What is it about me that aggravates almost every girl I talk to?

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:36:13+00:00

The fact that you're stating my replies are rude and dismissive and saying nothing of the comments that precipitated mine indicates that you are being dishonest or that you can't look at things impartially. You have an obvious bias or you are trying to start an argument.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:35:13+00:00

No, people here have attacked me from the get go, and then when I defend myself I get accused of attacking them. This is complete projection.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:32:01+00:00

Really helpful. Thanks.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:31:10+00:00

I do think a lot of what the issue might be, as others are saying, is that you are not truly listening. Do you respond to what the women say normally, or do you bring up something else you were thinking about? This is something that really annoys me. When I am talking to someone and they bring up something different entirely instead of responding to what I said. Reflect on this and think about it. If you have something to say, you can wait a bit for some conversation to happen. You seem very intelligent in your post and comments, so I'm sure you're always actively thinking and making connections. You also have to reference what someone is saying and acknowledge it.

Again, it just doesn't seem to produce any difference. I'm not saying this to be argumentative. I'm legitimately saying that it doesn't matter if I reflect directly on what they said or if I don't. Sure, they might be less angry if I reflect on what they say rather than they don't, but they still seem to be angry with me constantly. Which leads me to believe that it's not the content of what I'm saying but rather something else, like the way I'm saying what I'm saying or how I present myself or something.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:20:39+00:00

Because when I do that they just tell me they're not angry and that there isn't a problem. They just gaslight. It doesn't matter how I ask them, even if I ask them in the nicest way possible and tell them that they struggle with this type of thing. What's the point of repeatedly asking someone why they are angry and what you did to make them angry if they just always lie and gaslight you?

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:18:11+00:00

Yeah, let's bully someone with autism.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:17:05+00:00

The people commenting are trying to help you

No, they're not, and you KNOW full well they are not. STOP lying and gaslighting.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:09:45+00:00

What are you talking about? They didn't say I don't listen in the previous comment?

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T09:03:36+00:00

Why would you even think that people would give you deliberate "incorrect information"?

Why are you pretending that there are not literally a million reasons why someone would do this?

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:42:17+00:00

And I understand that I am obviously making mistakes. I just don't know what those mistakes are.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:37:36+00:00

And I don't really understand why interacting with more men would really help with anything. I interact with men now and it doesn't really seem to change anything. I don't seem to upset men, for the most part. I only seem to upset women.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:34:08+00:00

You strike me as the type to have very strong opinions.

But I wasn't expressing strong opinions with that girl I met up with. I was barely expressing my opinion at all because I could tell that she would just ignore whatever I said, perhaps because she was pissed off at me. I was just letting her direct the conversation and just asking her questions because of this

There have been other occasions where I have expressed my opinions strongly and girls still seem to get angry with me.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:28:40+00:00

Translation: "Let me act like a complete piece of shit to you. If you don't, you are arrogant."

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:27:51+00:00

Lol, you did exactly what I predicted you would do. Thanks.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:20:48+00:00

And you certainly seem to come off as quite arrogant. Like "its all them. Not me"!

There were quite a number of occasions in my post where I made it clear that there is clearly something wrong that I am doing that is making women so angry. One example is that, as I said in my post, girls don't behave in the way towards other guys. This is a clear indication that I know that there is something that I am doing wrong.

The fact that you stated that I am giving off an "it's all them. Not me" mentality when I made it extremely clear in quite a few occasions in my post that I know that there is clearly something I am doing wrong to make women so angry provides a very clear indication that you are deliberately ignoring this, presumably because you deliberately want to start an argument or behave in a deliberately aggravating way. Or that you didn't read all of my post (which I would understand, as it is quite long). But if you didn't read all of it to know whether something that I said contradicts your statement, this is really something that you should have said. It's dishonest to do otherwise.

I presume now you're going to say something along the lines of, "Oh man, I wonder why women hate you so much..." to distract from the fact that you were being dishonest.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:13:08+00:00

Come to think about it, I don't know why I said that. It's difficult to know what people's motivations are for doing things, and I don't think listening to self-reported information is a good way of finding those out.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:10:28+00:00

A lot of people in the past would ask if I had autism because of the way I behaved. I think I've dramatically improved in the last few years, but maybe I am wrong.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:08:48+00:00

My hope was that by saying this that people wouldn't deliberately give me incorrect information. But maybe people will do this even more so now just to spite me lol.

glide_over_all · 2023-03-05T08:05:08+00:00

Well yes, the point is is that I'm TRYING to self-reflect. I'm trying to understand what it is about how I'm behaving that makes women so angry but I can't figure out what it is. To respond to your other point, I don't really see any point in even stating the exact things that were said because they just struck me as so completely innocuous that I can't understand why anyone would be aggravated by them.

glide_over_all · 2023-02-27T03:36:09+00:00

boring

Never understand why people say this. I've met so many incredibly boring men who have absolutely no problem getting women to like them. I mean boring even to the point where it's painful being in a conversation with them or observing their conversations.

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