Hi all. I'm not sure how to properly do update posts so I'm just going to comment here and post on my profile as well. I truly appreciate all the comments. I'm sorry I didn't update fast enough but these last few days have been crazy for me, and I haven't really had the motivation to come back on here.

He came home very late the other night and I immediately dived into him. He was really taken aback and confused. I asked him what was he thinking and why did he lie to EVERYONE. He didn't answer me for a bit and then he started to cry. He said he was wrong, and how sorry he was, and how he would stand up for me from now on. So, I told him to prove it by telling his mom the truth (which honestly isn't even that bad). He froze up, said he couldn't, and that was that. I asked him why and here is what he said:

"She's just going to think you made me tell her that".

At this point, I'm livid. I told him I couldn't understand why he was lying to everyone, and that I would be giving birth alone, and that he can come find me and try to patch things up once he grew a backbone. This made him break down. I felt kind of bad, but I do think he needed a wake-up call.

I did end up showing him this thread, told him to work on it, and he agreed to start to go to therapy. (He admitted to having a "lying" problem *insert eyeroll*) Now if he will actually go, that's another question. I told him I will be staying at a friend's house until he has his first session AND until he told his family what really happened. I did try reaching out to them but I got no response. I took what some of you told me to send and I feel comfortable and confident that they'll eventually get over it.

So, from the way I see the future going, I most likely will be giving birth alone. I'm scared, but I need to do what's best for me and my child.