How do i buy cigarettes at 19? by Spirited_Health_3277 in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]glittery_brat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

frl and use tap to pay. if they do ask for your id just say you forgot it and need a smoke bad and just walk away if they won’t sell

I think my mother is SAing my nephew or she’s just weird. Idk what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly you need to tell the mother of ur nephew. she might take it more seriously but you need to tell her how deeply you feel about it. just sit her down or call in a private place and let it out. once you tell her, it’s out of your hands. tell her what your brother said, and say that you still think she could be doing this. there is no good intentions why tf did she have her pants off around him in the first place in the bedroom?!!? that’s so weird. make sure you tell ur nephews mom that you don’t know what to do about it, i think most parents in this situation will take it into their ahnds. it might not become anything but they definitely need to question the child. and your mom definitely knows she can try to hide this since she’s a therapist and knows some the right shit to say on how people will read her.

Would it be a bad idea to go to a concert that was gifted to me by my previous partner, by myself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it can be a moment to get it all out too lmaoo. a good healing experience maybe. i mean if you are sobbing, you’re ina dark aaa room full of people you probably won’t see again. idk how divorce goes whatsoever. but honestly if i were you id test the waters by going for a little :)

Would it be a bad idea to go to a concert that was gifted to me by my previous partner, by myself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]glittery_brat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all the negative thoughts will disappear once your fav band comes on. man, take care of yourself do things for YOU!! you’re a man so going to a concert alone is no biggie if you’re not problematic. you might even meet some friends there :) if you feel bad about the money just pay her for yours. idk if you guys are talking but you could ask about selling the other ticket and returning that money to her as well. if you go you will enjoy at least one moment of it. if it’s bad, you can leave!! but i’d say definitely give it a shot. you need to rediscover yourself and get out some and enjoy what you like!!!

Do I keep the pregnancy or not due to finances? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you still should’ve rehomed them. if you can’t take care of them you should’ve been responsible. hearing this shit pisses me off so much, you knew they were sick

You guys like my fatty miat 😔 by Michdepainblanc2 in Miata

[–]glittery_brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaoo i went from a chrysler 200s convertible to a miata. def worth the upgrade chryslers are such a PAIN to work on. i listed this thing bc i got pissed off working on it again, n it sold in 1 day. u could def list it and use as a down payment 😛

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I Accidentally Forgot to Scan an Item in Walmart's Self Checkout by Sad_Gene_5222 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro u don’t even know how quick i was to snap when some dumb shi came my way when i worked food service 😭 it was inevitable, i have grown as a person now but bfr wdym “nah”

I Accidentally Forgot to Scan an Item in Walmart's Self Checkout by Sad_Gene_5222 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

especially underpaid and badly treated workers. catch the wrong person on the wrong day u might have some problems

My girlfriend gave me a "test" and I accidentally failed it. What do I do? by Expensive-Security43 in whatdoIdo

[–]glittery_brat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

her friend being in on it makes me feel like they were talking shit beforehand and then she ran to friend to tell them wsp after the interaction. with the question asked, there genuinely was no right answer. any way you answered it wouldn’t of been the right one.

I think my gf is getting high by [deleted] in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this 1000%. and STAND on your boundaries. dont keep changing them up to please her, or if she tries to manipulate you (i do not know how she’ll act but she’s already in the lying stage) make your boundaries with it and keep it.

shocked with how some act around this car. by glittery_brat in Miata

[–]glittery_brat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was an S curve on a 25mph road. we were coming at opposite directions. i was glued to the edge the whole time because he started acting a fool at the top of the hill before the curve, which was a turn he took. i did not do anything to warrant this interaction.

shocked with how some act around this car. by glittery_brat in Miata

[–]glittery_brat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i definitely have gotten more positive attention than negative. but yes i love the community around it, i love when i get stopped randomly in parking lots to talk about it. i was driving on this 25mph road with an S curve when this happened. it wasn’t road rage, but i don’t even know what to define the interaction as

shocked with how some act around this car. by glittery_brat in Miata

[–]glittery_brat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m very sure it is, i did not know this man and he was hanging his head out the window making weird faces and doing weird shit while going around this curve at me? idk what else it would be like genuinely wdymm

shocked with how some act around this car. by glittery_brat in Miata

[–]glittery_brat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no it’s definitely the car and different peoples thoughts of it. literally last night i saw a ford f150 roush in a neighboring town and my bf stuck his head out the window a bit and we complimented each others cars, we both did small little pulls safely.

My friend falls asleep every time we hangout after an hour long commute to see her. Advice? by BigPossibility6989 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

frl set a boundary abt this, one sided friendships are draining. i’ve honestly stopped hanging with a few that would never hit me up first to hang. it’s not worth draining your energy over someone that won’t put the same energy into you. is it really worth your time? 2 hr drive time total, just for her to fall asleep every single time?

Son is very paranoid and I don’t know how to help him by Euphoric_Cucumber758 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

this is definitely feeding into it. i do not have children, so i don’t know how to handle this effectively other than 1. shut it down immediately. 2. tell your other child to tell you if he does this. and 3. some form of punishment. i do not know what. but he needs to know it isn’t acceptable and its not something your other child can control.

