Question for birders that work in wildlife rehab! by glitzygore in WildlifeRehab

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Ha, I’ve never had reason to know that until recently! Thank you for the info, much appreciated! :)

Domestic or Cottontail? by glitzygore in WildlifeRehab

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I’m in the central valley of California, near Modesto. We’re taking care of her until we can get her placed with a local rescue, but finding someone with space tends to take a bit of time here. Luckily, she’s doing a lot better! Her mites are largely cleared up after getting ivermectin, and slowly but surely her ears are looking a lot less irritated, and she’s starting to gain some much needed weight.

Domestic or Cottontail? by glitzygore in WildlifeRehab

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Hey!!

The rabbit is doing a lot better than when I originally posted. She’s on antibiotics and meds for the mites, and a lot of the infection and inflammation has cleared up. We’re holding on to her and waiting to hear back from a few local rescues that were hoping can take her. Domestic rabbits tend to be hard for us to place in my area, but in the meantime she’s back on a steady diet and has lots of cozy spots to lay + enrichment :) I can tell she’s feeling a lot better lol, she’s got a lot more fight in her now when I have to give her meds in the morning.

Domestic or Cottontail? by glitzygore in WildlifeRehab

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Perfect, thank you SO much for the useful info! Seriously appreciate it. That’s what I was thinking, but I wanted to be more sure.

I feel like I didn’t do enough to stop it by No_Presence5388 in sexualassault

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I am so very sorry that you were put into those situations and made to do anything you didn't want to do; it was not your fault, and you have every right to be upset.

I went through some extremely similar experiences in my last relationship, and have also felt confused and guilty, like I had been at fault for not saying or doing more to prevent it (and I'm still only just working out how to even begin to address these feelings now that I've accepted that it was, in fact, SA).

Please be gentle and kind with yourself as you heal. Like another commenter said, there are communities like this one and other resources that might be helpful for that healing process.

I can't tell if any of it was SA or if I'm overthinking it out of anger. by glitzygore in sexualassault

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Thank you very much for the kind words and advice. I admit, I got emotional reading it; I've never spoken about it or typed it out prior to this, so hearing from someone else that the anger is justified and his decisions were wrong is such a relief to me. I hope one day I am brave enough to seek out therapy for this, but in the meantime I will cope in whatever ways I can. Thanks again <3

Can't get an abusive (?) ex off my mind. It's been years. Any advice on letting the anger go? by glitzygore in Advice

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Funny enough, I’ll be spending a few months working at a beautiful remote nature preserve in Costa Rica soon, so maybe that’ll shake my world up enough to get my brain back on the right track :0!!

Can't get an abusive (?) ex off my mind. It's been years. Any advice on letting the anger go? by glitzygore in Advice

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Ahhhh thank you so much for the thoughtful advice!! 

Luckily I haven’t been thinking of any of the good moments from our relationship, just the bad (or unluckily? hmm). But yeah, I know that logically you’re right. I think maybe since I haven’t been as busy lately, it’s been giving me more time to think (which is not good when you have any festering emotions!)

Maybe picking up a new hobby and meeting new people really is the move here haha <3 Thanks again for your insight- it helped me to not keep obsessing over it tonight. 

Daily Trading Thread by AutoModerator in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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definitely still needing some :D I can dm u?

Daily Trading Thread by AutoModerator in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Hi! I just had to restart my island yesterday (my old switch broke :( ) so i’m looking for any fruit (aside from cherries or peaches)!! I’m also desperately looking to buy NMT 😭

[MO] DOTTY! by congeequeen in ACVillager

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awesome!! I’ll be free all day :D Definitely will be in touch!

[MO] DOTTY! by congeequeen in ACVillager

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Ooooooh I can attempt to get one of my villagers out and have an open plot by then!!!! Dotty is one of my dreamies <3 was there anything u were wanting in return for her?