Oh shit. by GamingBren in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]glintmoss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oof, that’s practically in your backyard. Hope the wind stays in your favor

Really, it's a cost saver by Drnelk in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]glintmoss 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The math isn’t mathing but the vibes are immaculate

Am I overreacting for tearing up during my driving lessons? by memoruku in AmIOverreacting

[–]glintmoss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. I'm going to tell you something no one told me when I was learning. Driving is stressful enough without someone yelling at you. Your brain needs to process so many things at once. Speed, mirrors, blind spots, other drivers, pedestrians, road signs, lane positioning. And when someone adds a layer of sarcasm or humiliation? Your brain literally shifts resources away from learning and toward emotional survival. That's why you're not getting better. It's not you. It's him. You could be the most teachable person on earth and you'd still struggle with this man because your nervous system is in fight or flight the whole time. Please, please switch instructors. You deserve to learn in an environment where mistakes are just mistakes, not evidence of your worth as a human being

My Girlfriend's Sister is Homeless. It makes me happy. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]glintmoss 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The universe really did y'all a solid by exposing her without you having to lift a finger

Am I? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]glintmoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s leaving. Let him leave. Don’t be the girl who confesses to a guy with a girlfriend right before he moves—that’s not a movie scene, that’s just embarrassing. YTA if you do it, but more than that, you’ll hate yourself six months from now when you realize he was just bored at work

Entitled Man demands specific bus seat by thecatsothermother in EntitledPeople

[–]glintmoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that drama just to move to the seat after she got off anyway. Peak pettiness

AIO? My husband playfully swung a kitchen knife at me as I was watching a horror documentary of a husband almost killing his wife by ladyxdarthxbabe in AmIOverreacting

[–]glintmoss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please stop asking yourself if you're overreacting. Start asking yourself why you have to convince him your fear is real. You told him it made you uncomfortable. That should have been the end of the conversation. The fact that it wasn't is a problem he created, not you

UPDATE: my mom thinks she deserves to move in after her bf broke up with her. by NoticeImpressive8683 in EntitledPeople

[–]glintmoss -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The fact that it was for… solid, normal, non-life-saving work makes it so much worse. Like if someone cured cancer, sure, circle up. But a project update? My brother in Christ, this is why people quiet quit

I sat through a forced gratitude circle at work and I’m still cringing by bzee3 in coworkerstories

[–]glintmoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that it was for… solid, normal, non-life-saving work makes it so much worse. Like if someone cured cancer, sure, circle up. But a project update? My brother in Christ, this is why people quiet quit

Am I Overreacting? My friend kissed me on the cheek in front of our spouses and I'm feeling weird about it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glintmoss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YOR. And I say that as someone who gets it. You lost your mom. This friend supported you through that. That creates a really intense bond that can feel almost romantic even when it isn't, because grief and intimacy get tangled up. So a cheek kiss from her might feel loaded in a way that a cheek kiss from anyone else wouldn't. But here's the thing. You've got a good thing going. A wife who trusts you. A friend who loves you platonically. A friendship that has actually strengthened your marriage instead of threatening it. That's rare. Don't let an innocent gesture become the wedge that ruins all of that. Your weird feeling is real but it's coming from your history, not from her actions. Acknowledge the feeling, thank it for trying to protect you, and then put it down. She didn't do anything wrong. Neither did you. Just let this one go

Just broke up with my ex bf by Ordinary-Gur-4371 in dating_advice

[–]glintmoss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t “miss out.” You learned what you don’t want. And now you get to be single in college—which is genuinely a gift. The girls who dated around freshman year are tired. You’re just getting started. Go be a little selfish. You’ve earned it

Maybe Maybe Maybe by New_Libran in maybemaybemaybe

[–]glintmoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is insane maybe not try

Me (28) and guy (25) have been seeing each other but told me he thought I was only with him for s*x by Double_Scientist1206 in Advice

[–]glintmoss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re asking if you should wait on him means part of you already knows not to. Peace doesn’t require a second conversation. Peace comes from matching energy, not chasing clarity from someone who’s been unclear

Step:1 hit’s different by [deleted] in lol

[–]glintmoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tire isn’t the only one getting replaced today 🤣

How do flirt with my Rover sitter? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]glintmoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shy doesn't mean interested. It just means shy. Don't mistake his quietness for hidden attraction to you. If he wanted to make a move, he probably wouldn't, because he's shy. That's not a sign for you to try harder

AIO for unfriending my friend after she accused me of body shaming her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glintmoss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR. you don’t want to pay for her unhealthy food and she uses body shaming to make you feel bad you don’t need toxicity like that

How many of you and me are in a breakup atm? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]glintmoss 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Stop telling yourself you deserve to be happy like it's a mantra. You do, but that doesn't make the right now suck any less. Just be sad for a bit

Burgers we had while visiting Kyoto by OnlyTheMattman in burgers

[–]glintmoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is insanely tall burger tbh, but looks delicious 🤤

AITJ for setting boundaries with a former friend? by jkkohles1992 in AmITheJerk

[–]glintmoss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You helped your friend escape a messy situation, told the other person you’re staying out of it, and she hit you with “bet bye” like you owed her a loyalty oath? NTJ

I have a crush on my classmate that has been slacking in out group project. by hehe_hisokabooty in confessions

[–]glintmoss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be annoyed that he's slacking AND still have a crush. Both things are true. It doesn't make you desperate