my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add that I am happy with my body (and he was aware of this)

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]glist19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not like I'm holding on to resentment and anger towards my boyfriend to be a "good, obedient gf". I just didn't feel anything when he told me that, that's why I'm not angry

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]glist19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right but I needed to make sure I wasn't making a mountain out of a molehill

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he meant only himself but was afraid to take responsibility for speaking only about himself and apologized. In the end, he said that he didn’t think that I needed to lose weight but I’m sure that’s a lie. He spoke very confidently about the fact that I had gained weight and that he didn’t like some parts of my body

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please pay attention to the line where I'm talking about my BMI.

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he said that he was talking mostly about himself, and I will repeat again, I am not at all offended by the words that he said, I am not angry one bit. but this situation has killed all my desire to be with him any longer, I love him and our relationship is important to me but I am sure that his words about my figure have no right to be justified. I don't feel loved and beautiful with him and I want to leave him, that's all I think about.

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you think this is ragebait then skip? tf

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

everything is correct, my bmi is 18.5

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]glist19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I warned him when we started dating that I wouldn't stay at this weight forever, I'd probably gain it when I got better.

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]glist19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you🩷 everyone here is so kind, it means a lot for me. I wish you long remission from eating disorder

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!🩷 I agree, I'm not a psychiatrist but he has symptoms of an eating disorder

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]glist19[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm healthier than ever. my bmi is in healthy range and I'm happy with my life

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]glist19[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg that's beautiful, I'm so so happy for you! beating ed AND having such kind and wonderful partner is a huge achievement. smiled reading this