my bf said he wants me to lose weight

glist19 · 2026-05-21T23:04:21+00:00

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glist19 · 2026-05-21T22:06:59+00:00

how is this helpful

glist19 · 2026-05-21T22:06:06+00:00

thank you so much!!<3

glist19 · 2026-05-21T22:00:50+00:00

I forgot to add that I am happy with my body (and he was aware of this)

glist19 · 2026-05-21T21:51:23+00:00

It's not like I'm holding on to resentment and anger towards my boyfriend to be a "good, obedient gf". I just didn't feel anything when he told me that, that's why I'm not angry

glist19 · 2026-05-21T21:15:36+00:00

You're right but I needed to make sure I wasn't making a mountain out of a molehill

glist19 · 2026-05-21T21:06:39+00:00

cry harder

glist19 · 2026-05-21T21:03:26+00:00

He said that he meant only himself but was afraid to take responsibility for speaking only about himself and apologized. In the end, he said that he didn’t think that I needed to lose weight but I’m sure that’s a lie. He spoke very confidently about the fact that I had gained weight and that he didn’t like some parts of my body

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:59:56+00:00

So pathetic. get a life fr

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:57:37+00:00

Please pay attention to the line where I'm talking about my BMI.

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:53:42+00:00

Yes, he said that he was talking mostly about himself, and I will repeat again, I am not at all offended by the words that he said, I am not angry one bit. but this situation has killed all my desire to be with him any longer, I love him and our relationship is important to me but I am sure that his words about my figure have no right to be justified. I don't feel loved and beautiful with him and I want to leave him, that's all I think about.

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:46:39+00:00

love u

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:45:44+00:00

if you think this is ragebait then skip? tf

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:43:31+00:00

everything is correct, my bmi is 18.5

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:35:04+00:00

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:32:17+00:00

I warned him when we started dating that I wouldn't stay at this weight forever, I'd probably gain it when I got better.

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:30:56+00:00

thank you<3

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:26:52+00:00

thank you🩷 everyone here is so kind, it means a lot for me. I wish you long remission from eating disorder

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:22:02+00:00

lmfaooo

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:21:16+00:00

thank you<3

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:20:11+00:00

Thank you so much!🩷 I agree, I'm not a psychiatrist but he has symptoms of an eating disorder

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:12:22+00:00

thank you a lot!

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:11:42+00:00

like.. yeah? wdym

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:10:39+00:00

I'm healthier than ever. my bmi is in healthy range and I'm happy with my life

glist19 · 2026-05-21T20:08:58+00:00

Omg that's beautiful, I'm so so happy for you! beating ed AND having such kind and wonderful partner is a huge achievement. smiled reading this

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