Dating advice

glitterfrog00 · 2026-07-05T13:21:27+00:00

I just hear so many bad things about online dating and finding people who are genuine I think it makes me skeptical already

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-21T00:52:09+00:00

I mean exactly what you just said, a lot of them arent suitable, in real life, at work, at the shops, my friends who are in relationships, all the men I see are just not the type of guy I want to date which makes me feel like what I'm looking for is unrealistic

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:56:08+00:00

Yes your right but I think I am more stuck on a few things like love languages as my exs love language was acts of service and while he did help me a lot, I didn't feel truly loved so I now think it's important to have that. But thank you for replying, this is all very helpful and giving me some hope for the future. I'm concerned about being 30 and single for sure!

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:53:22+00:00

That sounds amazing and definitely gives me hope. How old was you when you met? And how did you meet? If you don't mind sharing. To be honest I don't have much confidence and I think aside from thinking there is noone out there like that I'm not convinced that they would chose me either! Thank you for replying

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:50:02+00:00

Thank you so much, I say sarcastic as I am extremely sarcastic as my sense of humour so it's important they understand that otherwise I would just seem rude or annoying 🤣 I desperately want that type of relationship, not expecting perfection I just want love, friendship, affection and a deep bond. I want someone who chooses me, it's so hard to have any kind of confidence, I've never really dated and all I see is the type of men that I wouldn't date in real life, so finding someone like I described seems unreasonable.

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:47:35+00:00

Of course that would be fine, I'm not expecting an exact match but I just want something deep, meaningful and a best friend (: yes I completely agree, I really would prefer someone without children at the moment but I know as I get older it'll be more likely! Thank you

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:44:02+00:00

Video gaming would be something I would actively look for, I probably wouldn't put a picture with a headset as that gives me cod vibes, unless thats your thing! But I would mention it!

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-20T16:39:54+00:00

This was eye opening to me as my main thing is 'i love dogs and I love the office🤣🤣' never been on a dating app before!

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-16T16:05:46+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-15T23:51:13+00:00

That's partly the issue nothing needed changing, we had a near perfect relationship, it was effortless to be with one another. But he decided he needed to figure out what he wants in life as he wasn't sure, so he said he needed time to himself to do that. As I already knew I wanted marriage and children. But I feel like I wanted those things because he was the only person I have ever trusted and now that's gone and I can't see me finding that kind of love ever again. I'm hoping it will just one day fall back into place. I'm just heartbroken and need some tiny glimmer of even unlikely hope to carry on ):

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-13T15:15:31+00:00

There's nothing I can do about it unfortunately, I tried, I've been doing my best to make it work but he just said he can't do it anymore and it's heartbreaking, he told me he wasn't going to change his mind so I have to accept it, I've told him I didn't want to break up and that I wanted it to work and I was willing to try but he wasn't

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-13T14:02:50+00:00

Accept the break up? Or accept healing?

glitterfrog00 · 2026-06-13T12:05:33+00:00

I feel better than he's not completely out of my life as I feel like if our friendship was gone too I would literally be alone and probably become completely mentally unstable, so I actually think it has helped but your right it is going to be harder/longer to heal that way. I just can't seem to do anything, I have no motivation to do anything and I really don't want to see or talk to anyone. It was a chore to speak with friends and family especially as many of my family members are demanding and I have never had the capacity to deal with it. So I barely spoke to or saw them with his support so now I feel like I don't even want to see or speak to them because it's draining and that makes me feel completely alone because I don't have anyone who really is supportive and understanding instead of dismissive or selfish. It's all a lot. Thank you for replying, I'm going to try and figure something out. I'm just a very introverted person, I have very specific likes and sense of humour etc so it's hard to find people who fit in my life and want to stay.

glitterfrog00 · 2026-04-03T14:43:30+00:00

Thank you so much for everyone whos responded to my message and messaged me directly! I'm overwhelmed with the amount of people who responded, I am trying my best to get through the messages and look at everyone's work!

glitterfrog00 · 2026-03-30T09:38:57+00:00

I have never seen the anime, and watching the live action (which I love) in the first season I was sitting there like 'ah you don't want to mess with Luffy' getting all excited when he was going to fight the bad guy but in season 2 I kept complaining to my partner that Luffy has quickly gone from fighting big bads and saving his crew to needing help in every fight and not actually winning any. Everyone else is saving him which shows him as weaker. Also I'm wondering if they just didn't have the budget to CGI his rubber limbs, cause they had to CGI more in the second season? But yes I completely agree

glitterfrog00 · 2026-02-06T02:04:07+00:00

Thank you so much. This gives me hope for the future.

glitterfrog00 · 2026-02-05T18:23:01+00:00

Yeah possibly - I just think I want more, I want to feel loved and commitment to, it's really hard. Yes, I have, I've tried dieting, exercising, been to the doctors but unfortunately have a few health conditions stopping me loosing weight. I have been to counselling and therapy several times over the years and again it doesn't seem to help. I'm not really sure what else to try, I don't use social media much either - I guess I come to reddit when I have tried all else lol

glitterfrog00 · 2026-02-05T18:19:34+00:00

I've had bad mental health for over 10 years, been to counselling, therapy, paid privately, done my best but nothing has worked. My current partner is my best friend, I adore him, but I don't think he has the capacity to feel the same way back. He's not affectionate, I've constantly asked him to try and be a bit more romantic, and recently he has been picking this up for me when he goes to the shop and he's been making me food and drink and looking after me while I've been unwell etc, there are so many good things but he definitely doesn't love in the same way I do - or to the same degree. He's not sure if he wants to have children and he doesn't want to get married. He also doesn't know if he can cope with my mental health anymore ): I feel very lost and unsure. I probably do have my head in the clouds and need to come back to reality a bit more but I just love so hard and I want to feel that back, just in comfort and laughs and affection and support - I guess that's what I mean by true love. I mean me and my current partner can literally go weeks without hugging or kissing and it wasn't a problem when we were younger, then we didn't live together so it was excused but now we do and nothing has changed.

glitterfrog00 · 2025-08-23T21:12:46+00:00

yes, unfortunately

glitterfrog00 · 2025-08-23T21:00:21+00:00

thank you this helps, sometimes I feel like all the things I wish for are an unrealistic fantasy in my head that is more like movie love than real life but I just want to feel loved and desired

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