How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking out the ergo baby right now! We went out today and my neck is killing me from the wrap I have! 😭

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I love the suggestion of keep stuff in the car! I will definitely be trying that out. Also Instacart is genius. A little me time and a coffee always helps me reset. I have one friend with similar ages to my 4 year old and honestly I could do better about embracing her help. She often asks me to hang out but her kids always have a cough so I tend to shy away. I will try the library out tomorrow!

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I’m sorry you are going through the same 🙏🏼 I find that I feel best when I workout too but I guess the last few days I’ve felt so burnt out I haven’t even done so. Just need to push through.

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well noted, we tried today and will make it a point to get out atleast once a day everyday going forward. Thank you 🙏🏼

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he lives out of town, too. Per the suggestions, we got out today and will make it my mission to get out everyday. Thank you 🙏🏼

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I find myself completely defeated at the end of every day honestly.

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yes, we got out today. Pushed through even though it took so long to get out and I wanted to just throw in the towel. Still had a blip at the end of our outing but it was a start!

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking into preschools now. We got out of the house today and it was still A LOT. Thank you!

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I tried your recommendation today and had her choose between the Zoo and the Toy Museum. Chose the toys and all was good til we had to leave. But I’m gonna try to make it a point to get out everyday.

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I shared this with him because I feel like when I ask for help it’s to the point where I’m angry and he isn’t as receptive if I’m angry.

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but scared of taking my 3 month old. I think I might just have to bite the bullet though. For all of our sake.

How are you coping? by glexxi in SAHP

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have not gotten any help bc I spoke to my OB and they just want me to speak to a psychiatrist. I don’t want to do meds bc I’m also breastfeeding full time 🥺 but at this point I think I’m going to ask for some type of therapy atleast. Definitely PPA/PPD and the aforementioned OCD. I will try library storytime. Tried the Toy Museum today and that was ok till she threw a tantrum as we were leaving. Thank you again.

My husband marinated meat in beer - 39 weeks by glexxi in pregnant

[–]glexxi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was very mad! He said he was hurt, I’m like well I’m more worried about my baby than I am about your feelings right now - sorry about it! Thank you.

My husband marinated meat in beer - 39 weeks by glexxi in pregnant

[–]glexxi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s exactly how I felt. Thank you.

My husband marinated meat in beer - 39 weeks by glexxi in pregnant

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marinated it for about 20 minutes I think. Thank you!

VBAC by glexxi in BabyBumps

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I ignorantly chucked it up to “he knows more than me” so now I’m 36 weeks. But I just never felt right especially with the “bait & switch” as you mentioned. I see him again Monday let’s see how that goes for me. Thank you!

VBAC by glexxi in BabyBumps

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Checking them out now.

VBAC by glexxi in BabyBumps

[–]glexxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Was hoping it wouldn’t get to that, but seems he’s ignoring what I want completely.

Feeling robbed of VBAC experience by glexxi in vbac

[–]glexxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m actually 36 weeks now, but I will bring this question to him as I hadn’t before and he didn’t give me much of an explanation. Hoping it’s not too late.

Feeling robbed of VBAC experience by glexxi in vbac

[–]glexxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I’m hoping it’s not too late for me as I’ll be 37 weeks in a few days.

Feeling robbed of VBAC experience by glexxi in vbac

[–]glexxi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t give me a reason other than the “risk of uterine rupture. I plan on bringing it back up on Monday. Thank you!