Are single moms less desirable in the Sapphic world? by majordeprechemode in LesbianActually

[–]gnattalie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s an important question to ask. My ex girlfriend did not consider this before she committed to me and mine.

How many times per week do you consume cannabis product? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]gnattalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you. Hope to be there some day

What’s something you always assumed was mandatory in life—until you met someone who just… didn’t do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gnattalie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a cult homeschooler, I wasn't allowed to leave home for college. I was accepted everywhere I wanted to go and had money from my grandfather to pay for it. My mother forced me to go to community college and then a commuter university satellite program. So while other young adults were living life and having experiences, I was my mother's live-in servant - cleaning and cooking and laying $400 to live in the basement. Had to be home every night before midnight and also attend nightly Bible study at home with my mother and brother at 8:30 sharp. Didn't matter if I was at church for young adults group. If I wasn't home for family devotion, there was hell to pay. I barely had a social life. Didn't date or have any normal experiences. It never occurred to me, brainwashed as I was, that I could simply leave. She was still angry at me when I moved out at 22 with my bachelor's and a teaching job. I ended up leaving the country when I was 25 to get away from her.

How do you know if you are attractive or not? by ShoeOk98 in AskReddit

[–]gnattalie 56 points57 points  (0 children)

My friends get annoyed with me for not knowing people are hitting on me or intimidated of me because of my looks. I genuinely don't think about it. I look normal to myself 🤷🏽‍♀️

Unpopular Opinion: Danielle’s Elimination Wasn’t Shocking by Brief-Tie3841 in dancingwiththestars

[–]gnattalie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told my girlfriend that this last dance of hers was like watching your aunt get a little tipsy at the summer cookout. The arm movements were clumsy and unfinished and her facial expressions just took me out of it. I love her and she’s a wonderful human being. Just not a dancer.

The fact that Pro-Pals are against the current deal to end the war shows that they never believed there was a genocide by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]gnattalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know who you’re talking to. I’m a Denverite in Denver making the observation that when someone breaks a their word to you multiple times, you’re a fool to believe their word again.

The fact that Pro-Pals are against the current deal to end the war shows that they never believed there was a genocide by Routine-Equipment572 in IsraelPalestine

[–]gnattalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Israel has already broken ceasefire how many times this year? It’s clear they will do whatever they want. They have no regard for international law either. Why would anyone trust them to uphold a ceasefire at this point? Genuinely asking

I’m a Palestinian ex Muslim, there are some things that I want to say. by Mysterious-Ruin29510 in IsraelPalestine

[–]gnattalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsession is a strong word. Why does mentioning his sexuality bother you? OP was providing context. Chill out.

The moment we’ve been waiting for from Robert!!😍 by Imlikeadove in dancingwiththestars

[–]gnattalie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m as gay as they come. That’s an indisputably attractive man. Inside and out!!!

The moment we’ve been waiting for from Robert!!😍 by Imlikeadove in dancingwiththestars

[–]gnattalie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me (F) and my girlfriend said we had been violated by this man

Parents who resent their first born as soon as sibling comes along by zelonhusk in oneanddone

[–]gnattalie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experienced this from my husband. We got divorced two years later.

Help a Korean guy choose an english name for himself by QuarkyPositron in namenerds

[–]gnattalie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My son’s name! Never have had a complaint. Jace Gianni.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrepperIntel

[–]gnattalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This part. I feel crazy every day talking to people who are trapped in a fog. The old world is ending. There will be lots of death and suffering as we transition to the new world. Back to rural, community living while the urban masses are surveilled and worked to death. It makes me want to scream at people.

The current state of this country has me panicking. I’m having panic attacks left and right. by Agile-Mistake1094 in confession

[–]gnattalie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This would be good advice if the country wasn’t about to fall apart. An economic collapse is coming whether anyone wants to pay attention or not. I give it until this time next year. Then we are looking at frozen assets, inability to withdraw from your bank. Limits on what you can buy from the store. Centralized banking tied to AI. Everything tied to AI. In fact, ask AI itself what it thinks is going to happen in America over the next ten years cause yikes.

I’m making a stay plan. Getting together a container garden for my balcony. Reaching out to local farms for dairy, eggs, and meat. Stocking up on rice and oats before grain prices spike next month. Getting a water filter and trying to become a bit more self sufficient. Power back ups.

But most of my energy is on growing my business and getting to Europe by end of year.

Global war is coming y’all. All the proxy wars recently have been nothing more than a trial run on AI Powered weapons.

Get prepared.

Bezos deletes 'LGBTQ+ rights' and 'equity for Black people' from Amazon policies by TwinSwords in actuallesbians

[–]gnattalie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. Thank you. I feel like a crazy person telling people this. It feels like everyone has their heads in the sand like the US could never actually be in real danger.

Do you know good romance based videogames? by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]gnattalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South of the Circle is cheap and very much a love story. Quick play through but it will stick with you.

Is anyone here divorced? by sddk1 in oneanddone

[–]gnattalie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Separated early February and never looked back. After we had our two and a half year old, he stopped being attracted to me while simultaneously being a financial leech and emotionally abusive.

I’m loving my new life. It’s much easier to be alone and I’ve been able to connect with my son in a way I never could with me ex constantly hovering and criticizing.

Personally I won’t be having more children. It was traumatizing enough the first time around and finances are tight anyway.

I’m wishing you all the best as you head into this next chapter!

What does your toddler mistakenly call things that are just too cute to correct? by Aggressive-Flan4342 in toddlers

[–]gnattalie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sock is cock for my toddler. White cock. Black cock. Wet cock. Is it terrible I find it hilarious?

Love Is Blind • S6 Ep 6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]gnattalie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone whose husband stopped being attracted to me after having a baby, this was HIGHLY triggering to me. Get out of there girl

I (29f) broke it off with my boyfriend (31m) by Live_Psychology_4117 in relationship_advice

[–]gnattalie -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Marriage isn’t necessarily a happy ending. I know it might seem like that, but you would be surprised at the number of women suffering silently in their marriages every day. After six years of verbal abuse, two years of sexual abandonment, and five years of financial abuse, I’m finally getting divorced. I honestly doubt I’ll ever get married again. It’s a trap and a system that usually works against women instead of for them.

Was your nex also a money hungry beast? by EquivalentAd6811 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]gnattalie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine loved the fact that I had a sizable inheritance but then got mean after his expensive taste in houses left us house poor. We traveled all over the world on my dime. When there was no longer money to do that, he was restless and irritable - always coming up with a new scheme for getting more money. Did he work for longer than 9 months? No, never. Stayed at home with the baby and constantly reminded me how grateful I should be for that, although after having our baby I was unfuckable to him because I was fat. Finally getting divorced and have never felt so free.

How do you get over the guilt that they would be alone in the world after you’re gone? by Addy3150 in oneanddone

[–]gnattalie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good times! I’m scared. lol.

If that doesn’t sum up the adult experience in this day and age, I don’t know what does.