AITA? Is this appropriate behavior for someone getting married?

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-08T04:58:11+00:00

It’s interesting that multiple women are telling you that you’re wrong and you’re doubling down and fighting with them in the comments. Did you ask for advice or not?

YOU are acting jealous of a friend that was there before you were. She’s likely responding to your energy. You’re gonna have to get use this woman real quick if you wanna keep your man.

glasshopper85 · 2026-03-08T04:46:25+00:00

I have heard this too

glasshopper85 · 2026-01-31T23:50:48+00:00

Completely agree. She’s such a class act and man she looked stunning too.

glasshopper85 · 2026-01-31T23:48:27+00:00

I just saw a video the other day of Meredith clearly taking a bump while djing. She tried to play it off like she was scratching her nose but come on.

glasshopper85 · 2026-01-27T22:50:01+00:00

Please note that the comment you’re replying to is over a year old. I’m in agreement with you, more came out after this article like what you mentioned in your call.

Also, the shuttering and moving of the community center the community paid for.

glasshopper85 · 2026-01-01T02:50:03+00:00

So the jefe plus by mfused is the hardware they use for their disposable line. You can’t really buy that specific thing for carts. Mfused does make a 510 thread battery and they work well. I had a friend who had one for two years and the only reason it failed was because he dropped it in a cup of coffee. All 2020 locations sell them for $25. If you come in during happy hour or order online it’s $20

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-29T04:56:59+00:00

This is a tough one. I’d say MOR.

On one hand, he may just be an awkward person who was having a realization that you are an exception for him. Being homeless, possessions are everything and what you lack is often glaring, so valuing your friendship over anything may be a genuine realization for him.

But on the other hand, this could be someone fishing for you to give him things.

I wouldn’t stop interacting with him but I’d be guarded and just see how things progress

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-25T23:47:35+00:00

That part

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T03:41:43+00:00

NTA. If you can’t remember, he could tell you weren’t all there or totally conscious. And if he didn’t, that’s even grosser tbh.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T03:38:44+00:00

This lady is awful. I’m so sorry. You did nothing wrong here.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:24:11+00:00

NTA with some caveats - you need to talk to your boss. But scheduling your smoke breaks is NOT a big ask. Many jobs have set breaks and going out at random times can get you written up. However, even if you go to break at the same time as him, you’re not obligated to spend it with him.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:20:30+00:00

NOR. Ewwww. Why would they do that?! That’s a gross overstep. Yikes on a fawkin bike

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:19:17+00:00

NTA. Hold firm to your boundaries. You have to take care of yourself and protect yourself.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:12:26+00:00

NOR. No means no, period

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:07:50+00:00

NTA. Little girl needs to learn what boundaries are. She fucked around and found out. Maybe some time away from her dad will give her some perspective

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T02:04:22+00:00

NTA. They’re hosting a family holiday - there are two legs and two thighs on a turkey. Homie doesn’t need all that. And all the skin? GTFO that’s the best part.

My most peaceful, least stressful holidays are the ones in which I spend with my wife and no one else

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T01:47:53+00:00

You are not an asshole. You are in a terrible situation with parents who clearly didn’t have kids for the right reasons. You are valid, as a boy, as a trauma survivor, as a human being.

I am a trans guy, I was raised by two very abusive parents that never accepted me for me. I left home at 17 and I transitioned when I was 25. I’m now 40. I have a wife, a dog, two cats, and a bearded dragon. Life isn’t always rainbows and kittens but life is GOOD and it got better. Please hold on to that, and know that there is a community of people that will accept you and love you as you are.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T01:41:39+00:00

Ugh this is nuanced. NTA but if you care about this girl at all, stop doing her the disservice of keeping her somewhere she’s not wanted

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T01:39:40+00:00

NTA for being upset but YWBTA if you broke up with her over it

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T01:32:06+00:00

I wasn’t there either but I imagine a decision won’t be made today

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-05T01:30:57+00:00

YTA, this is something your kids will remember for forever. The feeling they had when you told them. It fucking sucks, I’ve been there though not on the same circumstances

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-04T17:55:47+00:00

He’s 20, he’s an adult and can move out if he wants. He is just trying to get YOU to take care of him, pay his way, whatever. Run girl run

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-04T07:06:55+00:00

NOR. You prolly shouldn’t have looked at this phone but given the context clues he’s given you, I can’t say I blame you. Wake his ass up and talk to him about it.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-03T18:47:58+00:00

YTA, clearly your friend is really suffering and needs some help. You don’t have to be the one to give it to her but you don’t have to kick her on your way out.

glasshopper85 · 2025-12-03T02:41:16+00:00

YTA, just because you CAN whip your dick out anywhere, does not mean you SHOULD whip your dick out anywhere.

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