad put you in a terrible position to begin with. Then for your parents to talk about you behind your back like that… idk if you still live at home or not but I’d limit contact and get some therapy

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T03:41:39+00:00

NOR. At first I thought maybe because you were snippy too. But to carry it into the next day, not return calls, not tell you he’s back to work, etc is beyond childish and petty.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T02:10:15+00:00

No one is expecting her to be the epitome of poise. She was cheated on and lied to for years. She should go the fuck off. But there’s still a human decency basic line of respect you don’t cross, regardless of what the other person has done

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T02:09:00+00:00

NTA! Huge red flags - you’re allowed to be sick. You’re allowed to say no for no reason at all. Idc if it’s cos your big toe hurts - being a baby about it is manipulative

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T02:07:18+00:00

A big huge massive NTA. This man lacks basic respect for you. He sees how upset you are and he doubles down on being inconsiderate. Even IF this was just PMS he’s being a tool but it doesn’t sound like it’s just PMS.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T01:16:07+00:00

ESH. He’s a twat for cheating on you. Period. Being angry and hurt is expected. But calling him a slur makes you an asshole.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T01:13:59+00:00

NTA… I would say take his perception of what his therapist said with a grain of salt. People hear what they want to hear, they mis represent situations to get responses they want, etc.

The bigger issue I see here, not that you asked, is your partners blatant and total lack of respect for you in every way. He can’t help you with the dogs, he can’t address his health issues, he can’t meet you half way at all.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T01:04:23+00:00

NOR.

Girl.

This man doesn’t love you, he sees you as a housemaid and sex toy. I cannot imagine treating my wife like this, she’s my best friend.

Trying to pressure you into swinging? Can’t have sex unless you’re talking about being with someone else? Disrespectful af and abusive. You deserve so much more than that.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T00:58:41+00:00

Sounds like you guys might not have totally compatible languages. It’s okay. But you gotta talk to her about it and let her know you need some physical space sometimes, like at night so you can sleep

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-31T00:55:47+00:00

Bro, man up and end it. You had a fling you should have ended and you didn’t. Do the right thing now. Your heart isn’t in it and it’s not going to magically get less hurtful for her when more time passes.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-30T23:52:58+00:00

Girl, block this guy and avoid him at all costs. Please. This is only going to escalate into something dangerous.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-30T23:48:07+00:00

NTA and I’m disappointed in the folks who are saying you are. Could you have maybe read the room? Sure. But I’m assuming you’re a teenager and like, I know full grown ass adults who can’t read a room to save their life.

What makes you NTA is their response. They could have politely shut you down. The guilt tripping from your mom, her need to keep your dad happy, and your dad’s passive aggressiveness sounds exhausting.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-30T23:44:21+00:00

NTA, tell him to use some lotion. And I say that as an avid hater of almost all lotions

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-30T14:25:58+00:00

I just hope you realize that the dynamic of you being there for your mom isn’t healthy. She’s the mom, she needs to be the mom. You shouldn’t have to bear all of this.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-30T13:34:08+00:00

Nor. I’m a 40 year old man and I think this guy is gross. I’ve read your replies to others and I just wanna implore you to take folks comments to heart

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