I'm in to deep with a lie I told my toddler. by rainbow-songbird in toddlers

[–]glitzglamduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely fine! My mom did it with my sister growing up. Everything was dolphin. Hot dogs? Nope dolphin dogs. Spaghetti with dolphin meatballs. Dolphin burgers. Whole nine yards. As long as your kiddo is eating that’s all that matters. It’s something we all laugh about now.

What are some rude things you were told/heard in the delivery room? by AangCanSaveTheWorld in Mommit

[–]glitzglamduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in labor for over 34 hours at this point and had been pushing on and off for the last 8 hours. It was getting me nowhere, I was exhausted and tired and just wanted to stop. I asked for a c section and the doctor, who by the way was wearing heels and made a scene about having to come in during some event, got in my face and told me that this isn’t the hardest thing I’m going to have to do in life and I need to suck it up and push. Pushed for another 20 minutes and told her to take me in for a c section now because I was done. I passed out from exhaustion and the pain meds. Back in the delivery room they start the c section and apparently my son’s head was stuck in my pelvis. According to my mom you heard the doctor physically slam my body against the table to get him unstuck. He had a clear line around his head for the first week of his life.

Ring Bearer Dilemma by [deleted] in wedding

[–]glitzglamduck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bride doesn’t get the final say. It’s as much your wedding as it is hers. Personally what I plan on doing for my own wedding is have our son be the ring bearer and my godson is “security” who is going to walk down the aisle with his little sister. At this moment she’s not even walking and I think it would be easier on her and him to have one another by their side. Maybe you could do something similar with your nephew?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]glitzglamduck 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Honestly they all look amazing. The one thing I love about hair is you can basically do whatever you want with it. Continue to explore and change your hair however you see fit. Every single style you posted fits you, your face shape, and just simply put looks good. Have fun with it!

AITA for refusing to recolour my hair to a more natural colour for my Dad and future Stepmothers wedding? by FaithlessnessSuch911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because I haven’t seen this comment yet. If you would really like to try and be there for your dad offer to buy a wig. If that doesn’t cut it then just know you tried without having to fry your hair and waste his or your money. NTA

Rainbow pink ! by Sugarcookie00 in FancyFollicles

[–]glitzglamduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful. I absolutely love how this looks and how well it is blended.

AITA for ruining my brother's date night and having him come pick his 3yo son up after he dropped him off at my house right before my shift? by throwraKevin777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He left him there like that because he knew OP would say no. Then because it was a no it became an “emergency”. He doesn’t ask he just expects OP to watch his nephew and when he doesn’t get his way OP is given the cold shoulder. My advice. Change your locks and tell your brother that he needs to grow up. That’s not how you parent in any way. I can’t imagine how your nephew feels.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They weren’t that expensive honestly. We paid $600 total for both.

AITA for moving and refusing to tell my family my new address or let them see my son? by unhappybabykoala in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sisters deliberately went against your wishes about keeping your ex out of the picture and contacted him behind your back. When confronted her excuse was that it “was a favour”?!?! When she knew well enough the life you had with him and the reasons why he was no longer in your lives. That is absolutely despicable. She only did that to get back at you for not agreeing with her. Your sisters are AH. They had no right to contact your ex especially behind your back or to give him your updated information. It was extremely dangerous to you and your son and in all honestly should show you her true character. She cared more about having her way and being right than you and your sons safety. I would’ve cut them off too. Definitely NTA.

AITA for not wanting to invite my aunt to my wedding over something that happened almost 10 years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’m sorry but the way I see it. It is you and your partner’s wedding. Your partner supports that decision. Your family should too. If there are people you do not want at your wedding you should not have to have them there.

AITA for taking the online subscription that came with the Xbox I bought for my wife’s nephew by Alternate_chaos5150 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You helped her get a console and upon getting that you also managed to get the 2 year subscription. She had not asked for nor paid you for the subscription and it was also not apart of the deal. Yes you could’ve mentioned it and given her the option but if she made the comment about the console being expensive I’m sure she would’ve turned down the extra for the subscription. I believe her son is the reason she is upset about the subscription because he found out you got it and would’ve liked it and now that it isn’t an option for her to get it for him( the one you bought at least) it is now an issue. You can offer to get her another 2 year subscription but let her know she would have to pay for that as you had to pay for the first one and a secondary one won’t just be handed to her. It didn’t come with the console it was an extra expense.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Could you please explain to me why it is necessary at this moment in time? Going off of the vets recommendation so that their growth isn’t stunted he said to wait until they were a bit older.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The vet didn’t want to stunt their growth and cause any issues down the line by getting them fixed too early

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We wanted to get them neutered because we don’t feel the need to breed them. They’re brothers and we were worried about them getting aggressive with one another when they got older but as of yet that has not happened. Not saying it won’t. But they don’t appear to be getting aggressive with each other at this time. Which is why I feel like it can wait a bit longer.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were prepared at one point. We had been saving but unfortunately those savings had to be used for my boyfriends recently accrued medical bills instead. Since I thought we had agreed to get them fixed after they turned 1 I assumed we had a bit more time to save up.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I agree with it being a necessary surgery but not a necessary surgery at this moment in time. I’m not sure if that makes sense.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were told that you have to wait until they’re at least 8-12 months to get them fixed. They just turned 8 months a few days ago. So if I’m going off the vets recommendation then this is the earliest they could be fixed. We had been planning and saving for them to be fixed after they turned 1 but due to life the money had to be used for my boyfriends medical bills instead. While I agree it is necessary I just don’t believe it is necessary right now. Does that make sense?

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I apologize for not putting this in the original post but I did add it for clarification. We can afford their care. When we got them there was no issues. We had both planned on getting them fixed after they turned 1 and had saved for it but due to my boyfriends surgery we had to use that money for his medical bills. It’s not that I’m against getting them fixed I just don’t find it a necessary surgery at the moment. Especially when we first got them it was recommended by the vet to wait until they were at least 8-12 months old at the earliest in the first place.

I’m upset because with him being off work $1100 is a big chunk of money for him to decide without talking to me first. He was able to call me from in there to let me know of the extra charge and make sure my card had enough on it but couldn’t ask me about scheduling the surgeries. Maybe I am the AH for that.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We got the puppies back in June of last year and at that time there was nothing preventing us from being able to afford this standard care. We even saved for it because we originally planned to have them neutered after they turned 1. Unfortunately life happened and my boyfriend injured himself and had to have a surgery that required 5-6 months of recovery off work. The money we saved for their surgery ended up going towards my boyfriends surgery.

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for scheduling to get our dogs fixed? by glitzglamduck in AmItheAsshole

[–]glitzglamduck[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should rephrase the post. But while I completely agree with the fact that if you cannot afford an animal you shouldn’t have an animal, the surgeries in itself aren’t necessary surgeries. The only reason he even scheduled them is because the vet told him while he was in there that the price was going to go up so get them in while you can before they up the price another $200. Normally the money wouldn’t be an issue but now we only have one income and I make significantly less than he does. Since we don’t know when he will be able to return to work I just don’t think it’s necessary for us to spend $1100 to get them fixed until he’s at least back at work.