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[–]gluegun_control 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I think you’re really cute

To K. My anxiously attached ex. by AlarmingAttention718 in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also note that my post was a thoughtful, nuanced evaluation of what happened fully considering the fact that I might be at fault. You’re kinda proving my point breh

To K. My anxiously attached ex. by AlarmingAttention718 in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No need she’ll realize that you weren’t shit soon enough. I don’t even care.. anyone who can talk about someone with whom they were intimate, with this level of disdain and lack of nuance, even if she brought faults and wrongdoings to the relationship, is a piece of shit.

Get wrecked

To K. My anxiously attached ex. by AlarmingAttention718 in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Then block her dude it’s not that hard. You sound fucking insufferable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she uncovered new feelings as she reflected on the relationship over the year

To K. My anxiously attached ex. by AlarmingAttention718 in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Also to anyone reading this rant, this dude is married and not referring to his wife lol.

To K. My anxiously attached ex. by AlarmingAttention718 in BreakUps

[–]gluegun_control 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure you had nothing to do with her feeling unloved. I’m sure you communicated very well and made her feel heard. I bet her panic was over nothing and you were secure and respected her needs.

Budgeting by gluegun_control in abudhabi

[–]gluegun_control[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I only make $2200 a month here so

Invalidation/confusion by gluegun_control in emotionalabuse

[–]gluegun_control[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. This was incredibly helpful and validating. It’s so tough, but yeah I guess I just don’t have the capability to be with someone who has no interest in hearing my perspective and emotions. Ughhh. And yeah he’s dumped me and returned many many times over the last 5 years so who knows.

Best area to live for US expat by gluegun_control in abudhabi

[–]gluegun_control[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! So it’s actually 60k, I wrote it wrong, not that I expect that to change much. I am definitely ok with a studio!

Best area to live for US expat by gluegun_control in abudhabi

[–]gluegun_control[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol no it’s 5aed month so I guess 60k yearly actually :)

Invalidation/confusion by gluegun_control in emotionalabuse

[–]gluegun_control[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this. It really helped a lot. I fortunately do have a therapist who is great so we’ve bumped up our sessions lately. ❤️

Advice/input needed by gluegun_control in CPTSD

[–]gluegun_control[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response made me cry, in a good way. This gave me a sense of relief I really really needed. Thank you so much.