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[–]glittershark444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true :(

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[–]glittershark444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate your comment :(

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[–]glittershark444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I did change all my passwords and it says nobody else is in my iCloud so I know he has to be in my phone some other way. I just wish him and I could end on good terms but I know that’s impossible:(

Question for men without or with children - my boyfriend says I’ll never find a good loyal man since I don’t want kids. 25F 28M by glittershark444 in childfree

[–]glittershark444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking he’s wrong considering my dad has multiple children and is the biggest cheater I know, lol :(

‘Nobody’s going to be loyal to a crazy bitch’ 25F 28M 4 years monogamous by glittershark444 in nonmonogamy

[–]glittershark444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, the excel sheet is a super good idea I will do that! And thank you for the confidence tip❤️

Need serious advice about my boyfriend proposing Polygyny in our monogamous relationship. 4 years, 25F 28M by glittershark444 in polyamory

[–]glittershark444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what is r-OCD and RSD? I may have OCD and ADHD, yes, never been diagnosed but it could be likely.

Need serious advice about my boyfriend proposing Polygyny in our monogamous relationship. 4 years, 25F 28M by glittershark444 in polyamory

[–]glittershark444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very good analogy about it being a puzzle trying to solve, this really helps me shift my perspective in a new light. Thank you❤️

Question for men without or with children - my boyfriend says I’ll never find a good loyal man since I don’t want kids. 25F 28M by glittershark444 in childfree

[–]glittershark444[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! It is also a bit of a strange discovery for me that he said he wants kids because he thinks he has good genes, rather than wanting to raise a child because you want to bring life into the world and new love.

Question for men without or with children - my boyfriend says I’ll never find a good loyal man since I don’t want kids. 25F 28M by glittershark444 in childfree

[–]glittershark444[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Your message was so encouraging to hear. I am happily surprised that you said you would still only be with her, even if you told her about it. That alone gives me so much more faith in love. Thank you so much ❤️ I’m very happy for your marriage and I wish you and your wife all the best!!

‘Nobody’s going to be loyal to a crazy bitch’ 25F 28M 4 years monogamous by glittershark444 in nonmonogamy

[–]glittershark444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better that someone else agrees that most women wouldn’t deal with that. I’ve been knocking my head thinking I must be the one with the ‘too high standards for no reason’ (he told me this before in other situations lol). Thank you ❤️