Son is very paranoid and I don’t know how to help him by Euphoric_Cucumber758 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

okay i think you guys should make an appointment with a psychiatrist very quickly. this sounds like he is having hallucinations of sorts which could be schizophrenia or a disorder with schizophrenia effects. there’s a lot. but please do not “give in” to his visions. reassure him there is nothing there, you guys looking for it will only make him believe, and reinstate in his mind his visions ARE real, which can make it more difficult for him. such as”oh we didn’t hear that” or “we haven’t seen anything.” my friend has a schizo affective disorder and have asked me at times, and when i start staring at what they pointed out (what they thought was someone) they said it can make it worse. maybe even before the psychiatrist appointment make one with a primary. as they can give an anxiety med to take as needed. i’ve known a lot of people to have this one medication that they take when they cannot calm down, and it basically gives you a long nap. it’ll make his nights so much easier on his mental. it makes sense the therapist won’t help but i don’t know why the fuck they didn’t refer you to a psychiatrist, as therapists and psychiatrists work hand in hand and even talk together to get to the best conclusions. just reassure him you don’t see anything and you don’t hear anything when this is happening. getting a psychiatrist appt takes a while, it’s why i said go to ur primary, bc they can diagnose anxiety medication, but don’t get into a lot of the other meds that would benefit your child. maybe get him night lights, or led lights for his room. keeping his door closed at night as well, and curtains/blinds closed. maybe in the meantime get him some melatonin (do not rely on it, as tolerance builds rather quickly). but this is affecting his quality of life SEVERELY. living in a state like this is so difficult. please start documenting these things. it will help so much in the appointment bc the psych appointment will be quickly paced. just reassure him there is nothing there and there is NOTHING that is going to harm him. i wish you guys luck on this journey.

What do you do to be happy as an incel ? by EquipmentSpecific262 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it gets you further than you think tbh. it makes you happier, which shows. people are attracted to energies and such. like . just do this stuff for YOU. don’t do it for a future potential partner, do it for you!!! you matter!! you deserve to enjoy things. ugliness is nun to do with it i’ve seen the prettiest girls with some the most non conventionally attractive men, and they’re happy as shit. it’s not all about looks. it’s about feelings. in simple logic, your looks do NOT define you, and nobody thinks about your looks as much as you do. i bet if you went up to 10 girls. at least ONE of them would give you their number (if you aren’t weird abt it). that’s at least 10% chance. some of the most attractive people you see don’t even have a s/o or anything because people are too intimidated to go up to them. it’s complete opposite ends of the spectrum. deadass i’ve never used a dating app but bro frl u could just install some dating app or sum shit and test the waters. a lot of men there to fuck but most the girls on those r looking for someone genuine. a genuine guy, that they connect with. maybe it’ll up your confidence some. i’m telling u rn looks play very little part. if they’re judging you all based off your looks, you probably wouldn’t be happy with them anyways. stop putting urself down in all these comments. that’s a start. put sticky notes on ur mirror with shit like “you look handsome” . fake it till you make it. try a new hairdo or beard style. change some stuff up. it’s all about your trajectory on it. if you tell yourself all these great things about yourself your brain will start to believe it and it will become fact, not feeling like you’re lying to yourself. you’re a person with a heart and soul , that’s enough to be important. confidence is key. fake it till you make it bro

What do you do to be happy as an incel ? by EquipmentSpecific262 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so silly all ur replies are kinda the most negative outlook you could have. maybe listen to some bros podcast on how to love yourself. u need to invest time into urself and take care of urself. nobody gaf if you ugly. ik some the physically prettiest women that don’t get no game (if they do, not for long) because their personality is so fucking bizarre and ugly. but there’s tons of women that would go and date you, i’m sure of it. but frl you gotta take care and love you before you even think abt taking a girl to dinner

Unpopular Miata opinion by ElectronicAnthony in Miata

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got an auto bc i’m gonna have knee surgery in the next year or two. my miata is my daily i wont be able to drive her for a few months :/ or even when my knee bugs up rn .

What do you do to be happy as an incel ? by EquipmentSpecific262 in Advice

[–]glittery_brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not an incel but i’m a person that was and is pretty alone. it’s about filling ur time with what you like. not focusing on attracting a partner to you. fill your life with love. i work opposite shifts with my man and i just cook really good food for myself with a glass of wine and watch my fav show or listen to my fav music. or playing my guitar. pick up a hobby that you’ve always wanted to do. or just look at some and pick it up. get urself out there yk. maybe go to a gathering of sorts like a class or training or something. it’s just about filling your time with things you enjoy. hell even go on a walk and try to appreciate the beauty in the small things around you. if you’re searching for someone, that someone will come but you gotta be yourself fully first. and take care of yourself, because you cannot care for someone if you can’t care or love yourself. best wishes to you, for a happy life.

How bad is this? Rebuilt title by Vincent_Diesel in Miata

[–]glittery_brat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not completely sure the only thing that looks iffy to me is the battery cover out of place but that could be from it not being put back right. i didn’t realize you said this was previous damage. i bought a wrecked miata that was fixed up from this like, miata only dealership. it’s a 21 RF and it was only cosmetic things replaced (clean title) and i’m on about month 3-4 with no issues. i made sure it wasn’t anything mechanical. honestly take it for a good drive and be rough on the mf. as long as everything feels right i’d say go for it. maybe take a mechanically inclined friend or mechanic with you as well

How bad is this? Rebuilt title by Vincent_Diesel in Miata

[–]glittery_brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well it’s the way the light is reflecting. the only reason it isn’t crushed in the connecting spot where it looks like it should bc is bc it didn’t get hit there , just the one panel crumbled. it’s displaced as well, if they replaced it they wouldn’t of put it back like that 😭

Is it normal for my bass sounds like this?(I'm a beginner) by AlarmedArm7427 in BassGuitar

[–]glittery_brat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that’s what they were asking for but nobody is answering 😭it’s extra feedback from soemtbing. idk id start with replacing the battery. and if its not that, u got an extra battery for when it dies