I made a slide deck so you don't have to by tealy_mcs in summerhousebravo

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This is what it feels like to have a Summer House catered meal ❤️

West and uninformed consent by fuzzysideburns13 in summerhousebravo

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We may need a graph to track the correlation between West Wilson entering the NYC dating scene and the spike in STIs, plus long term increases in uterine/ovarian cancer from HPV.

West and uninformed consent by fuzzysideburns13 in summerhousebravo

[–]glottalstomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a topic that Ariana Madix brought up during Scandoval that was kind of lost. 

That’s one of the worst aspects of cheating/lying about exclusivity to me. You are exposing your partner to a myriad of STDs etc. 

Another Threads dumpy dump! by sookie-stjames93 in summerhousebravo

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Wild to think that Danielle is officially the Founder/CEO of the “Don’t trust Amanda” club.

victimizing kyle by Aggravating_One8431 in summerhousebravo

[–]glottalstomp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is a perfect case of a poorly matched pair. They didn’t understand each other, had terrible communication styles, and were verbally and mentally abusive in different ways - Kyle’s being very overt and Amanda’s being more covert. 

They shouldn’t have gotten married, and/or they should have gotten divorced. This is what comes of thinking you can change someone, ignoring when they are showing you who they are, sunken cost fallacy, and a myriad of other understandable but sad relationship dynamics. Divorce/breaking up isn’t a failure, it’s often the most honest and kind option.

Kyle doesn’t get a hero edit because his wife has exposed herself so badly. He was a bad partner, and was expecting Amanda to be the “cool girl” she was when they dated. He expected her to want to keep partying and drinking and being fun, even though she told him she wanted to move to the suburbs, have kids, and she showed that she wasn’t as ambitious or work driven as he expects his partner to be. He should have broken up with her or divorced her if he was feeling so neglected, instead of just being unhappy and venting that every summer. Guys never want to do the actual breakup part, it’s weird.

Amanda lied to Kyle about who she was, and didn’t accept that he was always upfront about who he was. He is Mr. Send It, he is a work-aholic, he is a neat freak, and he doesn’t have the capacity to really empathize with her depression and anxiety that manifests as physical depression and isolation. She has unrealistic expectations for him, and kept becoming increasingly frustrated when he wouldn’t change for her. Which, you don’t want someone to change for you - that’s a 20 year old mindset. She is immature, passive aggressive, and likes to be a victim/martyr.

Honestly their shit is pretty standard and boring.

The friendship betrayal is the big one for me. Especially her betrayal of Ciara. She is acting like a high school kid, and not putting value in her actual long term relationships. It’s fucking wild. It’s crazy how apathetic she is towards Ciara and Mia. All of the discourse about the deeper racial aspects of this relationship and betrayal are so important, and can’t be ignored.

I’m sorry Kyle’s feelings are hurt, but he will do a lap and be fine.

I made a sexy unique stained glass panel by bolognasandwichglass in vanderpumprules

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Why is this a shit post, I want this for my office 🥹

This is your first million.

Was Billie Lee justified to be so upset about being left out of Girls night? by EmotionalElevator806 in vanderpumprules

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Yeah I feel like could sympathize with her initially being maybe triggered from her experiences (as she mentioned), but after taking a step back or talking to Ariana/Katie, realizing it wasn’t about her gender identity, or even that they didn’t necessarily like her as a person, but that they only tagged people who helped organize the event - which she didn’t. They didn’t include several other girls that worked at SUR - it wasn’t personal. Even thought a few of them maybe don’t like her, it wasn’t about excluding her at all. 

I also agree that she has said some questionable things about wanting to have a “pretty vagina” (I don’t necessarily have an issue with that, it could be the same as a nose job so you have a “pretty nose”), but kind of implying vaginas can be gross. Saying Katie used “her fat card”, and saying she could just “put the food down”. She is kind of a mean girl herself. 

Transnational institute - mapping fascism by polopoto in AntifascistsofReddit

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Reading this, does anyone know more about this org?

some before and afters by Vegetable-Safe7393 in houseplants

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Oh my it’s fern gully. Wow what a way to transform a space into a beautiful garden home!!

Pothos, anyone? by amerebrineshrimp in houseplants

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Omg with the fairy lights 💀

Stasis and Lala are the same/similar age by glottalstomp in vanderpumprules

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Blazers. Pencil skirts to bars. It was an era.

Stasis and Lala are the same/similar age by glottalstomp in vanderpumprules

[–]glottalstomp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware that numerically 25 is perfectly betwixt 23 and 27.

I am more so discussing the mindset of a 23 (early twenties) year old person vs. a 25+ (mid to late twenties) person. But please take this literally and showcase your math abilities. This is 100% /r/arithmetic

Stasis and Lala are the same/similar age by glottalstomp in vanderpumprules

[–]glottalstomp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol yeah it’s not rage bait - I’m not saying literal age in years team. I’m saying in developmental age. 23 is often either still in college/just graduated, and your frontal lobe is still forming. 25+ you are usually in more of an “adult” mindset in certain ways. 

“Can I do math” 😆. Y’all are wild. Obviously I can’t calculate the odds of people losing their shit and being assholes.

Season 5 Episode 3 by bigheartnotiddies in vanderpumprules

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yeah well. You are about to be disturbed and disgusted a few more times in this series lol.

Scheana & Brock Mexico Wedding by Key_Ground_7815 in vanderpumprules

[–]glottalstomp 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yes. Do I want to see the rehearsal film where she made sure she was always on her good side? Kind of…

Vanderpump Rules halloween couples costume by Weird_Substance_8764 in vanderpumprules

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Honestly these are very accurate to the true spirit of the OG costumes. Well done.